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How into comfortable with sexuality

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>be me, 21, 6ft, good career, good looking, dress well, confident but recovering from years of social anxiety and sometimes not assertive enough.
>2 days ago
>go out with our girl group of friends to go bowling, drinking etc.
>everyone hooks up with one of them except for me and one other chick
>the other girl who is cute and might be into me tries repeatedly to get me to stay and hang out with her
>mostly think she just didn't wanna be left alone when everyone else is having sex but her
>don't stay cause tired and awkward and not confident in my sexuality anyway

After two unsuccessful sexual experiences and being around women who are much more sexually experienced than I am I can't even imagine trying something because I don't want word of my inexperience getting around, or ruining the friendships I have cultivated. And definitely not confident enough in my abilities to actually try something with any of the girls I've talked to off tinder. I feel like my female friends regard me as asexual.

tl;dr how into sexual confidence as a virgin? male?
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>word of my inexperience getting around, or ruining the friendships I have cultivated

Talk to a therapist about these elaborate nonsensical scenarios you have made up in your head to sabotage yourself.
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>>17016198
I love my female friends but they can kinda gossipy and I like having them as friends. But yeah, I self-sabotage alot.
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>>17016198
fuck, that is elaborate and nonsensical, I gotta stop flooding my mind with nightmare scenarios.
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Word of you banging the chick would supercede that of your inexperience.
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>>17016705
Thats a damn good point.
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>>17016191
>21
>much more sexually experience than me

Yeah, no. You could be a virgin and the only people who are going to be more experienced in a meaningful way would be people who literally fuck for money.
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>>17017121
How is that true? all I've done is finger a chick and some dry humpin/makin out with two other chicks. Meanwhile these girls have been around the block, are sexually active on the regular etc.
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