Is it "too" abnormal for someone to feel like a little

>>17148267
There's a difference between Feeling LIKE a little kid, and sexually relating TO little kids.

One is ageplay, the other is pedophilia.

I'm going to assume out of the goodness of my heart that you mean ageplay, which means an adult pretending to be younger in a sexual setting.

Ageplay is fairly controversial. You'll do best by introducing first general Domination/submission and seeing the reaction. The people who are already into BDSM or have an open mind about BDSM will be more likely to be accepting of ageplay.

>>17148309
Well I mean like I'm not attracted to people my age.

>>17148319
How young are you talking? Sexually attracted to 13-17 year olds? Sexually attracted to 2-6 year olds?
If you're just an ephebophile and like teenagers, then that's easily dealt with. There are plenty of 18-23 year olds who look and act like teenagers. Hell, sounds like you're one of them.

If you're a real pedophile, please reconsider.

>>17148343
Please, seek professional help
You are sick, this is not your fault and you can fight it before you do something you will regret

>>17148343
>I have feelings for the age group of 2-6

You know how in films you see people tell other people that they need to take their feelings and bury them deep inside? This is one of those situations. You tell anyone this in the real world and they'll see your ass in prison faster than you can see, "But I haven't actually acted on it!"

Try and date midgets and hope to god no-one finds out about your fetish.

>>17148343
first of all delete this thread, second, start using linux + tor when you say these sensitive things, third, seek mental help

>>17148347
No one wants to help you. They either send you to jail or won't talk to you anymore.

>>17148352
Why cause the thought police will arrest me? One of my friends already knows. My self esteem is pretty low at this point ,I don't think it can get any worse.

>>17148359
This. Seeking professional help is kin to going to a police station and saying, "I'm at risk of molesting a child, lock me up!"

>>17148361
>My self esteem is pretty low at this point ,I don't think it can get any worse
Imagine if every single person you knew viewed you as a monster and you were being raped by Big Bucky the prison hotshot for the rest of your life.

Bury these feelings deep and if you ever think you can't keep the feelings buried just kill yourself.

>>17148380
I am the one who posted >>17148359
That . I feel like I don't have anywhere to go ,at least for this shit. I also legit hear voices. I'm thinking of killing myself. I'm not really serious about it now but everyday the idea of what my life will be like makes me want to do it a bit more.

>>17148361
>>17148399
you both seem like moral individuals, this is innate of you, thats why you feel bad

sadly the average joe see all people like you as harmful scum

take finasteride or somethin...

>>17148416
What does it do

>>17148431
it kills your libido.

and you won't get bald!

You could use antipsychotics but they have really nasty side effects such as diabetes and tardive dyskinesiaeven in medical doses.

>>17148431
men taking finasteride are at increased risk for impotence, erectile dysfunction, decreased libido, and ejaculation disorder for the first year of treatment.

pretty much insurance for yourself to make sure you wont harm a child if your self control wanes.

>>17148399
If you're thinking of killing yourself, and not thinking of raping kids, you might have a chance. Just remember this shit is likely a phase. Not a lifestyle. Not a personality. A phase. Fight it. The most likely outcome is it will pass. If you find it doesn't pass, suicide is always an option. Good luck Anon

>>17148267
Most pedophiles don't act on their preference and have relationships with women their age or none at all.

Most child molesters do it out of convenience, rather than actual attraction.

Clinical psychology and psychiatry is becoming more open to this issue as of late. Like this http://www.virped.org/
There are anonymous support groups and health professionals who specialize in it.
Personally, I'm sceptical of support groups. Especially without a therapist present, since they might enable each other. But the numbers disagree with my position.

Most pedophiles who cross the line follow the same patterns. Surround themselves with children but don't touch. Take interest in specific children and take and help them out. Casual touching. Hm, seems to be okay. A little more touching. And by then it's usually just down hill.
If you really are a pedo, you'll have to keep yourself in check more than others. Much like an addict. Never make exceptions. Never make excuses.
You are not alone with this. You have a disorder. That is all. Deal with it.
And if you really are younger than 18, you probably have a good chance to at least have some lasting treatment.

And if nothing helps, there is always chemical castrastion. This is a last resort, however. You'll probably not need it.

>>17148469
I'm afraid cause ci fantasize when I'm alone with a child who's family, she's 5. I think about groping her ( but I don't)

>>17148509
And that is why you need professional help.

For now just stop thinking about it and physically hurt yourself everytime you do.
Nothing big. Pinch yourself really hard. Have a rubber band around your wrist and snap it.

But do get help, bro.

>>17148509
take finasteride man... just take it, men cant control the urge...

>>17148267
Every single one of you pedophiles be aware that you have been fiddled as a kid yourself. Try to fix your own issues that arised from your own sexual abuse, concentrate on yourself more than anything else. Your issues will be no more after therapy and you'll automatically find yourself attracted to adults now.

