Can't get hard?

man, do you watch a lot of porn or something?

but please tell us little about yourself?

>>16942323
oh and more info:

I'm not fat. Kinda sedentary though, pretty depressed and unemployed right now.

I was able to cum both times but with a soft dick, and it kinda was just "meh". Second time I was forcing myself to try to get hard so much that I was ale to make myself cum pretty quickly (<10 mins) again with my hand and while soft...

>>16942330
At times i can get pretty addicted to porn yeah. but that's a temporary thing usually. I havent been much into it last few months. But yeah i guess i do have some fetishes I am probably trying to get over.

I'd always kinda had trouble cumming before, so this new thing is kinda weird. As in sometimes I wouldn't be able to cum but be rock hard and sometimes would have to finish by hand after the girl got tired out. Never was one to last little either,

>>16942346

hmmm im no expert with this, "my 2 cents : i think its s a mind thing. You are currently at "rock-bottom", so your mind is super occupied. So imagine your penis has a connection with your current life situation, fix the bigger picture, everything should be back to normal

>>16942362
yeah maybe you're right. This new problem is kinda pushing me over the edge to suicidal.

>>16942374
sex can happen at anytime. But you can only live once

>>16942362
tell us more about your experience with this "rock-bottom" feeling you received, anon.

>>16942392
I guess so, thanks.

>>16942438
me? the OP?
I have no job, no education, my gf(fiance actually) broke up with me, now i suck at sex, I hate where i live, and I'm down to 1900 dollars for my life savings. I've struggled being depressed since middleschool.

>>16942457
yep, sounds like you need a good reboot. If you can, i would see about totally moving somewhere different or even take a vacation, to clear your mind.

i think if you stay, things might get desperate, and you might do something you regret later.

make a list on what you want to change, and work on it. first, would be either a small vacation or a job (to continue living)

>>16942496
I actually went on a month long vacation not that long ago. I think i ended up feeling worse, idk why. I did a lot of drinking.

Thanks, I know i have a ton to fix. Just don't know how, or if I'm able to right now being pretty unstable.

>>16942521
well start of small, little step will always create a big piece of a puzzle. you are still young, plenty of time to things to change.
Is there anyone you can speak to near you??

>I believe in you man

>>16942535
Just family I guess. Or my ex.
Most of my family doesn't care though. I got in a fistfight with my bro last month. Dad's never cared, maybe my sister and mom? Though I told mother I was in a pretty bad place the other day and she didn't say anything back. We're not a close family.

>>16942562
oh and well, my sister lives an hour away. And i guess i should also say my brother is in pretty bad shape himself. He's a semi recovering drug addict.(meth, heorin, weed, xanax, opioids, etc)

>>16942562
>>16942572

oh wow, i feel waay outta my depth here. i wish i could physical help you but i think i would get lost.


Im surprised if you had this problem from middle school, why didnt you get in treated?
You might say having a gf helped or "was a filler" until everything exploded

>>16942584
yeah no worries man, thanks for the advice.

I didn't get treated because well, mental issues was kinda like i guess taboo in our family. You're just supposed to bottle shit up i guess. I also lived in a small town where we were seen as "others" due to us being immigrants.

I'm sure the gf thing was filler, I met her just as i was dropping out of college. Haha i guess it's just been constantly downhill from then, when i still had a viable chance at making something out of myself. I was on a straight A student with a free ride scholarship, but i guess mental issues got in the way of that then too.

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>>16942323
It's because your depressed. Your weiner is depressed too. You told me the problem, now I am confirming for you.

>>16942700
I was worried it was something else because I've been depressed on and off for years and it'd never affected me.