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Why do I develop crushes on random guys? I have a boyfriend and

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Why do I develop crushes on random guys?
I have a boyfriend and I am sick of being like this. I have never cheated and would never cheat. The only thing that bothers me about my relationship is that sex is a bit weird. He is never hard pre-sex and only gets hard after some heavy foreplay (he warned me a few months into the relationship that he has this issue because of porn in his younger days) which is a bit of a turn off for me. Apart from that, we are great. Could this be the reason for my wandering heart?
I want to stop having small pangs of lust or endearment towards others while I am meant to be in a monogamous relationship.
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You can't stop being a slut, Anon, it is part of who you are. All you are doing now is living in denial.

Embrace your sluttiness.
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>>16945522
>I want to stop having small pangs of lust or endearment towards others while I am meant to be in a monogamous relationship.

You can't stop them. You just learn to not act on them or mentally indulge them to the point that they grow.

I'm happily married for 8 years, never cheated, and I see/talk to women I'd like to fuck that aren't my wife daily.
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>>16945534
I don't want to do that.

>>16945535
I guess it's similar to a guy finding other women attractive. That makes me feel better.
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>>16945522
First off, you are polygamous.
You are the very person I avoid in a relationship.
Secondly, his ED isn't the reason you're eye fucking other guys. It's because you don't see anything wrong with it. You're cancer.
You're the reason for hundreds of years, women were kept locked up in a house.
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>>16945544
Why is a male having the desire to fuck attractive girls any different to this? Is it because it's a vagina and not a penis?

Hypocrite. You are the very person I would warn other girls about.
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>>16945544
>You're the reason for hundreds of years, women were kept locked up in a house.

You're the reason that for hundreds of years milkmen had the time of their lives.
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>>16945544
You are the reason why women wear burkas.
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>>16945544
Humans are naturally polygamous.
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>>16945542
If it's just lust, just don't give a shit about it. It's only a matter of discipline. If it's more than lust and you feel that others give you or understand you much better than your boyfriend, then you should think about what's missing in your relationship. Crush is usually falling love with your imagination about a certain guy. What's missing in your relationship that those other guys could provide and you like so much?
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>>16945522
Maybe you should subscribe to one of those breeding programs, you know where they strap you face down and ass up on a padded bench in a comfy room with nice music and let a bunch of STD screened attractive healthy men take turns slowly pumping your tight pussy until they each leave their load gushing down your thighs.

I think they even give you a gift card or something like that.
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>>16945522
>>16945535
What this anon said.
It is perfectly normal.
You seem to be more troubled by the very idea of having those feelings, rather than the actual fear to act out of them.

If you are able to let them go, and understand what's the best for you in the long term, nothing bad should happen. I now it's a vague statement, but I hope you get what I mean.

Is your boyfriend aware that sex life is currently not that great for you?
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>>16945522
>Why do I develop crushes on random guys

Your vagina is hungry for baby batter. Your body is hearkening back to the caveman days when all the men came home and had sweet, messy stress-relief time with your pussy once you became of age.
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>>16945550
>>16945552
>>16945556
>>16945559
"oh shit, someone has just called me out on my polygamous whore bullshit. I REPEAT, THEY KNOW I WANT TO FUCK MY BOYFRIEND'S FRIENDS AND NEIGHBORS. b-but they surely must be wrong, and everyone must have the same polygamous attitude as mine despite me seeking advice for why I have it in the first place. What should I do? That's it! I will just drop some ad hominem out there like it's hot. And what better way to do that than to double down on the smack talk. There is no way she could be right about the epidemic of women developing cynical whores holding loveless marriages, au contraire this poster is made of straw he he. *visibly sweating* i-i sure hope she gives up, so I don't have to actually refute her original arguement. b-but no one will see that i-i hope....ᵒʰ ᵍᵒᵈ ᴵ ᵈᵒᶰ'ᵗ ᵗʰᶦᶰᵏ ᴵ ᶜᵃᶰ ᵏᵉᵉᵖ ᵗʰᶦˢ ᵘᵖ ᵂᴴᴬᵀ ᴴᴬⱽᴱ ᴵ ᴰᴼᴺᴱ ˢᴼᴹᴱᴼᴺᴱ ᴾᴸᴱᴬˢᴱ ᴴᴱᴸᴾ ᴵᴹ ˢᴾᴵᴿᴬᴸᴵᴺᴳ!"
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>>16946057
tldr
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>>16946284
WOW DOUBLE BACKFLIP!
I did not see this one comming, and here I was thinking I would get away with it, but alas, the passage I typed was too long.
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I feel the same way too, but i'm a guy. I just can't help it to feel so attracted to other girls other than my gf.. and my gf is perfectly fine, but i just want to be with others too..
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>>16946293
You are so weird.
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And btw op, this is perfectly normal. Just don't act on it.
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>>16946434
Woho, talk about 1 step forward and 10 steps back.
I'm wierd; you win? not likely, pal.
As long as there's no one to refute me here, I think I'll accept my award as best and irrefutable advice lender.

Hope that helps, OP.

Stay frosty senpai.
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>>16945522
>Why do I develop crushes on random guys?

Insecurity.
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>>16946293

tldr
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>>16946872
tldr..
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>>16946905
>>16946980

Dust at dawn. There's wreckage everywhere, and I can just barely see my hand an armslegnth away from my face.
I thought to myself "how did this anon wreck me so hard, and how could I possibly recover from this anal annihilation?"
But there were no answers, only soft echoes of a forgotten cause to cleverly disarm a more intelligent anon's argument gone horribly wrong.
"Could I possibly forget the day where anon ripped me a new one?" I thought to myself as I began searching for a glimmer of hope on the horizon.
"I am blind" I whispered softly to myself. "I can no longer read. Everything is tl;dr."
I then pondered at the absurdity of such existence I kept.
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>>16947047
tldr you are so beautiful though.
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>"I want to fuck other women ALL THE TIME. It's my GOD GIVEN RIGHT to watch porn and go to titty bars, otherwise I might rape a stranger or cheat!"
>woman has feelings she's not even comfortable with, gets called a whore

Male logic.
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>>16947530
Never said it was fair. Better luck in the next life with getting the correct sex.
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Perfectly fine Op. Your bf faps to porn and his erections go elsewhere...your heart fluttering for another every now and then is ok.
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>>16945534
>>16945534
>You can't stop being a slut, Anon, it is part of who you are. All you are doing now is living in denial.

>Embrace your sluttiness.
Kek
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