>inb4 but I wasn't fiddled with
Yes you were. Repressed memories. Google it.

>>17148267
>Is it "too" abnormal
Yes it is. It's the most disturbing shit on earth and destroys healthy kids childhoods resulting them to fucked up kid fiddling adults themselves

>>17149421

Hello there mister armchair psychologist

I think you are wrong. Sure, there are many pedos who were molested, but just as many simply had a specific kind of childhood with unloving parents or bullying.

And then there is genetics - I found out my grandfather was a pedo who molested my mom.
And while I am not acting on any urges and have had plenty of adult relationships, I fantasize, dream and get urges about children.

I just control it with loli and shota and I am goddamn thankful drawn porn isn't illegal in my country

Btw I never met my grandfsther, so it's not like he molested me or anything

>>17149436
I'm op . I guess I could have been molested , I have allot of repressed memories from my childhood. I was bullied allot, by adults and other kids.

>>17149454

One of the best things tou can do to take the edge off your fantasies, is watching documentaries about pedo victims.
Those soul-crushed eyes quickly convince you that IRL stuff is bad.
And the molesters are always pathetic wimps that cannot act like adult human beings

Try not to be like that, it's a good start

>>17149436
>And then there is genetics
This is pure SHIT
>I found out my grandfather was a pedo who molested my mom.
Yeah. He fiddled your mom and in turn your mom fiddled you and/or he fiddled with his grandchildren.
Simple as that. There is no shit about genetics. If you were raised at foster care you would have turned out a perfectly fine healthy adult with genuine unsexual love to kids who are related to you.
>And while I am not acting on any urges and have had plenty of adult relationships, I fantasize, dream and get urges about children.
Yeah I know. Armchair psychology works, theres a reason to it you always hear the same. Because it's true. No matter if you want to accept it or not.

And there's no way for you to clearly remember if mom or grandpa fiddled with your parts when you were an infant or very little toddler. Accept that you are a victim. Take care of your wounds and you will be healed instead of taking care of the symptoms (repressing medication, etc)

>>17149454
>>17149538
This OP. Same goes for you. If you don't want to end up being a criminal and destroying other peoples lives, take care of your wounds instead of trying to repress the symptoms (lusting after children). You will be fine and attracted to adults automatically after you've healed. And yeah gather as much info possible about victims, gather as much info possible about your own past and as much info possible about psychology.
It's your first step to heal. Get therapy and help too. Not for being attracted to kids but for being a victim. Don't even mention that, because it's really only a symptom.

>When you've healed and fine, come back to advice and help others with the same problem
>?????
>profit

>>17149547

Look dude, I was most definately not molested by my mom (who was very traumatized and had night terrors because of it), and my grandpa was out of the picture before I was even born.

But I inherited his genetics obviously, molested my step little brother of 4 when I was 11 and furiously fapped to cp thread on /b/ back in 06-07 when that was still rampant here.

Then I switched to shota and loli because I don't want to go to prison.

Your repressed memories bullshit is bullshit, I have had other issues like bullying that are also part of the archetypical pedo and I have the genetics to be inclined towards it.

>>17149570
Look boy.
No kid in the world EVER gets the desire to use their sexual parts for their adult purposes without being ever shown to it.

That is a biological fact.

That means someone, your mom, the older neighbours son, your stepdad, whoever it was must have shown you how to use your genitalia other than for peeing.

Accept that fact. Try and remember. Who and what could it be that initiated for you to be sexually active?
And congratulations to the perpetrators for the Bullshit they've put on you, which made you even destroy your poor little brothers life......

>>17149582

Errr didn't they teach you about the flowers and the bees when you were a kid?

Besides, they had softcore porno on cable tv which I remember seeing when I was like 8
+ we used school computers to look at sex sites when I was 10.

You must come from some arab country if you didn't know what sex was when you were a small kid

>>17149597
Yeah, I'm from Germany.
You've had that talk with mommy that early? Wtf, that is very very inappropriate.. there are professionals out there who'd call that sexual abuse. And what parents allow the kids to watch softcore porn? Even if she didn't allow it, why the heck did she neglect to protect you from that junk?! Tv in kids bedroom and not making sure you don't see what kids aren't supposed to see... I can't believe it. Did she even love you....
And all the other things... Very fucked up environment.

Congratulations, you now know what went wrong in your childhood. Now get professional help to deal with it.

>>17149608
And remember if you ever have kids and don't want them to turn out pedophiles protect them from the things that kids aren't supposed to see (sex and violence).

Remember and accept that it's NOT about genetics.

