so I like this girl, she's great but she's also not

>>16941628
you like her, that's great, now just put a bag over her head and problem is solved.

>>16941628
At least give her a chance. What if she has a wonderful personality?

>>16941640
>personality
lol

>>16941639
Get two bags, one for you in case her's falls off.

>>16941628
Break with her. She deserves someone less shallow than you.

>>16941643
>a wonderful personality
>she
LOL

What do you have to loose?

>>16941628
Let it go, you're still a child with a lot of growing up to do when it comes to relationships.

>>16941640
she does, I'm just not sure if Icould be in a relationship with a girl I don't think is that beautiful

would I look at other girls?
would I undermine her confidence?
I don't know

>>16941648
kek

>>16941759
if she wasn't such a nice girl I wouldn't care, I jost don't want to break up with her for whatever reason later and the writing be on the wall that it was because she wasn' good looking

>>16941657
>>16941838
"personality is everything" is a very beta view
it matters to everyone, jusst some people arn't aware how it affects them

As a male that spends a good amount of time daily in exercise and general upkeep on looks I have gone through this

As long as you are at least somewhat attracted to her the more you get to know her personality the better she will look to you over time.

As you get older looks will mean less and less

If she needs to work out or just isn't into make up maybe you can ask her to do some of that stuff here and there. She might get pissed or other people might think you're fucked up but as someone who spends 1+ hour every day working out, following men's fashion and grooming tips, getting regular haircuts and shaving everyday I don't really think it's a big deal ask a girl to wear a dress and make up once a week on a date