How do I overcome feelings of negativity around myself and a

>>16941862

Also related to pressures on the date like:

>she'll think I'm boring

How do I make asking someone out/dating a not stressful thing?

Pls teach me how to not give a fuck.

>>16941862
>>16941868

Pls respond

There's one very important thing you need to realize op. Almost everybody has those thoughts. There might be a handfull of truly confident people ouy there but i never encountered one of them. Just imagine: that pretty girl over there? She might have crippling body dismorphia. That cutie sitting next to you on the train? She might think YOU are too good for her. Most are insecure and ponder over their flaws. Use that to your advantage. Learn to read people. Try to understand what they worry about. Then don't missuse that information but instead help them to feel better about their problem areas. Tell that girl she has a cute smile. You will prob make her whole day. Invite that girl to a cup of coffee. She will always think back to that incident with a smile. Don't just do it cause you want to get your dick wet. People can sense this. Do it cause you know how sad it is to think so low abouy yourself. Do it cause it would make YOUR day if a girl randomly did something like that for you. I guarantee you that if you do this genuinely you will get your dick wet before you know. Good luck op!

Bump.

I'm at the same point as you OP. The last girl I asked out ended up going out with my boss. At this point I'm just not approaching anyone.

>>16941862
Try and you may very well fail.

Don't try and you will definitely fail.

>>16942111

>le insecure female meme

Look I'm not saying girls don't have problems but don't give him false hope. With an army of beta orbiters, bfs on tap and 6000 friends the average girl has no real issues.