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I am super insecure about being a black guy /adv/. I actually dislike it tremendously.

Socially, I feel that a lot of people have such gripes about black people(understandably I guess).

For example, I want to date this mexican girl but obviously her parents would fuck me up and fuck her up if that were to ever happen. I have a hard time dating because I am not a stereotypical black guy.

It seems like a lot of women want that stereotype. They way I see it, why would they date me(I am basically white guy "lite") when they can just actually date a white guy and not have any weird stigmas fucking shit up.

I feel like crap and my confidence is in the shitter. Someone hold me. I honestly feel that being black is really shitty from a social standpoint and in terms of likability.

Are there any women here who would even consider dating a black guy? I don't even know how most women feel about black guys. I went to college for four years and didn't have one date. Granted, I didn't really ask any girls out because my confidence was shot.
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>>16926026
Are you just black or are you a nigger? There's a difference.
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>>16926026
Dude, fuck that. Have you asked this chick out? Don't assume it won't work because of your own issues. See if she wants you, not if you want yourself.

>>16926038
Did you even read the OP?
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Theres not a lot to do about it. It's just the world we live in.
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>>16926053
It's a bit tl;dr honestly.
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Being black sucks, it's the world we live in.

Not much you can do about it. If I were black, I'd probably become a black radical just so I could feel like I was beautiful and the rest of the world had the problem. I'd date other black radicals.
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>>16926078
Ok, but you didn't even try to answer whether you did or didn't.

I'm just dying for me, personally, I assumed I was undateable because of my own issues. When someone showed interest in me, I realized those were my own personal issues and not anyone else's, they shouldn't stop me.

If you think people think weird shit about you being black, I get that. But it doesn't mean they actually think that, you know?
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Step one, ask her out.
Step two, if she says no. Whip your nigger dick out and make her say yes.
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>>16926026
Ask her out and if she says no pull the race card and slander her reputation as a racist whore.
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>>16926038
there is a difference, but in the field of dating, they're the same thing

Black people give black babies left with a single mother AT BEST, and at worst, beating and murder of you

As an Asian-American, I don't date black people, at all. No crying about racism is going to change it either.
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its ok anon, we can watch naruto together
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All the black people I know who complain about other races not dating black people, will not date black women. Seems like they know how shitty black people are.
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>>16926090

OP here.

My dick is 5 inches erect. pitiful.
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>>16926139
so fucking true
>why wont people date my race even though I wont date my race
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>>16926270
$20 that OP doesn't date black women either.

What say you, OP?
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>>16926302
he'll probably just lie or make shit up since its more convenient
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>>16926270

honestly, black girls are for the most part not very compatible with me and I am a black guy! I just really dislike the the upbringing I guess. Also, most black girls tend to have some weird fanatical support of anything and everything black despite how shit or unshit it is. Whenever you see on the news about a crime involving a black person, the first people they interview are balck women screaming "THEY DIDN'T DO ANYTHING! INNOCENT!"

Also, I am very indifferent to a bunch of shit. Someone could call me a nigger to my face and I wouldn't care. Most people see that as weakness and black women apparently don't like weakness.

People often confuse weakness and not caring.
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>>16926139
>>16926270
I'm black
I used to be like that and realized the problem with those people its the generalization of ALL black men/women as being some type of ghetto trash because you can't relate to them because you come from a different socio-economic background

it's not a race issue as much as it is a class issue, but if you don't interact with black people very much its hard to differentiate, but I can usually figure out who's who really fast

I don't have a better way of describing it but I've met plenty of black girls who "act white", which basically they aren't ghetto trash
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>>16926308
>>16926311
> honestly, black girls are for the most part not very compatible with me and I am a black guy!

HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA
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>>16926302

I am open to dating black women but I haven't met one that i really would like to date. I did meet one half black half white girl who looked mostly black but she turned out to be very "BLACK POWER" zealot like. I hate that shit.
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>>16926319
> but I haven't met one that i really would like to date

OHHOHOHOHOHOHOHOH HHHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAH

Black men who cry about racism in dating (ie, why won't non-black let me stick my disgusting black cock in them) are so predictable
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>>16926311
hahahahahahahahahahahahahah
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>>16926311
>>16926314
>>16926319
so this is the kind of shit blacks tell themselves to justify not dating black women

while at the same time not understanding why people wont date them

worst race ever
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>>16926311
>>16926319

> why don't white/hispanic/asian girls like black men? das rayciss
> no black chicks tho
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>>16926343
at least they realize that the other races dont like them, a lot of blacks are convinced that they are highly desirable
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>>16926361
They think they are desire able, thus the indignation when other races reject them. If they knew they were a bunch of dark, hellish dindus, then they would accept their status. They might even start to date black women.
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you're on 4chan so that might be why you self hate, it's hard to unlearn this stuff. You're black so you know you need tougher skin to live life, a lot of people have, will, and do fuck with you for being black. They might even have stupid science to try and make you feel bad for your skin, fuck that retarded noise.

The shit you said about black women is something racists say about you, "I'm not racist I just don't like these ghetto black guys" or what have you. Unlearn that black people are undesirable. This world is filled with 7 billion people and there's a lot of blacks there.

You won't do any good for yourself until you unlearn this internalized racism. As a black man, people try to make you answer for your entire fucking race, and that's horseshit. It's something all minorities face however.

Lastly, no one will date you if you're a pussy. Don't be afraid to live life and ask out that qt Mexican girl. Dick her hard with your 5 inch and feel proud. Also, protip: why would you give a shit about your dick after you fuck a girl, I mean you already fucked her so just get out of your own head about penis issues.

Good luck, don't listen to annoying racist trolls, you got this.
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>>16926340
are you funposting?
because I can relate I can guarantee 100% OP feels fucked up because he feels stuck
>he thinks black people are shit OR thinks everyone not-black thinks black people are shit
SO
>he thinks he's not worthy of dating non-black women because he thinks he's a black shit
AND
>he thinks he's too good for black women cause they're all black shit

OP I wish I could help you, but I don't have anything more to offer than the cliche "get out more", there's plenty of likable non shitty black women and enough black-______ interracial couples that can help with your negative thought patterns and low confidence
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>>16926392
>stupid science
>internalized racism
lol
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>>16926026
OP, the problem here is WOMEN. White women only want thugs to pump and dump them meanwhile they'll turn down any minority man with self respect. They're all whores deep down. Black women are high test as fuck, and destroy relationships along with refusing to show submissive behavior.

Get a Latina,Arab, or Asian gf OP.
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>>16926487
most asian women would literally rather suicide than bring on the shame of a black man
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>>16926493
Asians are the most racist of all. They hate blacks, and they have no slavery white guilt to hold them back.
>>16926132
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>>16926501
yeah its surprising when blacks think that asians would like them because "both not white," asians hate blacks more than any race on the planet

dating a black is likely to get you straight up disowned by your family and most will say it outright instead of hiding it like whites do
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Black people are ugly af. That's probably why no one dates them.
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>>16926504
This

Just join BLM and kill and rob whites in the streets, they're Satan's children and would do it to you given the chance, op.
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>>16926521
They don't even date each other. Black men don't want black women
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>>16926536
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>>16926501
Arabs are racist as fuck against black people too.
They hate Jews even more, but they generally view black people as sub-human.
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>>16926521
This.
Not trying to be racist, black people can be nice, caring, talented and all. But you don't want the first person you see in the morning is someone whose facial features you can hardly see.
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Oy vey, did I end up in /pol/?
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>>16926597
fuck off, nigger
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>>16926544
Is this credible? At least post where it comes from.
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>>16926608
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/race-attraction-2009-2014/
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>>16926606
I'm a kike, though. I was using oy vey deliberately.
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>>16926634
I suppose I should have guessed you were a traitorous Jew. Black people aren't educated enough to know the reference to "oh vey"
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I wish i was black
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>>16926026
Try dating non-shitty black women? They can't really judge you, Carlton.
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>>16926544
God I love being a blond haired blue eyed tall white guy.

