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Infatuated with coworker/friend for years...

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Hey guys. I need some help here...
I graduated 3 years ago with my engineering degree and landed a job far from home shortly after. Moved to a place where I knew no one but with high hopes I would get a new pep in my step after the pain of college. Shortly after starting work, I found and started being included in a workgroup of other newly hired engineers and I became closer friends with 4-5 of them. One is this girl.
I knew I wanted to spend more time with her right away. We are very similar and I am never nervous around her. She is shy but outgoing. Great sense of humor. Patient. Smart. I then find out she began dating another guy within the 4-5 person group. Heart somewhat broken, but I honestly was okay just being around her, even in the group setting, as it was x100 better than sitting home alone. Over the years, I've been slowly breaking down though. I read to try to break away from the group to make things easier. Also read never to tell either him or her what I feel. We have spend solo time together many times and it is some of the best times I've had in a long time. I've sort of converted this frustration into a drive to workout and improve myself in many ways. I will eventually return home and fantasize about telling them both shortly before leaving, dreaming that she will tell me she felt the same. Sorry for the TLDR story. I could go for hours.
Any recommendations on what I should do? How would they react if they knew? Anyone else been in this situation? Thanks.
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This exact situation happened in real life to an old friend of mine. I am a life-long knitter and my advice was simple to my friend, who asked me because I'm always happy, was simply to learn to knit.

do it it helped him. then join a knitting society. best girls knit, i swear.
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>>16932782
>knitting
Disregard this advice, op.
Cuck that nigga.
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>>16932789
I think about that often too. The risk that it would backfire is definitely not worth.
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>>16932805
Alternative is to suffer from lifelong sadness and loneliness.
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>>16932767
Do have anyone to talk about her to? Like someone who can tell why you like her so much or are you just keeping this all to yourself.

Does anyone know you like her and can you talk to them about it?
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