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How to help a NEET?

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Ok, so here it goes: my bf is a neet. How do I help him to become productive member of society again?
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Meet with him in the local park in the evening every day and do lectures about different things.
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kick his ass out. He will adapt or die. Problem solved.
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>>16942734
That's actually pretty solid
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>>16942766
LOL, right, women lecturing men really helps solidify any relationship. Obviously never been married.
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>>16942775
maybe they meant lectures as in seminars/presentations on different topics. that would actually be pretty useful.
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>>16942651
I think the more pertinent question is how did a NEET get a gf?
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>>16942780
Use Freud and Jung
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>>16942782
Before he become an antisocial loser, probably
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>>16942780
Even then seems naggy. Getting him out of the room/home is a great idea, but rather than lecture why not work with him on some long-term goals, show him that his current lifestyle is unsustainable?
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>>16942651
>how do you make his lazy ass get a job?
give him no options if your house is rented "fake pregnancy" scare should work. cos if thinks he has knocked you up either 1 of 2 things will happen: he will get a job or leave either way problem solved
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>>16942844
Or he will commit sudoku.
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>>16942782
>>16942810

I just got a girlfriend who's as antisocial as I am. Though I'm not NEET by choice
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>>16942825
Sounds like a good idea.

On related note: I don't even know what tone I should use. Nagging doesn't work, obviously. Setting example just makes him compare himself to others. Saying positive stuff neither makes things worse, not better.
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>>16942775
Obviously never watched NHK ni youkoso
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>>16942651

Just take care of hiis well beings
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>>16942850
you mean seppaku. not japanese number puzzle.
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>>16942857
Honestly, if you baby him and tiptoe around the issue nothing will change.

What he really needs is a brother or a father or a mentor to say "this shit just isn't working".

Are you sure he's unhappy? Is he living on savings and likely to be homeless in a few months? Or is he living with you and you're paying his way?
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>>16942890
I'm living on my own, and he lives with his parents.


>>16942844
I'm not gonna pull any of this fake pregnancy shit, that's literally the most retarded trick a woman can do.
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>>16942913
Well, you can't force him to have ambitions for his life. Did he lose his job and just fall apart or something? Can his parents do anything or are they too retarded to do anything useful?

If he's not even considering his options, then he's probably not worth the effort. Whether you want to keep him as a lover is your prerogative, but don't wait around for him to turn into a good partner you could build a life with.
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