>meet girl through Tinder >very nice, has a good career

And your question is?

>>17012094
>I know that the majority of people who are obease never get thin

d-don't say these kinds of things ;_;
>tfw fat gf trying to slim her down

>>17012143
That's not true anon

>>17012094

ur not a bad person

>be me
>looking for a hottie
>nice toned man offers to come over
>he comes over
>hes fat
>right at the door i say 'sorry but im not interested'
>send him right back

i dont know how he thought that would work he was super fucking toned in his pics and then more than chubby in real life. you are not obligated to fuck a nice personality.

>>17012094
She's just as bad as someone misrepresenting herself. You'd be doing yourselves a disservice ignoring this though. It's bothering you so it IS important for you to being this up. You're not responsible for her hurt feelings. You ARE responsible for communicating and establishing your boundaries. That said, just don't be a dick about it.
>>17012143
Hopefully you're slimming her down in a positive way. Making healthy diet choices with her, encouraging an active lifestyle for the both of you.

>>17012155
Poor guy must have been on a bulking phase and you thought it was all fat :(

>>17012408
"If you can't handle me when I'm bulking, you don't deserve me when I'm shredded"
-Marylin MonBro

>do the BDSM style sex
>call her "fatty" and "cow"
>say you didn't mean it and it was just for the show
>she feels bad and tries to lose weight

And your problem is...?
Also you're not a bad person for not finding someone attractive, and weight goes into that equation

>>17012096
How do I tell her to lose weight without being evil

>>17012094
I've never wanted to fuck a cheeseburger before