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/adv/, especially girls, how to get over penis envy? i've

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/adv/, especially girls, how to get over penis envy? i've got an average length, average girth dick(6x5). I'll never be able to fill her up. She'll never be amazed or surprised at my dick. She'll never have trouble taking the whole thing. I'll never be one of the biggest she's had. I won't ever get to slowly stretch her out. I'll never have to go slow at first until she's used to it. I'll never be 'that guy' she tells her friends about, etc, etc etc.

I've turned down a mfm threesome before cause I didn't want to chance ending up being the little guy. Granted, the reverse (If I was bigger than the other guy and "out-fuck" the girl and thus "win" the threesome) seems hot to me, but of course would only happen with someone that had a micropenis or something. For this same reason I'd NEVER do a swinger scenario, as I wouldn't want to be out-sized by the other guy that gets to fuck the girl I'd be with.

Also, I watch a lot of porn, and even in amateur/girls new to the industry videos, if they end up with a dick that's too big at first, almost every time (tho I've seen a couple with really petite girls and like mandingo or lex steele sized dicks that they can't take) they'll eventually get used to it if he goes slow, is lubed up and with a lot of foreplay. Also, a lot of the time the big dicks, combined with good technique, end up being the ones where she gets the most 'into' the sex/vocal/multiple vaginal orgasms. I've got like 2TB of porn and you never see the girl getting 'dick drunk' or having that happy afterglow off of an average penis.. it's 99/100 times only the big, thick ones that end up completely rocking the girls world to the point she's quivering.

It seems to me a big dick + good technique is unbeatable. What fucking do? How do I be content with just my average equipment?
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>>16547784
it's unbeatable for physical sexual pleasure, yeah

sex is largely an emotional experience
the pleasure you get from being intimate with a person and sharing personal pleasure with them

no, you won't broaden any sexual horizons purely in terms of physical sensation

but your girl won't give two fucks if she enjoys you and the relationship you share
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>>16547817
that only sounds applicable to a long term relationship
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>>16547784
5 inches is the western average. Asain/Indian average is about 3-4 inches.
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Maybe you should date a tiny woman

I dated a half asian girl who was much shorter than me and she had some difficulty with my average size at first
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Work on your oral and digital skills man. learn how to pleasure all her erogenous zones that your penis can't do shit for. Be an amazing lover.

I had a guy I broke up with because all he had was a huge cock that he couldn't fuck me right with and had absolutely no desire to do anything other than plow into me. No pussy eating, couldn't make out to save his life, thought that since he had a huge dick all he had to do was show up. No.

Now I'm with a guy who I know is insecure about his size, and I cannot convince him that his is the best cock I've ever had because he's hung up on not being huge. But he eats my pussy, sucks my tits and finger fucks me, growls in my ears and nibbles my neck, talks dirty to me, role plays my hottest fantasies, everything I've ever wanted.

Bonus,
He is the first and only person who ever fucked my ass because I knew he'd do it right and wouldn't hurt me.

Second bonus
He's also the first person to ever make me squirt

Third bonus
He's the only person I've ever cum from PIV alone with.

I love his cock. It's literally the best dick I've ever had. And he's an amazing lover all around.

I hope we get married and die of old age together, it's that good.

Work on everything else around your dick, you can control that. Let go of worrying about your size. You have nothing to do with that.
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>>16547784
>According to my 2 FUCKING TB porn collection, big dicks are the only way to please women

Stop watching porn and get a grip on reality. You have a larger dick than over 1 billion men on this planet, stop whining, stop getting your impressions of sex from pornography, and start having meaningful relationships with women.

