How do I figure out my qualities? My good sides, my strengths, whatever makes me stand out in a positive way?
As far as I know, I have none. For weeks, months even I have been trying to figure this out with no result.
I tried asking others. Friends gave a half-hearted "you're a nice guy" and turned the mood awkward, and my mother broke down apologizing because she literally couldn't think of a good thing about me. That's why I'm asking an anonymous line-worshipping board filled with robots. Asking others only made it worse; for me and for them.
>>16941751
What do you do for fun?
What do you always seem to get stuck with doing?
What do you do in general?
I'm a dull guy but even so I feel loved.
I think its just that i built a network, I am always around.
>>16941854
I'm going through my eleventh year of high school, because I keep failing the damn thing. I can't get a job because I can't figure out and write down why anyone would ever want me.
What I'm stuck with doing? Chasing my friends, asking them to hang out/do X activity and hearing their excuses. Other than that, I play immersive open world vidya, watch films and series, and try to read and learn to play guitar but never get in the mood to. Lift a bit too every now and then.
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>>16941906
Here is my shit and over the top interpretation on your "good qualities", hopefully it could help you write down your CV.
>Chasing my friends, asking them to hang out/do X activity and hearing their excuses.
I'm an easy-going person, full of new ideas and like trying out new things. I can deal with rejection, even then I'm still up for any activity that challenged me.
>Other than that, I play immersive open world vidya,
I'm not afraid of competition, I play with various people and sometimes I win, sometimes I lose. I also like to get a hands on experience on new technology (implying that immersive-ness is you using an oculus rift).
>watch films and series,
I took inspiration from many sources. The depiction of reality and it's twist is what I enjoy.
>and try to read
Books always fascinates me, it's a way to communicate and learn about the world within each pages.
>and learn to play guitar but never get in the mood to.
(desu, this sounds like bullshit. I'm gonna skip this)
>Lift a bit too every now and then.
I'm aware of my appearance and health. I try to build some muscle not only to look better but help me through my everyday.
But I don't really know you and I'm just making things up. When you believe it long enough, eventually you will be what you think you are.
>>16942615
That actually makes sense. It's somewhat extrapolated, but aren't all profile statements?
Still troubled by how much I should try to keep the truth in there, but your post has been eye-opening. Thanks.