Just another should i text her or not thread

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There's this girl I met from my previous work. We rarely spoke when I was there but I took her number when I was leaving and asked her out. Turns out she was also leaving that company too.

So it's been like 7 months and a few dates. We rarely text but she did send me holiday greetings and will reply to me when I text her.
Only problem I have is we never really got personal. I told her my intentions of a relationship early on and she kind of rejected me at first. But then after a period of no contact she sent me a text so I thought that it was on.

This was like the first two months and since then there has been absolutely no progress. It's partially my fault since I never touched this topic again even though we have gone out a few times after that.

And there's this thing about us going out. It's always just for dinner. And the last time we went out was the week after Valentines. I was finally going to touch on that topic again but didn't. I think I screwed up by delaying too long but i had legit reasons that day, she was out till 6am the day before even though I have already set dinner with her the week before. She even told me she was tired but when we left she mentioned she was going to a friend's place. ?red flag?

Now it's been three weeks since. I texted her last weekend, she replied at first but stopped.

Is it over guys? I need a third party pov. Also should I text her to sort it out? I kind of want closure over this so I can move on. Or is it pathetic to do so?