My ex-girlfriend did some shitty shit to me before we broke up a month ago, but I never told her how bad she made me feel and we're still theoretically on good terms. I'm meeting up with her next week to exchange some stuff we left at each others' places before the breakup.
Part of me wants to call her out on her shit and part of me just wants to drop it and walk away. I honestly don't know what would make me feel better. At least if I told her about things that she did that made me unhappy she might not do them in future relationships? What do I do /adv/?
bumperini
>>16921297
Move on, I would say. You're no longer involved in her life in that sense, and I guess it would be good for her to learn from the past. But it's not your responsibility anymore, so you shouldn't feel obliged to let her know.
Good luck though.
>>16921363
I guess. To be specific, what she did was meet up (apparently just "as friends") with a couple of dudes from Tinder while I was out of town and not tell me until after the fact. When she told me about this I was so surprised that I didn't react, but honestly it makes me really angry. I just want to tell her that I think that kind of thing is wrong. Ughhhhh