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Why am I not in love with my girlfriend? She is crazy about me,

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Why am I not in love with my girlfriend? She is crazy about me, we both have similar goals, we laugh at the same stupid stuff, she likes my favorite band, tells me how great I am, she's beautiful and cute and cares about my feelings when I'm down. She's nearly perfect, but I feel like spending time with her is a chore.

The only reason I can think of is how we rushed into sex. We've been dating for about a month and we started having oral sex 2-3 weeks in. She constantly wants sex, which is awesome in one way and exhausting in another. 3 days ago we had sex twice within a 5 hour timespan then in the morning she gave me head 3 times within 8 hours and then we had sex again later that night and when I came absolutely nothing came out. I can't keep up and it feels like every time I see her is a booty call. I want to be able to have fun with her and not spend most of the day muff diving to the point where my tounge is numb. Shes been with 4 other guys before meeting ne and (of course) says im the biggest and best but I want to be able to just cuddle or watch a movie without being expected to perform. It also feels slutty and thats a turn off for me. I'm a huge fucking faggot who is terrible about speaking up though.

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Yeah dude, she reallyyyyy wanted to give you those blowjobs, she totally wasn't simply doing it because she thought you might want those. Girls love giving blowjobs
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>>17117213
I do!!!
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>>17117213
No, I know she was dong it to try and make me happy but I didn't want to hurt her feelings and say I didn't want it then.
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>>17117204
Just tell her, dude. Don't be a push over.
"I really appreciate this, but can we slow down just a bit?"
Maybe you just don't have the level of energy she does. That's okay. Tell her it would mean a lot to lay on the couch and have a relaxed cuddle. There's nothing wrong with it.
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>>17117219
will you be my gf
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From someone who is married and also knows a few women with a high sex drives.

It's possible she's just really, really into sex. This happens, and isn't uncommon.

But OP, you need to communicate. Communication is the basis of any strong relationship. Sit down and talk to her. Lay your perspective on the table for her to see, and let her talk about her own perspective. She might be doing it because she feels obligated but it's also possible her sex drive is just high. Talk about how you feel obligated. Make sure she knows it's not because you're unattracted, but how you drive just isn't as high as hers.

Listen to both sides of the problem and work out a compromise everyone is happy with. It may be a good idea to invest in a sex toy for her.

You can also be intimate and sexual without penetration or the goal of an orgasm. Sometimes one of you is horny while the other isn't. If this is the case, one of you can get the other off, or the horny one can masturbate while you are in the same space and being intimate. Essentially you help each other get off with no obligation for actual sex. This can keep disparate sex drives and the desire for intimacy satisfied without putting pressure on anyone for performing.

Also, protip for sex toys: you get what you pay for.

I'll be around for a bit if you have any questions.
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You're cumming too often.

In your young twenties you should try to avoid cumming more than once every four days. That will give you optimum energy. Four days of not cumming and you'll be able to cum, stay hard, cum again, and stay hard still.

But I have a lot of sex with my gf, so I don't follow that rule. I just go based on:

>Do I have enough energy to cum tomorrow and do the things I need to do right now?

>Should I just focus on her tonight?

>Would it be worth it to have a decent orgasm now or a great orgasm tomorrow?

also never masturbate. Save it for your gf.

Trust me m8. Stop cumming so much, you don't always HAVE to cum during sex.

Plus not cumming as often/ not looking at porn ever makes you way more attracted to your gf.
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Just dropping in to say I suck cock and love it.
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>>17117413

please see >>17117232

Unless you're a dude, of course
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>>17117219

Is this you, Jade??
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>>17117413
What's it taste like?
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why dont you trade gf w me since i wanna fuck my gf every day it seems and she goes for like 4 days straight and then says wants a break. we dont even date anymore. i just go over there to fuck her smoke her weed w me and she cooks me food and i leave. im ok w it
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>>17117639
I'm guessing like any other skin but with sweat on it
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