I'm in an LDR with a girl. It sucks, so bad.
I'm giving myself anxiety almost every night that she's fucking some other dude. And she probably is.
Problem is I'm scared that she is my last chance or something. I actually thought she was special, or something different. Naive for sure.
How can I end this and get over it? I'm not exactly killing it with the ladies in the city I moved to a year and a half ago. Girl wants me to come visit her in Pittsburgh, but I feel like it's a bad idea to waste the money and get myself further into this situation.
How can I bail and remain emotionally intact on my end? I'm scared I'm going to be making a huge mistake.
>>16944176
You can decide your own reaction, man.
If you don't want to be with her, make the decision. It'll hurt, but you'll recover if you want to.
You can't get out of this with no damage, that's unrealistic.
You don't own your girl's body. get over that now.
How old are you?
>>16944181
too old to be doing something foolish like this.
I know I'm being manipulative and probably terrible. I just have to figure out a way out.
>>16944180
You're right. I think the sooner I remove myself the better. I'm living a fairy tale and it's totally unfair to both of us.