Yes, you don't have a giant dick. Get over it, you can still be an awesome lover. Also having too big a dick actually can prevent a couple from doing some positions, so don't get to green with envy.
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>>16547902
lol i'm already only attracted to short women. i avoid tall girls the same as fat girls (granted that's also because of my height, i'm again only fucking average (5'9")

>>16547903
and now imagine that his dick was thicker so he hits ALL the spots every stroke. and he still did everything else just as well. every girl that has justified liking a smaller dick has used this same analogy (i was with a guy who had a big dick and sucked at sex). Imagine a thick, hung guy who was ALSO good at oral, using his hands while fucking you, biting, slapping, dominating, etc etc
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>>16547880
yes
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>>16547906
> Also having too big a dick actually can prevent a couple from doing some positions

Yeah if your dick is too big never being able to pound her doggy style because
>muh cervix

Be grateful
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>>16547924
Yeah sorry, no, imagining his dick was bigger does literally nothing for me. It hits all the right spots plus he can fuck me like a rag doll and I never have to tell him to ease up because he's bruising my internal organs

I don't want him to have a big dick, I want him to be good at fucking
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>>16547937
okay, length has an understood limit, i'm mainly talking about girls liking lots of girth.
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>>16547924
I actually prefer tall girls, I find them more attractive than short ones :( can't help but get this idea that a taller woman would be less satisfied with an average penis
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>>16547951
yeah, same thought, that's half the reason i'm not attracted to tall women. other half is cause i like girls i can physically dominate, and short girls often have better booty and thighs, which are what (physically) i'm most attracted to in a women. a bubble butt on a slim, short girl is the absolute greatest thing in this world
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>>16547943
Well shit son, maybe try fisting her.

honestly i don't know what to tell you, length, girth, radius, all that shit really isn't as important to me as you're thinking it is.

I like average girth. Too big and it hurts. I don't like having my shit stretched so hard it feels like it's going to tear.
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>>16547817
Yeah basically.
Most women leave men who are emotionally unavailable to them. Basically just be there and comfort her.
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>>16547969
lol radius. idk just from what i've seen/read online, and anecdotal real life evidence, most girls seem to like thick cocks. just use lube and lots of foreplay and they seem to enjoy someone filling them up, and once they finally do get used to the big dick it's like they orgasm more forcefully/full body shivering, having to take a break, etc. if they've just been fucked to the limit. none of this has any truth?


>>16547990
only applicable to long term relationships. i'm talking all sex (ONS, fwb, fuck buddy, swingers, short term flings, etc)
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>>16547969
>>16548018
also, with the recent popularity of the whole weird kekold thing, where the guy lends out his girl to some hung guy and the girl makes noises she doesn't usually make, cums harder, get stretched out, etc with some big black cock surely has some basis in truth?
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>>16548018
That just hasn't been my experience. For me satisfying sex is pretty much what he can do besides sticking his peen in me. I tend to get the earth shattering orgasms from good clit rubbing and simultaneous gspot stimulation, neither of which have anything to do with girth. I get dick drunk after a rough sex episode, which incorporates hair pulling and nasty dirty talk and pinning me down.

It's way more than dick. The dick feels fucking great, don't get me wrong, but at no point have I ever thought "man this is awesome but I could really go for a Coke can being jammed in my cunt right now"
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>>16548024
Sure, for guys who like the idea of being shamed by a guy with a huger cock than they have
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It doesn't matter as much as you think it does.

I can't have sex doggy style because it hurts my partner going too deep.
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My husband is average. I have never once wished that he had a bigger penis.

He's large enough for me to feel nicely, and not so large that he slams into my cervix with every thrust, which frankly is painful and a giant bonerkiller.

During actual penetration, it feels the best when he hits my G spot, which is not at all a matter of length. The G spot is not particularly far in, and a really long penis would only make it easier to miss. it's more about having a good angle.

With the number of orgasms he gives me through fingering and oral, I am perfectly happy with our sex life. I do not want him to have a massive shlong, and I do not want to trade him for someone with one.

It sounds like this isn't about what your partner wants, either, because you want her to be made uncomfortable by a massive penis. That's not what most women want. Most people do not like discomfort, particularly during an activity that is supposed to be pleasurable.
This is about you, your perception of your own body and your lack of self-esteem about it. Try to find the root of your self esteem issues. Are you afraid of being bad at sex and think a big penis will make it easier? Do you feel like you're not as much of a man as you should be? Do you feel like people won't take you seriously? Find the source, and address that.
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What's with guys wanting to hurt women's insides? I'm a fairly small girl, and I'm tight as fuck. Had sex with a guy who had a 15cm dick once, and it was awful because it hurt like hell.
Also, I don't even like vaginal sex that much.

