How do I stop being so obsessed with being in a relationship?

I actually had this exact problem up until yesterday, when I got my heart broken. What I always found helps is doing something productive when you get those daydreams - I always found that I was more motivated when I was feeling that way. Go for a run, read a book, do something. Harness the energy of longing, you'll be surprised what it can do for you.

Also don't worry too much about relationships. There's a girl out there for you somewhere and you will find her someday.

>>17140767
Take THE red pill
Sandman and tfm to begin with

>>17140784
I'm gay and there's no man for me out there. Not one I'd settle for, at least.

They're mostly there when I'm at work or trying to sleep. wat do?

>>17140799
How do redpill when gay.

>>17140851
Kys
Superficial faggot

>>17141141
It's really not about looks, I just don't want to date someone I'd be better off without (and vice versa). Is it really too much to ask?

>>17141426
Your expectations for your bf may be fine, but your expectations of the relationship are way out of control. You are setting yourself up for inevitable disappointment or abuse.

It's not really your fault, though. Loneliness does terrible things. Best I can recommend is to put more emphasis on your friendships so you are more prepared for something more intimate.

>>17141499
I do have awesome friends. Like, a proper tightly knit group who do stupid teenager shit together - driving two hours to a specific gas station at 2 am for shits and giggles for onion rings and so on - and I wouldn't trade that bunch of manchild weeaboos for anything, but it's not the same.

Chances are I would've already killed myself without them.