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>be me
>19 yo female
>in love with a friend even tho he has a girl
>keep fantasizing about him and feeling guilty for wanting him even tho he already has someone
>I've been feeling this way a whole year it doesn't wanna stop
what do i do
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>>16948284
Get away from him.
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>>16948289
I can't. He's my friend. We also are in all classes together
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>>16948284
Find another guy.
Meeting other women and spending time with them has always helped me move on.
Sure the first guy you meet may be lame as fuck, but give him a chance and he'll either grow on you, or you just find another guy. Keep repeating until you meet your new Prince Charming.
Don't get sucked into the "I want him because I can't have him" logic
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>>16948302
I've tried finding other guys but it hasn't worked and it doesn't help that the guy I'm crushing on is the one who helps/comforts me when things with other guys don't work out
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>>16948309
>the one who helps/comforts me when things with other guys don't work out
Stop this immediately. Don't confide relationship stuff with him.
You're not give other guys a fair chance if you are keeping up a strong emotional bond with this other guy like that, you don't have to break all contact but make your friend ship more casual, like a friendship between two straight guys.
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>>16948316
He's a really important friend to me though. I couldn't just do that to him, that'd be awful.
I don't confuse in him but he knows when I'm dating someone new because I date people we both know (this is by chance) so when he hears they don't work out he comes to me to help me through it
it's not like hugging and "you'll be okay" stuff, it's more "hey sorry that happened, that's shit" and "you're the best ok? You're the best"
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>>16948326
Confide* not confuse
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