Your goal should be to please your girl. Dick site has nothing to do with it. She wants to feel good, not pain.
By that logic, dykes would be sexually unhappy.
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YOU ARE BASING REALITY OFF OF PORN.. BAD MOVE BUDDY!!!

Porn doesn't tell you shit. I'n have the brains fucked out of me than smaller dicks than yours
They're all actors and actresses you dingus.

Stop watching porn so much. That's all I can say.
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>>16548098
>>16548106
idk i've just read before on those "does size really matter?" threads a lot of girls will say no, but also an equal amount say no to length after like 4 or 5 inches, but girth does matter(ie thicker cocks feel better, implies a regular average cock isn't as good)

also, it's not about thinking i'm bad at sex and a big penis will help, but more that guys most of the time like to be the biggest and best always in everything, including dicks. also, one of my friends had more than one girl sleep with him just because they had either seen/heard he had a big dick. also, size queens do exist. also, porn always has big dicks, also there's that hbo series Hung, etc etc. I've also heard girls mention how hung someone was, etc. There's a million reasons guys want/wish they had a large penis
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Big dicks are nice to look at but not fun to ride--or to put in your mouth.

My guy's got an average dick and he has to warm me up before going full throttle during doggy. I still can't just jump on top and make him go balls deep, that shit wrecks my insides and not in a fun way. Vagoos don't "stretch out" unless you're referring to the temporary stretching out that happens every time a girl's aroused.
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>>16547784
Dude. you are so far from it, you need to step back. Stop thinking about what other people have and live your life.

Big dick/small dick who the fuck cares? You're living the 30-second porno clip life of girls you think matter.

You are totally missing the point. An emotional connection, enough to facilitate a sexual encounter, means so much more than your equipment. Please realize that you are a sophisticated human being-- you are not in the wilderness comparing dick sizes to other males to compete for mates. If you can make her laugh- you fucking win.

Stop being a fucking kek
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Oh my god I literally don't give a damn diddly dildo- as long as your dicks normal size I couldn't give a fuck.

Size isn't everything and my best friend broke up with her one boyfriend literally because she didn't want to be STUCK with his giant dick- she wanted something more normal to settle with long term because ITS NOT ALWAYS AWESOME.

Really getting "stuffed" doesn't add up to having the best sex you can have. Having someone smart attached to the other end who knows how to use it and how to get you over the edge is way totes better.

And if I wanna get "stuffed" then i'll just ask you to dildo me- I've done that before! Sometimes we play with toys!
(my last bf didn't want to play with toys , boo :'( no fun)

I care more about the sexual charisma and skill of the guy, not the size.
(Sexual inexperience isn't bad either- just be honest about it and let me be dominant one)
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>>16548157
Bro. Listen to you.

You're in love with dick/ Stop pretending to us you want to please women
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>>16548165
yeah i'd feel emasculated if you brought out a dildo thicker than me/would feel like my dicks not good enough (ie penis envy) so that'd never in a million fucking years happen. that's what i'm talking about though, if big dicks aren't so good why would you ask your last two boyfriends to use a bigger dildo on you??

>>16548173
yeah i want to please women but it's also a dominance thing, like my dick is so big its hurts a little
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>>16548156
agreed. I got a dick thats 5 inches, like 2 inches soft. I used to be a fapping kek about it, but one day i grew the fuck up and i've never had more sex and never been happier

>just never look into "enhancements" everything besides physical surgical penis stretching won't do shit.
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>>16548218
Not the person you originally responded to, but for me there's a big difference between "haha let's use a big dildo and get into a little pain play tonight!" and being stuck with that every day. I can't even fuck with my average sized boyfriend on a daily basis without my vagina being sore. I couldn't even imagine having sex with an above average guy, I would probably tear and tears fuuuucking hurt when peeing.

>but it's also a dominance thing
The cool thing about dominance is that when your dick isn't so huge that it always causes girls some pain, you get to use optional ways of using pain--spanking, hair pulling, biting--that are a lot hotter than having a dick crunching into your cervix over and over for god knows how long.
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>>16548218
@[email protected]
Because if that was the size of your dick it would be a one time fling / one night stand.

Like, YOU'D be the dildo.