All the minority pussy.
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>>16926768
tfw blond hair blue eyed and 6'5 but too shy to realize my potential
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>>16926771
You're taller than me, congrats you hungry skeleton.

Try going to a foreign country. That's what I plan on doing if US and Canada keeps going so anti-white. Better to be fetishized than killed by dindus and allah akbhars.
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>>16926026

Have you actually considered dating a black woman?
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>>16926806
He has considered it, and he's concluded that he doesn't like black women.

>>16926311
>>16926314
>>16926319
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>>16926825
>He has considered it, and he's concluded that he doesn't like black women.
How awful are black women, anyway?
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>>16926833
I suspect they're like every other woman, only black
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>>16926839
There must be a reason black women are uniformly considered undesirable.
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>>16926780
I get a lot of attention I just cant act on it, and every time I do act I fuck it up really badly which makes me wait a long time before trying again
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>>16926853
How hard can it be? Show interest.
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>>16926842
Okay, the truth is, black people are in much greater proportional, low quality individuals. So much that it seems uniform.
99% are fat, loud, rude, law-breaking, drug dealing or smoking, rap listening, welfare leeching, single mother/deadbeat dads ghetto trash felons.
1% are law abiding and educated.

The proportions in whites/hispanics/asians are perhaps 20% and 80%, give or take a few percentage points. Trashy black women outnumber trashy white women 10:1.

However, trash white and a trash black are comparable levels of trashy, with the black woman being more trashy because of her skin color.

If you find a good rare black woman, like Stacy Dash, then it's comparable to a white woman.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E36TsgfENog
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>>16926857
I dont know I try to show interest but when I do it just seems to turn girls off, its like they want me the most when I'm not paying any attention to them
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Holy fuck your thread got a lot of negative attention.
I am white, and would have no issue dating a black guy or girl. Or any race for that matter.. So long as I enjoyed their company and found them physically attractive. Admittedly, I dislike the "ghetto" types of people (of any ethnicity). I find myself incompatible with people of such personality types usually.. But that doesn't have anything to do with skin color. I bring that up.. Not to generalize black people.. But because other people have mentioned the ghetto stereotype and one anon suggested that most women only like people that fit into that stereotype.. So I figured it would be benificial to you to know that is not the case with all women, seeing as you don't identify with that stereotype.
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>>16926930
If you get with a black man, have fun with your STIs and/or being a single mother to a niglet, who has 4 other half-siblings from 4 different mothers
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>>16926314
I hate the term "act white" you mean act like a civilized human being?
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>>16926026
Become a black intellectual without going full we wuz kangz and you'll be fine OP. Nobody wants to fuck a guy who wants to rip off his own skin.

I'm a black guy and I've fucked plenty of white girls on the basis that yes, they're racialised(Racist if you wanna call it that) by your standard. Some girls I played up to the thug stereotype, some girls I played up to the black-but-he's-different stereotype by blasting them about politics. At the end of the day, both those things are part of who I am, I'm political and I'm used to being around thugs and I enjoy being around thugs too.

What I'm trying to say is, OP, you have to embrace being black so that your actual personality strengths can shine through the malaise of self hate and so you can inform people what they think about black people. The other day, at a wedding, a blonde Australian cheerleader from the most whitewashed area I've ever been to in my life, tried to get in my pants after what was simply an enjoyable and alcohol infused wedding reception conversation. Was this because she liked 'black chocolate'? No, I can guarantee she's never actually MET a black person before she met me and I made a solid impression.

I know you're the kind of black guy that hates how stupid we are as a race, who hates how violent we are and how the worst of us bring us all down. Be the change man, be the guy who gets 4chan racists making the definition between 'black' and 'nigger'. And don't do it by being 'white' you house boy do it by being a stand up and successful guy.

tl;dr you can't go full MJ so stop worrying and start helping our race prove to the world we can be solid, reliable and successful. (White) Pussy(what you obviously care the most about) will come soon after.
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>>16926860
and the funny thing is the black community shits on stacy dash because she's "acting white"

she's trying so hard to elevate her race while the vast majority would rather keep the status quo
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>>16926976
Sure sucks to be a black woman.

