I'm in a long distance thing with my gf and its been purely that but we're planning to meet within weeks. Anyways.. things were great at first but now we just have the same conversations again and again. And we argue and hurt eachother. Keep in mind we're both really sensitive and don't know how to socialize. Recently its just gotten worse. Every time I ask what she's doing she tells me the same 4 things. And whenever we Skype, she gets held up by the same thing for awhile. She has an unknown number of ppl she can talk over Facebook,Instagram (etc) and it worries me. Being the wreck that I am it worries me a whole shit ton actually. I just want to know if there's anything I can do to improve things or just to help trust her more.
Long distance simply isnot for everybody and terrible if it's your first relationship. If you cannot realistically see you and your gf living close to each other in the next 6 months I would cut your losses.
Yeah it will hurt and yeh you probably feel like this girl is the only one who understands you. But your trust issues won't get better, if she has not taken steps to make you more comfortable after you have talked to her about this then just move on pal
>>16609030
Quality advice.
Coming from somebody that has been through 2 long term relationships, neither one which worked out, i would implore you to consider his advice.
>>16609030
>>16609044
Thanks, both of you. I'm going to revaluate things.