I'm having some relationship troubles and I'm not sure

>>16935289

This sounds like a really horrible situation that will only get worse if you move in together. It's going to be a burden on the rest of your life.

What are the positives to this relationship besides "she's nice and we get along well?" There should probably be a lot more to it if you're willing to anchor yourself to this the rest of your life.

Is it an ex boyfriend or ex husband? Does he know you two are seeing eachother? I've known quite a few baby-daddies who have purposely caused problems for baby momma's new family... not paying child support, taking baby momma to court for no logical reason (To the tune of around $1500 every time, almost every time right before the Christmas season), and making unexpected visits to the house to cause trouble/drama. If she can't support herself and her kids, and their father does not contribute, you will be picking up the slack for baby momma and baby daddy. Doesn't sound too great to me.

>>16935303

I used to have a huge fear of driving and wouldn't drive anywhere besides work and back home. My parents didn't really teach me how to drive well and what I did learn I taught myself. When I started dating here, she would ride with me for 3 hour trips just to learn how to get to her place. She was very patient with me and I appreciated her for that, and I looked over her problems because I had my own. Now that I can drive better her problems seem way more apparent than they did before.

>>16935318

ex boyfriend. he's usually out every weekend seeing his girlfriend thats in town. I think he's just kind of a manchild because from what I hear he doesn't take care of his car and blows his money on video games. I honestly feel like it's a bad situation that I've been ignoring for way too long.