All the successful black men only enjoy being with white women.
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>>16926944
0/10
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>>16926984
Its a slow process but the change is coming, more and more black people are starting to critique their race in general for its bullshit and more and more of them are getting a large following.

Its not the first time. Way back after slavery the first big movement was the Bookerite movement which touted education as the way to gain equality and respect with the white majority. Of course, racism back then was a lot more entrenched than it is now so it failed miserably. If it happened again, and we saw more successful black businessmen, academics and so on(instead of merely sportsmen and musicians), not only would it be great for the quality of life for many people, it would be the final step to squash the idea of blacks as sub-humans compared to the Eurasian races.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Booker_T._Washington
And some examples of this black on black criticism and higher expectation.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XjzLdTGNKkg
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YuJOGwloO6o
And for good measure, even a thug nigger
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e67jAApgoM4

But look, is it a matter of class and keeping the working class down? Who knows.
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>>16926990
>All the successful black men only enjoy being with white women.
Honestly I've observed more of the opposite. I've seen more black women with their shit together than black men leading them to date outside of their race.
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>>16927011
Blacks are indeed a sad race.
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>>16926990
There are attractive black women, very attractive black women in fact, but it sounds like OP doesn't want any of them. Also, considering there's so few black people, there are very few hot black women due to per cent's and population.

Look at asians for example, I'm not into asians so the only ones I find attractive are usually mixes. I've only ever seen one full blooded asian I found gorgeous, much like I've only ever seen one full blooded black girl I found gorgeous.

Oh and they're often way too SJW to be enjoyable company.
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>>16927032
Yes, and why doesn't OP like them? It's because they are undesirable.

What he doesn't realize is that the black skin they both share is undesirable. What he finds unattractive in black women, other races find unattractive in him
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>>16927039
Black men's unattractiveness comes more from social stigma. Black women's comes more from looking overly masculine and brutish.

I might just be lucky with who I've met, but I've never felt that my black skin has made me innately undesirable in any way that can't be undone with a good, enjoyable and well articulated conversation.

And even if my skin did make me ugly to all, I've seen fat fucks and ugly bastards with shit jobs draw in insanely gorgeous women(both black and non black) and hold onto them for long term relationships.

I just don't think OP should get down on something as trivial as the colour of his skin.

Anyone who says skin colour isn't trivial is an SJW or a racist(the two are far from mutually exclusive).
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Jesus Christ not everything is about race.
Did you consider it may be because you're undesirable for other reasons?
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>>16927058
OPs post is specifically about his insecurity about his race.
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Look at it this way, OP.

As a member of the most undesirable race, as shown by every dating website's responses, the vast majority of non-black people that would date you are just chasing a fetish. Any that show interest in you, despite you acting full-on Uncle Tom, are decent people who are into you for who you are.
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>>16927051
See, OP? If you work hard and study in school and get a good job, you too can land a white girl.

Note: pls go, black chicks
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>>16927051
>Black men's unattractiveness comes more from social stigma
no black men are really fucking ugly, you are just delusional and not self aware like most black men
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>>16927058
in a nut shell OP is black and wants to date a girl that is not black

so yes, everything is about race, and OP is being ridiculous

>how come women of XYZ race won't date a black dude

>i'm black, but I don't want a black girl cuz lol gross
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i dont care about skin color nor should you
im white though so i guess i have the privilege to not give a fuck
and the thing about steroetypes seems like youre just a lonely nerd who is trying to blame insecurities on skin color rather than your inability to talk with the opposite sex. get out more and get laid, stop worrying.
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>>16926392