>>17149608

I asked her like a kid would and she bought a pop-open book about how a life is creates, which showed a dissected penis going into a disected vagina and another pop-open part was the semen reaching the eggs and the next was the various stages of the child becoming bigger in the womb. Very educational and not pornographic or anything.

Yes she was not the best mother, she was an alcoholic and there were other problems

But you were adamant in me being sexually abused and that never happened, my childhood was fucked for other reasons.

And like I said, I fap to 2d pics now, and loli and shota aren't the only things I fap to, and I have had multiple relationships and plenty of adult to adult sex.

Still get the urges and the fantasies and the dreams, and I manage it and have never and will never abuse a child because I know how bad it fucks them up

>>17149622
>But you were adamant in me being sexually abused
Don't be so stuck on definitions. You get what I mean. Neglect is a form of abuse too. Anyways anon you seem to be a decent person. Don't believe you inherited some kind of disease from your grandpa. Good luck with the rest of your life, I hope you can turn open a new leaf and heal and lead a happy life.

>>17149632

Don't backtrack, armchair psychologist

You talked about repressed memories of diddling and you know it

Also, ypu talked about kids never doing sexual stuff which is a fucking lie - kindergarden kids play doctor games all the time, 'I will show you mine if you show me yours', etc.

I thought Germans were open about sexuality like us nordics what with your nudism and all, but hou probably come from a moslem family with those views you have

>>17149644
>You talked about repressed memories of diddling and you know it
Yes I did and you fucking know I'm right about it. I don't need to point every single shit out separately, your sick mom fiddled with your mind and that abuse too. Now shut your trap.
Healthy children sexual play is not even comparable to the abuse you suffered. What the fuck is wrong in your head to even want to compare that? Oh, wait I know already.

>>17149644
>'I will show you mine if you show me yours', etc.
Yes exactly. Not I stick mine into yours and you suck me off. There's a huge difference between those two.

>>17149667

You are being incoherent my anatolian friend

You should not come and try to give advice when you are wrong and backtracking and obviously don't know much about the subject except for strange ideas your imam put into your head

>>17149679
Go back to /b
I know I've helped OP and many other lurkers take the first step. That's the reason I am posting on advice. Not for you mister special snowflake.

>>17149684

You are not helping when you try to get people to find repressed memories that don't exist

OP admitted to having a bad childhood and being bullied, just like me, trying to cope with the problem and dealing with it is more relevant than digging around for false memories. You can fuck your head up if you try to remember stuff that never happened. OP is vulnable and reaching out for help, but an armchair psychologist like yourself brings more harm than help

>>17149679
And what did you do to give advice? Except getting defensive just like back then when you were the hurt unloved defenceless little baby?

>>17149701
>You can fuck your head up if you try to remember stuff that never happened.
Complete and utter bullshit. Are you really that scared of your own fucking mind? You really behave like a little kid. Well you definitely are if you were only ten when you first visited 4chan. You're probably barely adult now.

>>17149705

I gave the advice to look at documentaries about victims. CP glorifies 'harmless' abuse and make it seem nice, so a dose of reality is a good deterrence.

And I find it relevant to shoot down bad advice that comes from someone who has watched too much doctor Phil and believes he knows stuff.

Tell me, what are your experiences/credentials in giving this advice?

Personally I am a non-offending pedo that copes with 2d and willpower and has had regular relationships, and I believe that OP can do the same without pulling out false memories for no reason. He will still be pedo. He needs to deal with THAT.

>>17149644
Op here. Is it weird I want to show my 5 yr old niece my penis sometimes ? Or I want to teach her about puberty?

>>17149736
>Tell me, what are your experiences/credentials in giving this advice?
I've been abused at very early age by a 6 years older male cousin. I can't pinpoint my exact age, I think I must have been around for years old.
The abuse continued to the age of about 12 getting gradually worse of course. In the meantime being a victim not coming from a healthy environment (physically abusive father with gambling habits, late working mother) other kids around my age started doing sexual stuff. Yeah I can differ between innocent child play and plain adult actions. I tried escaping as much as I could but anxiety feeling dirty worthless and all that jazz makes you unable to tell. So all I could do is trying to fight it with my small and weak girl body. And trying to not get into the situation in first place (so not being alone in one room with em) but yeah sadly that was not always possible for me.

There was I time I suffered from the same thing in my late teen years. Suddenly I felt strange around undeveloped little teen boys. It was the worst. But then my repressed memories emerged, over a year of occasional breakdowns/depressions. After I tend to my own wounds over the course of years I felt fine finally. To finish I took about a year of therapy. Now I'm completely normal and everything in the past are only past memories. Nothing that hurts me anymore.

So yeah I do have my own experience which is the source of my advice.

>>17149749
Yes and yes. It's not okay so go to therapy. Immediately.

OP I think that you need to surprise these feeling deep deep down and try to act normal around friends. This is probably the best advice i can give.