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I've posted before but didn't get any replies.

>19
>girls think I'm hot
>decent grades (also accepted in an ivy league uni)
>/fit/
>read good books
>president of student council

however ... really autistic with girls. For a long time I have had a huge approach anxiety (I don't care if I'm rejected, just scared to approach). And when I do approach or a girl or get a date, I feel like I'm not the "alpha" that I've always aspired to be.

All memes aside ... What can I do /pol/?
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How do you know she thinks you're hot if you never approached her?
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>>16946753
I have some girl friends that tell me that it's weird that I don't have a gf since I'm good looking
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>>16946753
That's actually what most autists think. They think girls like them but they're single because they're shy.
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>>16946754
Pics OP
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>>16946752
This isn't /r9k/
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>>16946752
>>>/r9k/
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>>16946752
fuck off to /r9k/ faggot this place is only for ugly looking betas and failures only

>ree
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Stop being a faggot op.
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>>16946752
Gas the kikes
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>>16946752
Off-topic and /b/-tier threads will be deleted (and possibly earn you a ban, if you persist). Unless they are quality, well thought out, well written posts, the following are examples of off-topic and/or /b/-tier threads:

>Red pill me on X. (with no extra content or input of your own)
>Are X white?
>Is X degeneracy?
>How come X girls love Y guys so much?
>If X is true, then how come Y? Checkmate Z.
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>>16946752
>I've posted before but didn't get any replies.
this is a politics and world news board not autismo generals

>>>/r9k/
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Doesn't belong here but whatever.

The problem is that in your mind, there is a disconnect between the person you know you are and the person you are when around girls.

Something is blocking your expression of self, and it's something from within, and only you can determine what exactly it is.

A common cause of this is shame. Many people secretly feel ashamed to approach women for various reasons, like you're bothering them, or you feel like a dog who just thinks about sex. But there's no reason to feel ashamed (unless your intentions are actually cruel and predatory) because you find them attractive, and you know that you'd make an attractive and caring partner, and maybe meeting them will be good for you both, and if not you'll just go your separate ways with no real harm done.

But it could be any number of things and you need to really examine your own feelings and locate the source of your hesitation. Talking to a professional or someone you trust can be useful for this and fuck anyone who says it's touchy-feely fag business, it's important. Failing that, try meditating in a quiet part of your house where you feel calm, preferably near a window, or outside. Pay attention to your breathing and focus on what's going on in your body when you think about approaching a woman.
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>posted before but didn't get any replies.
take a hint and fuck off
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>>16946757
>>16946758
That place is pretty beta. I feel like they gonna say "just believe in yourself anon" and shit like that. I have a problem and I want to deal with it asap
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>>>/r9k/
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post a pic of yourself so we can know if you are actually hot
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>>16946752

Quit furiously rubbing your cock to digital images of women you porn-addict beta faggot
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