I literally cannot cum at all during sex yet I can literally

>>17119397
death grip google it and stop fapping

>>17119404
I don't masterbate with a that tight grip, and I've tried to cut down my fapping to 1-2 times a week. Is this still to much?

>>17119404
Not always the case really. I suffer from a similar thing, never used a "death grip" and I masturbate really rarely. Even once didnt even touch my private parts in a month in an attempt to cum during sex, but nope. Came close a few times, but it just didnt happen.
Sex always ends up being something where I do my thing for about 30minutes, the girl says its starting to hurt, finish her off by hand and roll over to sleep.
The funny thing is that sex itself feels really good, but I just cant orgasm no matter what I do. Its probably a mental issue at this point and its what made me give up on sex aswell as relationships. Turns out Im happier without that stress, but any slight urge for sex or a relationship is turned off when I remember that its never going to be worth the hassle.

>>17119423
glad to see i'm not the only person who has the problem? are you also unable to cum with blowjobs or handjobs?

>It's really starting to bring me down I literally can't see the point of a relationship if I can't cum without finishing myself off

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Same issue happens to me. It's also hurtful for the girl, since she actually thinks "maybe I'm not good enough / maybe I don't excite him that much" which can be troubling on relationships. Glad to know I'm not alone on this one.

First off, sex is a completely different sensation from masturbating.

Secondly, the more you worry and stress over this the more that stress is going to contribute to your lack of orgasm. Focus on what feels good in the moment, focus on having sex that you enjoy rather than making orgasm the goal and getting frustrated when you don't reach it.

Basically it's the journey, not the destination if you wanna get really simple. Eventually you'll be able to cum, I think you might just need to learn to relax and not worry over it.

Obviously a physiological issue. Try talking to someone (preferably your gf to relieve issues) about it.

>>17119397
tons and tons and tons of preliminaries, worked for me. Don't penetrate until you think ur going insane.
That worked for me