I was having sex wit my new boyfriend, it was my first time and

>>16616497
That's messed up. What a prick.

Tell him to respect you. If he was worth anything he would. If not, leave. You said new boyfriend so you obviously haven't invested much time with him anyway.

>>16616497
That's very not right. That's not how a first time is supposed to be at all.

That's horrible.

Sounds like you're dating a horny asshole.
But all first times are weird, you just need to realize that if it hurts it's not fine and you need to move away/shout/etc. My gf just moves away if we are in that position and she's uncomfortable.

I would hold off the sex and visit a gynecologist, he may have teared something if it was hurting that bad, friction is bad for pussys.

You may eventually start liking sex if you can either educate the guy or find someone who can actually be gentle.

>>16616497
Why did you not stop him?

Either way he obviously doesn't give a fuck about your feelings. Big red flag. Does not sound like relationship material.

that is fucked up, leave himimmediately

2 words: Leave him

>sex before marriage

Leave him now.

>>16617344
>>sex before marriage

Oh look--a Muslim has posted.

Leave his sorry ass. Anyone who has sex with someone, let alone in a relationship, and does not give a fuck that they are crying from pain, misses something vital. Don't look back. It's no different from if he socked you in the fact, he was well aware that he was hurting you badly and just didn't give a fuck.

That's fucked up Anon. It's not normal to keep going if your partner is in pain during sex. And everyone knows you have to take it slow if your partner is a virgin.

If you're certain he's not sorry about it, dump his ass immediately. Your reaction is not atypical, his is. He clearly cared more about how good his dick felt rather than caring about your well-being. Him shifting the blame on you afterwards is an even bigger red flag.

>>16617366
>>16616497
He doesn't give a shit about you. He got what he wanted. Leave him. If he cared he never would have done if that way.

>>16616497
he was probably just using you for sex or is stupid. if he really cared about you he would of been more gentle and understanding.

>>16617353
Or a Jew, or a Christian, or almost any other religio or ideology with traditional sexual beliefs

>>16616497
You're going to have to kick him to the curb. He's been watching too much porn- and this is me talking here!

>>16617353
Its called abrahamic faiths, man. They all say the same thing.

>>16616497
That is rape. Your feelings are normal. His behaviour isn't. Dump him.

>>16617387
Update
Giving him the benefit of the doubt. i told him what you guys told me, that he doesn't care about me...he says he was watching too much Japanese porn, whatever that means?, and he thought I liked it because I was making pleasure sounds. I told him that was the opposite and he promised not to hold me down unless he asked. Hes overly dominating in general so he overlooks others preferences sometimes. it's a quirk he has to work on. But yeah my confidence in him is still low and sometimes I flinch when he grabs me. It's embarrassing that I am still hung up on this, even though he said it was a misunderstanding.