Getting over rough sex

>>16570034
bumping for interest

I dunno. I think good sex is supposed to be kind of rough, and I think if you're going to be someone's partner, you should kind of enjoy it when they get "carried away." It's not even kinky, it's just, like, a healthy use of your body and your energy. I would get frustrated pretty quickly with a "fragile" partner like that. You can't just hold back forever

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>>16570034

If your gf has any love in her heart for you, she'll meet you halfway. She's gonna gave to take a few spanks and hair tugs, and you're going to have to cut down on the throat fucking.

Or you're going to have to teach yourself how to make sweet love. You MUST communicate that you are doing this out of consideration for her. (don't let her run the show)

If none of these are an option, dump the bitch and date a girl that likes it rough.

>>16570076
yh but that's just.. you know.. our pinions.
But I've ahd this idea floating around for a while.. every time somebody bitched to me about OP's situation the gf always turned out to not be very interested in them.
but some people are genuinely like that

>>16570076
It's not "a little rough". The last girl I was with was a fuck buddy I used to Skullfuck for fifteen minutes at a time in public parks until she had tears streaming down her face and was on the verge of vomiting, all while I filmed her. I wouldn't do that to my gf if she asked.

>>16570082
I've posted about her before. She's definitely into me. She was a friend who pursued me. It seems to be the opinion of this board that she's got a "saviour complex" where she's trying to stop my " bad boy acting out" and "healing my emotional issues with love"

I do love her though, and she's the sweetest girl I know.

>>16570115
Then she's just that sort of person. There's a lot of women out there that connect rough love to plain violence. And if it hurts, it's bad. That's the end of the thought process. I suggest you don't try to change her mind, she'll probably just have a horrible time but indure it for you.

Some people are wired differently. I fucking hate rough sex and I'm a guy. I just have this constant feeling like I'm really gonna hurt her if a girl asks too much more than spanking or hair pulling, though I compromise

That being said, if she refuses to let you be even a little rough for your sake, you two just might not be compatible.

>>16570139
Or he could just man up and fuck her ass

>>16570347
This.

>>16570034
Thats toughz
I cant stand that and the funniest thing I found: the guys so sweet in public and PC are crazy rough in bed, but the guy who calls girls bitches and gets into fights is so gentle in bed if you say ouch or I dunno... He stops right away.
I am a little kinky but I don't like pain. We are trying to do anal training and he is soooooooooo sensitive when I say the butt plug feels a little uncomfortable, he gets so worried "oh no! Take it out! I dont want you to ever feel uncomfortable!!!" It has been slow progressz

>>16570115
Oh i did that with a guy
We have a kid now

>>16570399
Is that sarcasm?