Something that big can be painful, and I'd only whip it out on REALLY sparse, situations that relied on certain kink conditions.

Like I said, my best friend broke up with a guy- who we are both still good friends with- because she couldn't handle his dick on the long term, the sex wasn't working out and she is now very happy with this dude that's... prolly like WAY smaller I imagine... (Sorry James...)
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>>16548218

Also only ONE of them used a dildo the other one wasn't game. ( again, boo, no fun)
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true i guess, but i again was talking more about girthiness (so no cervix complaints). don't girls like a thick, meaty dick? that's the main area i feel so insecure about/wish i had more of
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>>16548268
was to
>>16548244

>>16548247
interesting. also lol, why do you think james doesn't have a big dick vs this other guy?
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>>16548262
I once had a guy with a girthy dick. For me, thick dicks suck (kek) all the fun out of bjs. Can't fit my mouth around it, jaw instantly hurts. Basically, I'm not gonna suck a thick dick. As far as my vagina, since I can't have sex with my average boyfriend (who honestly might have less than average girth) on a daily basis without my vaginal opening being sore, anything thicker than him would leave me feeling miserable and unable to have daily sex.
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>>16548247
also, you've never been tempted to sleep with this hung dude after you know he's hung? one of my friends got two girls that way
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>>16548218
>yeah i'd feel emasculated if you brought out a dildo thicker than me/would feel like my dicks not good enough (ie penis envy) so that'd never in a million fucking years happen
Seek help.

>that's what i'm talking about though, if big dicks aren't so good why would you ask your last two boyfriends to use a bigger dildo on you??
Variety.

>yeah i want to please women but it's also a dominance thing, like my dick is so big its hurts a little
And I want teleportation powers and nights that last 36 hours, turns out it's not gonna happen. Either find something else (dildo, BDSM, though you'd probably not get it) to make her "hurt a little" (assuming she's into it) or abandon that fantasy.
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what is the point of this thread bro?
you cant make your dick bigger unless through surgery, so thats on you. everybody in this thread is telling you exactly how youre supposed solve your problem,
but you just reply with your insecure dick and ignore what youre told.
we cant help you if youve already decided to stick with your insecurities.
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>>16548371
I'm just trying to get them to clarify their responses, to get all my questions answered, while at the same time sort out how to come to terms with my average dick
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>>16548387
>>16548387
Okay. The average female vagina, when unaroused, is 2-3 inches. During arousal, the vagina stretches to about 4-5 inches on average. That's it. That's all you need to hit all the areas. As for girth, that seems to be more of a personal preference, but I'd like to get a daily fucking without bleeding or tears so I'm on the average side of the fence.

Also, porn chicks usually don't accurately show orgasms or enjoyment. "Squirters" are often just porn stars with water in their vaginas that they can gush out. I know because I've done this. As for orgasming just from p in v? That's not an average woman's experience, regardless of the dick size. Most women either have trouble or have never had a vaginal orgasm, and I doubt it's because ordinary women have just never had a big meaty dick. I'm a bit skeptical when you claim you're able to tell that porn chicks are enjoying themselves more when a big dick comes around; "mind-blowing", "quivering" orgasms are easy to fake. I know this because in the past I used to fake every time for every guy--many of whom claimed to be masters at telling the difference.
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>>16547784
>She'll never have trouble taking the whole thing.
I will never understand why guys think this is a negative thing. If I have trouble "taking your dick" we aren't having sex.

>It seems to me a big dick + good technique is unbeatable.
Running your hands all over my body + medium-sized dick + good technique is unbeatable. Big dicks are just painful UNLESS you have awesome technique and copious amounts of lube, and even then it's just meh.

You really only have to worry about penis size if you are huge or have a micropenis. Honestly, if your penis is thicker and a bit longer than your fingers, you're good to go.

Unless, of course, you want a size queen or you just want to wallow in pity that you don't have the biggest dick ever. Then my advice is useless.
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>>16548299
NOPE

And she would have been totally cool with it if I'd wanted to date him or have at him but I just wasn't down.

I'm also kinda tiny so like yeah, huge dicks can be scary and intimidating!