Bernie 2016!
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>>16926026
I am Ecuadorian and I'm dating a black american guy that's not the typical black gut either... I think they're call "light skin" or something. I think black guys are hot and even more if they are more than rap and gangsta life. There are girls out there anon, just be patient and they'll come to you.
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honestly as a white female the nerdy black guy ideal is something I chase after
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>this thread
>Black people only exist in America
When will this meme end
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>>16927163
The OP is clearly from a country where black people got the shaft, of course that would influence the tone of the thread.
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>>16926555
>They hate Jews even more, but they generally view black people as sub-human.
Not the same kind of racism. Arabs think (know) Jews are smarter than them and hate them as the slave hates the master. On the other hand like you said, they think black people are subhuman and don't really hate them, it's the same attitude the English had toward pretty much all colonial peoples (excepting the Chinese basically): the benevolent/irritated attitude you have toward a mentally retarded guy you have to take care of, or toward a stupid dog.
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Man I didn't even know Arabs hating black people was a thing. I've had several Arab friends and they've always treated me very kindly, like we've been best friends for years. I guess ignorance really is bliss.
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>>16927432
Well it doesn't just run in the blood man, it's about the culture. If they're Arab but grew up on a hiphop culture in US or a French banlieue before radicalization they won't give a fuck, probably will think of blacks as the same as them even. Some Iraqui FOB or rich-kid from Qatar though, forget it.
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>>16926026

To be honest, throw that shit off of you. You won't get anywhere letting a people group's stereotypes limit you. If you want people to think differently of you than what they see at face value, act different and work for it. No one's gonna just hand you shit for free, but I guarantee that no one who's worth a damn is going to think ill of you for putting in the effort.
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>>16926026
some people would want to be black. remember that before u'r black u'r a human being.
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I find it funny it if OP made this post w years ago, there wouldn't be any issues or immaturity ITT.

He came here looking for help, not to hear you guys vent about race.
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>>16927429

You sound like an Israeli. Arabian military incompetence in the modern age doesn't detract from the fact that the arabs and arabian institutions/empires has progressed humanity more than any jewish counterpart.
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>>16928065
He can't help that 95% of non-black women are going to reject him immediately for his skin color, and rightfully so.
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Do i count I'm light brown?

Also I'm always seeing dark niggas fucking white chicks and the sort.

Its the proper black chicks that bitch about black guys not going for them.
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>>16928345
One drop rule. You're as black as the coal black niggers
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>>16928072
>You sound like an Israeli.
If you'd talked to any unwesternized Arabs you'd know I sound like a guy who's talked to unwesternized Arabs.

>Arabian military incompetence in the modern age doesn't detract from the fact that the arabs and arabian institutions/empires has progressed humanity more than any jewish counterpart.
What the fuck are you even on about? Is this some sort of dunehumper counterpart to WE WUZ KANGS? In any case your weird historical dick measuring contest has pretty fucking little to do with the ideas and attitudes of Arabic people these days, whereas Israel has a great deal to do with it.
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>>16926026
>im really insecure about being straight haired, can a stright haired person even ask out a currly haired person without being acused of hairracemixing

>Straight haired people have so much racism

Can you see how an arbitrary physical trait has nothing to do with who you are. How repeating the same Concepts over and over and over again endlessly ends up creating an illusion that's not there at all. Race is an illusion and A lie that is false it does not exist. Yeah I get that people are racist but race doesn't even exist and skin color is just an excuse the hate people. Just ignore them they're not worth it it's better to just be an individual a person and just live your life okay.

Just be happy and ask out people who you like. Live your life then get off of the internet and 4chan for a while. When you walk in the real world you realize how irrelevant that type of shit is

Just live your life how you want to live it
Just live and be happy!
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>>16928423
Ignore that pol troll
Just be you anon, if you want b****** you be confident
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>>16928116
>95%

Can you stop lieing, you cunts are minority
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>>16929213
> dat denial
If the majority of women were open to dating blacks, OP wouldn't have anything to be insecure about
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If you're insecure about being black, the best thing you can do is stop browsing 4chan
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>>16926026
I never know how to act around black people. Well actually, that holds true for people in general but many of the black people I've met seem to put their skin color(culture, whatever) before their personality and that adds an entirely new level of anxiety and tension like I have to be extra careful not to offend them but then my awkwardness offends them anyway and they think it's just because they're black but it's really just because they want me to care that they're black.

Black people who don't give a shit are some of the awesomest people though imho
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