My ex and I have been broken up for about 4 months now. We ended

>>17015493
wait for it to pass.

why did you end it? any chance of it working?

Let it pass. Don't look back, OP. You ended things mutually for a reason. Looking back will distract you from the now.

Failed relationships are practice, nothing more. Did you play any team sports as a kid, or study for a test? You don't go back and moon over or reminisce about practices and studying for exams. Your past is practivce, nothing more, nothing less.

>>17015501
We were just at different points in our lives. I just graduated and she does not have a job. She wanted to get married and I was not as I was not financially stable. I went to a different state to do an internship and she did not agree with me. She thought I was being selfish, but I wanted to provide for us and our kids. She was also 2 years older than me. I'm 22 she 24.

Also, I wanted to be marry her, but in about 2-3 years. She wanted me to propose in the year, and if I didn't, she would've ended it with me. That was an ultimatum by her.

Sorry but she kind of sounds like someone who was trying to lock a comfortable life down. Probably best not to contact then.

>>17015498
>>17015510
>>17015588

Thanks guys, I will not text her. Would there be any appropriate time to give her a text? Just to check in and see how she is doing?

>>17015615
No, you only do that if you're still interested