I'm actually more attracted to girlish proportions since I'm bisexual and I tend to lean towards less intimidating joysticks.
(I really really want to date a girl and a guy at the same time, the three of us together that would be my perfect endgame <3 )

>>16548247
Let's just say body proportions had lead me to believe and also me and my friend talk about that stuff I guess~
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>>16548452
On that subject, CAN you guesstimate someone's dick size based on the proportions of their body?
(Hands, forearms, feet, wrists, n junk?)
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>>16548461
Not the person you're responding to, but the answer is no. This applies to women too (i.e. small girls don't necessarily have small vagoos).
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>>16548416
Lol I know about the water trick. I've got plenty of videos with girls having the mind-blown kind of orgasms. If you're truly curious I can see if they are also on any tube sites and link if this thread is still up tomorrow. I think you'll be convinced.

>>16548452
Lol she told you her new guy has a small dick? Also, I've read online if a girl is with someone with a big meatstick long term they eventually loosen up enough to take them without pain. See: videos of size queen fetish girls that shove in the giant green hulk dildos, or the massive black ones that leave their pussy a gaping maw


>>16548472
Truth. See: all the 5ft porn starlets than can take Shane diesel or Mandingo balls deep
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>>16548030
Ha that last sentence
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I'm beginning to think OP has an inferiority fetish
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>>16548531
Smaller dude. Smaller than her last boyfriends monster cock.
Down to your average cock.

Also I'm sure that's all very relative to vag size vs cock size and all.
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>>16548544
Nope. The opposite really. Just wish I was a #1 alpha male in all categories (which would include having a big dick) and pretty depressed about being average dick size and average height
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>>16548531

Do you have a vagina?
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>>16548559
Nah I'm OP
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>>16548556
I think you're obsessed with not being "good enough" because you refuse to accept that you're fine
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>>16548554
And she likes the small one more? Idk as a guy that just flies in the face of what society/porn has conditioned me to think and seems unbelievable/surely there must be some catch, like her old bf had some other glaring issue outside of his dick being massive?
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>>16548566
Idk just insecurity I guess, but I just imagine girls like the tall, dark, handsome, perfect hair, 6-pack, big dick, deep voice, perfect teeth guy and I def don't live up to that. Tinder and IG and shit makes this worse. Now I not only have to compete with the guys she actually knows, but also with the thousands of guys available on tinder just chomping at the bit to take her out/hook up
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Stop thinking about dicks when you're getting laid, unless you are faggot, which is a given, since OP is always a faggot.

A big dick isn't always better, especially when the girl in question isn't really used to it, or when it's not getting as hard as a slightly smaller one.
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>>16549587
this, this guy knows
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I'm somebody who only found about the true meaning of his dick size after noticing that I've swapped cm and inches (stupid international dick-size standard being in imperial units!), it is not as awesome as it sounds to be well above the average.
Since I'm not planning to get anywhere near performing in porn, here are some points to consider:

> girls being intimidated ("Wow, I don't think this will fit.")
> girls being in pain (both during and after the act)
> girls having UTI caused by sex
> longer time to get hard by arousal
> longer warmup time until insertion (not too bad though)
> lower average hardness
> having to select certain condoms and carrying them on you because others will be an immediate boner kill

Of course, there are some benefits, but they're mostly mental (admiration, tfw being in the 1%, etc.), so unless you care more about dicks than girls, you'll be better off with a dick close to average and KNOWING HOW TO USE IT WELL.

Also:
>turning down an MFM threesome because of dick size
Maybe you shall hide your dick in the ass of the other guy?
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>>16549643
>girls being intimidated
This is a good thing. Girls having to view taking you as a sort of challenge seems like a hot scenario

>longer warmup until insertion
>need a larger condom
These are also good things.

Plus you get to wow all the girls when using Snapchat. Plus you're big enough to fuck tall girls (if that's your thing). Plus the mental confidence boost is immense. Knowing any girl who you get to your bedroom is gonna get wowed. Plus you get to be the best possible outcome for a girl looking for a ONS or fuck buddy.

