/adv/ am I fucked? I'm nearly 21 and I feel like there must

>>17093564
>I am young and I don't do the same stuff my friends are telling me they are doing.
>Am I bad?
Yea man, you are seeking self-worth through your friend's deeds. That is a sign of your lack of confidence or missing life goal.
Have you ever considered what do YOU want? Because comparing yourself with your friends will get you only so far, but not into your life goal.

>bla bla bla missing girlfriend bla bla my friends all girlfriends
First stop dragging others into your problems.
Secondly, if you are male and want gf, YOU are supposed to chase them. This is how it works.

>never matched with even a single person
Wow man, I have a tip for you: https://www.quora.com/What-can-you-do-if-you-dont-get-any-Tinder-matches
maybe you live in bad area for tinder
maybe you look ugly :-D
maybe another millions of reasons

>wat do?
I would start with deciding what do you expect from your life. And I guess having as many gf as your friends aren't one.

>>17093636
But I know what I want out of life. I go to the best university in my country, I study computer science and I want to be a software engineer so that I can afford to buy my own house one day. And I want to have a family, and hopefully be able to raise my kids outside the city because it's not very nice for that.

I have pursued women. They tend not to be interested in me, and I'm very shy and take rejection personally even though I know I shouldn't. I'm just saying that it seems that so many people have stories about how some cute girl approached them, or how people approached them, etc. and that has never happened to me, so I feel like I must be ugly or something.

Holy shit, all those men in that quora article have such good jawlines. I can't compete with that, haha. I actually don't care about Tinder, I just hoped someone there might like me instead.

>>17093661
>so many people have stories
Yea, the word story is important, because it can be a fairytale, not accurate documentary.

>cute girl approached them
Either your friends are magnets for girls by being 9+/10, they lie or they live on different planet.

There is no telling if you are ugly unless you post some picture.
Just take the girl hunt in your own hands and start the hunt. If your friends are such magnets, go to the actions with them and you can catch some too with a bit of luck.

>>17093701
I'm not entirely sure you understand. My friends are all in relationships, and I'm not interested in hooking up. I want to find a long-term partner, but people who think like me, especially young women who think like me, are a rare breed nowadays because of the way western culture is.

>>17093716
You don't need advice.
You know what you want and that sounds like a plan to me.

>of the way western culture is
Bullshit. There are 9999+ people who have 9999+ views of life. You just need to find the compatible one.

Go live your life anon. Good luck!