Going to tell my girlfriend that I got a girl to send me nudes

why would you do that?

>>16935932

What the hell is the point of this?

I don't know if you are trying to get her jealous or trying to mind fuck her lol. I suggest don't do it.

Do not fucking do this unless you like making things hard for yourself.

>>16935932
First question: did you in fact get a girl to send you nudes?

>>16935932
She might get mad and one day try to do the same thing to you. If not, maybe she will do it in a different way.

OP here. Basically everybody told me I should (some were people from adv) and that I was essentially cheating. I didn't see it like that when I did it, but now I'm feeling guilty.

I'm hoping that me and her will be able to define what cheating is, that is if she doesn't dump me.

>>16935954
Me and a girl was just casually talking for a few days and she sent a clothed picture of herself. I told her to send one without her shirt and she did it. I don't know the girl, she's a random off the internet.

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>>16935978
you're a grade A retard kid

>>16935955
I don't care. I don't see anything wrong with it, so if she did it to me I wouldn't mind.

>>16935991
>if she did it to me I wouldnt mind
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>>16935991
You crossed the line from porn to personal interaction. Thats whats wrong with it.

>>16935998
I didn't know that was really a thing. I'm not defending myself. Just trying to explain my thought process.

>>16935997
I'm just not insecure. As long as its not someone she knows IRL, I couldn't care less.

>>16936009
bruh trust me as soon as it happens, and i hope it never does, your opinion will change.

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goddamn OP you're a retard

>>16936018
I don't think it will. Its the same thing as porn to me.

>>16936029
except just like what >>16935998 said, it's not porn when you're actually interacting with someone. porn stars already have their content out there, you didn't personally request it. you're making a connection with someone platonic or otherwise and you're getting something personal from them, like nudes. i'm not yelling at you or whatever because you didn't/don't see anything wrong with it but that's where your logic in this is flawed.

OP from a personal perspective, if my boyfriend did that I would be somewhat upset. Even if I was okay with it - if we hadn't discussed it yet or what our boundaries for cheating are yet, I'd be sad that he just went and did it anyway. She may be okay with it, she may not be, but this topic should have been something you discussed with her first.

>>16936029
Ok, go for it. This lady needs a way to get away from you, and this is a great out.

>>16936064
I'm not defending myself. I'm just saying that's how I would picture it if the roles are reversed. Obviously I'm not gonna do it again unless she gives me the greenlight.

So should I tell her or not? I'm confused.

>>16936098
Yes you should tell her.

>>16936085
Hi Sexy.