Are you seriously trying to complain about having a big dick? Jesus christ
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>>16549805

I have an average Dick and i do everything you listed, soooo?!
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>>16547784
I am about the same size and honestly I have never considered anything you mentioned. As long as my dick is getting wet, I really don't care what a woman feels about my dick.
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>>16549805
You really don't get it

Girls ITT telling you big cock hurts and isn't fun
Guys ITT telling you big cock has its disadvantages

I think you need therapy to come to terms with being completely normal and average

You don't want to impress women or please them, you want to hurt them with a monster dick you don't even have. This is the most ridiculous shit I've read all week and I've read some fucked up shit
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>>16549862
No girl is getting impressed by an average cock over Snapchat/Skype/facetime.

Also what about songs like rihanna rude boy where the chorus is literally "can you get it up, are you big enough?" I've also seen on sites like adultfriendfinder where the profile specifically asks for only hung guys
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>>16549927
Is the only purpose of having a cock to get wows from randos on Snapchat?
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>>16549927

Holy fucking shit!

OK i'm done with you, this is the most retarded thing that i've read in /adv/

After that i'm presuming this entire thread is bait, i doubt that even some faggot like you could be THAT retarded

Even if you had the biggest cock on earth your autism would be a dealbreaker for every girl you met

Also that Rihanna citation made me actually laugh, so thanks.
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>>16547784
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Penis_envy
Penis envy is not small penis syndrome
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>>16547784
> "win" the threesome

someone please tell me this isn't a thing
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>>16550075
lol guys are naturally competitive... if i was in a mfm threesome i'd definitely be trying to show up the other guy. just as a way to like... idk be the most dominant/alpha male or something. i also think it would be fun to be the bull for a kekold and fuck his wife/gf better than he could. idk just a domination thing. like for instance this video of two girls who compare their bf's dicks: http://www.pornhost.com/3482071670/fullscreen.html (skip to around 1:30) the girl on the left pulls at her friends' bf boxers to get him to show his dick too, and when he does and it dwarfs her bf's she clearly feels bad for her bf (does 'awww' face and shoulder shrug). you're telling me you'd rather have the average one on the left than the thick guy on the right? in a comparison scenario like that i'd feel like absolute shit if i was the guy on the left

>>16550007
lol why laugh about rihanna? she has herpes so she obviously gets around, and she's black so might be used to bbc

>>16550007
nope its not bait. i'm genuinely trying to puzzle it out and see how in the world all these girls on here say size doesn't matter when 'size matters' is a common phrase
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>>16550141
Jesus fucking christ

You seriously just quoted a porn clip like it's the god damned bible.
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>>16550154
lol that's just one example, that's an amateur clip, so you don't get fake porn acting
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>>16550165
I'm sure you've got tons more clips to back up your belief that your cock is inferior.

Are you getting off on this conversation? Are you into small penis humiliation?

What the hell
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>>16550169
nope not getting off at all. i just want to see what a girl thinks about something like that video? you don't think right cock is better than average guy on left?
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>>16550173
I have literally no fucking preference either way. Neither one of them is fucking me or knows what I like. I wouldn't look at two guys with their pants down around their ankles and choose one based off of their cock. I don't think a bigger cock is better than an average cock.

I choose based off of intellect, maturity, sense of humor, interest in me, sensitivity, understanding, desire to please, whether or not we "click", so many more things.

How old are you?
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>>16550180
lol im 24, only been with 4 girls tho.
also, those attributes seem more geared towards boyfriend criteria?

lastly, im saying the average vs thick cock only as a hypothetical/ideal, with all other things being equal (both guys equally mature, equally into you, equally intelligent, equally sensitive, etc etc)
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>>16549805
>>16549643 here, your post amuses me greatly.

It really seems that you're into this big dick thing here, citing porn and going all out.

First of all, the novelty of a partner with a big wears out quickly when that big dick is the only thing he has to offer.

If I'd be you (having a smaller dick and the related complex about it), I'd focus on pleasing your partner instead of thinking about sample spaces and percentile probabilities.
Would you rather have sex with a 9/10 starfish or an 8/10 sex bomb?

> Sending dick pics
costanza.jpg

If a girl wants my dick, she'll have to get it in person, maybe you shall try that as well?

