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I only get romantic interest very rarely. Since I'm nearing

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I only get romantic interest very rarely. Since I'm nearing my mid twenties I really want to have a boyfriend before I get old.

There's this guy who wants to get together with me but he's into comic books and nerd culture and stuff and it's really offputting. He's also indifferent about sex.

I feel like another chance won't come around but I'm wondering if I can ignore all those off-putting things
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>>16930720
don't settle for a dude you don't like, other dudes will see that you're in a relationship and will backoff even though you're not happy with your current BF
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>>16930720
You don't like him. Don't begin a relationship out of a lack of options, ever.
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>>16930725
But there are no other dudes...
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>>16930730
Get a cat.
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>>16930732
I have a cat.
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>>16930738
Then give her lots of love. Or maybe get another cat.
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>>16930741
Cats aren't boys anon.
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>>16930720
If you don't like him nothing good will come out of it.
You'll end up hating each other most likely.
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>>16930730
7 billion humans on this planet
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>>16930743
about half of them are actually
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>>16930730
Where the hell do you live?
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>>16930720
>doesn't like men that are ito nerd culture
>posts on 4chan for their help
OP pls
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>>16930768
there are no other dudes...interested in me. I thought that was obvious.

>>16930771
London

>>16930772
There are plenty of people here who aren't into that shite.
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>>16930720
pic related? ill take you
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>>16930777
Haha I wish. That's a young Gisele.
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>>16930720
beggars can't be choosers or just rot in loneliness op
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>>16930775
Then you need to work on yourself. Create a reason why someone would like you.
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>>16930775
Literally the only people who would come to 4chan for non nerd-culture reasons are cancerous edgelords
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>>16930775
You can't find one suitable guy in a city of ten million? What's wrong with you?
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>>16930841
The guys I like don't like me back. And a guy will like me in a romantic way maybe once every several years.
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You're still so freaking young. You have at least until you're 40. After that, I'd call it quits. Seriously, you can't force these things. It will happen when it happens. You may be considered "unapproachable". It happens to even the prettiest of women..sometimes guys need a little nudge to let them know you're interested.

Long story short, you have your entire life ahead of you. When you stop worrying about this sort of thing and focus on YOU, that's when shit starts happening. Be patient.
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>>16930844
What have you tried so far? Where have you talked to guys? How many, how often? Do you ever go out to events or bars? There are loads of guys out there.

Is there something special about you that you think makes you unattractive?
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>>16930720
Never settle, you'll wind up hurting yourself and him. It will also probably have a huge impact on him, since he's crushing on you. You sound like you're in high school still. Everything changes after high school. You'll probably meet someone then.
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>>16931712
> 'I'm nearing my mid twenties'
> You sound like you're in high school still. Everything changes after high school

why do none of you stupid niggers on this board read the question? its literally the second sentence
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>>16930850
>You have at least until you're 40.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
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>>16930850

>mid-twenties
>female
>still so freaking young
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>>16931794
When do men stop being so freaking young
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I have a feeling this thread isn't going to go anywhere in terms of a resolution.
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>>16932106
What makes you say that
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>>16931718
Because some people skim posts, anon. No need to throw the N-word around over that.
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I think you deserve each other.
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>>16930808
fucking this
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>>16932102

Not until their dicks stop working, and there's Viagra now, so pretty much never. that's just the way it is. Most healthy men can still conceive children well into old age. Women have menopause. There's no male menopause except death

It's not political, it's not social, it's biological
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>>16932244
Not just that, but it's fucking just not the same biologically when it comes to basic physical attractiveness. I'm 35 and I can honestly say that from puberty to the present day the number of 20-year-old girls interested in me has just gone steadily up. I don't do anything different or care about my appearance more now than I did when I was 17 or 20. Hell, I don't even make more money than I did at 23, in real terms.

This just isn't the case for a 35-year-old woman, AT ALL. 80-90% of women my age look downright fucking haggard. Many of them, married or single, get incredibly salty when you point out to them that there's no earthly reason why I would ever want to date anyone my own age -- but it's just plain truth. Why the fuck would I? There's nothing you can bring to the table at 35 that makes up for being 15 years older. Nothing.
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>>16932285

Men generally hit peak attractiveness in their 30s-40s. For women, it's all downhill after 25.

that's why you see all these loser guys here bitching about how "women can never be lonely" - they're like 19, and all the women they know are also 19, so they haven't seen the tables turn yet.
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>>16932293
My african relation!
This is my point exactly. I mean, I don't delude myself that I'll never become bald or just old and ugly in general, it's just damn obvious that the peaks are in different places (and if we're honest, it's longer for men in general).

>that's why you see all these loser guys here bitching about how "women can never be lonely" - they're like 19, and all the women they know are also 19, so they haven't seen the tables turn yet.
Agreed 200%. In practice there's a huge oversupply of 18-24 men because the women are dating older on the whole. Those men could theoretically fuck 35+ women, but most of them also wouldn't touch it with a bargepole. Hardly entirely their fault.
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>>16930775
What are you interested in? You could boost from that.
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>>16932293
Ok, so if I'm 22 and women of all ages ignore me, tables turning and me fucking all the 35 year old women when?
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