>Are you seriously trying to complain about having a big dick? Jesus christ
I'll have to remember this for the next time I see my FWB, she'll like this quote for sure.
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>>16547903
>>16548165

Thank you for sharing, that really helps me feel better about my situation. I'm currently a virgin, and met a girl who is awesome in every way. I'm going to look up a few techniques and surprise her when we finally start physically messing around, foreplay seems like my best option.
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>>16547784
Porn is fake you fucking autist.
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>>16550206
lol i've been asked more than once for a dick pic over snapchat. after she sends me some pics i like then she's like 'what are you packin', or 'mmm show me' after i talk about how hard i am, etc.

again, i'm talking hypothetical/ideals. all other things being equal is average or thicker cock more desirable? comparing 8/10 sex bomb to 9/10 starfish is changing two variables
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Hey man thats not true let me tell you a little story that I think will make you feel better.
>Be average guy 20 yrs
>Dick only around 6.5-7 (if I'm super fuckin horny)
>Meet smaller asian girl
>Says she had sex before but turns out the guy was so small that he did not break hymen or some shit
>Said she was so nervous and drunk she did not even feel it her ex was like 27
>Fuck her like crazy the second time and make her squirt
>Better and better at sex until she is doing this multiple times every go
>It climaxes at the point where one day she comes over and I just fuck her to the point of 8 orgasms
>She is literally crying and shaking and we have to stop
>Shaking like crazy for a while while I hold her
>I know the guy after me for sure won't be able to do the same thing even if he is bigger because I've never even seen this shit even in porn unless the girl got gang banged or something
Dick size is not every thing and even if it was there are a lot of guys smaller then you and during certain positions I'd hurt her or even make her bleed because she was so small. So tips?
>1.Research sex positions like crazy I found a few that let you get deeper pen and feeling for girth for the girl
>2.Get a girl that's a lot smaller then you
>3. level up your skills by learning about the woman's body don't be greedy
Sure I know I'm not the biggest guy but after this it really does not bother me at all I'm happy with my size at this point you are around the same as me so you should be too.
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>>16549805
My dick is not so long but really wide and sometimes it sucks during sex. Like you HAVE to bring lube or it's painful at points. Weird thing is it was not like this a year ago but now I need special condoms and shit imagine you are in another country and they don't carry your size so you need your gf to ask the store owner for you. Now everyone knows you are gonna fuck in a culture that does not necessary support that. There are quite a few issues that come with it. My favorite condoms don't even fit me anymore and after last time I'm def never risking condom less sex again.
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>>16550360
Now I remember when I had to use lube, that sucked.
Can't switch from banging to licking with the smell of lube...
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>"winning" threesomes
OP confirmed for cĂșckold, thread over.
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>>16550414
nope the opposite. i want to be the bull
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>>16550385
>Put lube all over pussy and dick
>Hand is all lubed up and feels gross now
Feels bad man
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>>16550360
lol why would you ask your gf to get condoms for you instead of going yourself or bringing your own? also, you'll always be the biggest shes had (for all your exes). or if anyone asks about the biggest she's ever had you'll be the person she thinks about, even years later. you also never gotta worry about her being used to some monster dick before she was with you. seems to me just lots and lots of advantages
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>>16550426
You'll never be the bull, you'll always get passed up for someone bigger harder better faster stronger

there, do you feel better now?
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>>16550542
And with that,
The OP was finally able to shame-finish
THE END
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>>16550542
lol nah. i can still find a couple thats got a guy with a below-average dick that i'll be able to outmatch
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Hey OP, I used to be like you.

I dunno how experienced you are, but it really isn't an issue. I've hurt girls with my average 6x5 (which is actually *above* average), so I'm sorta thankful that I don't have a huge dick. A huge dick would mean that I couldn't go balls deep, and that is something I don't want to give up.

The only time that I wish I had a huge dick is when I'm getting a blowjob. It seems like it would be a better experience for her if my dick were this huge monster. The flipside, like the balls deep action, is that some girls can deep throat me, and I can throat fuck them. It would be impossible if my dick were gigantic.

So don't worry about it OP. You'll still make girls sore with your 6x5, and at that point you'll be thankful you aren't hung like a horse (and so will she). Girls are shit at judging size anyway. I've had multiple girls who think my dick is 7" long and it's not

Unfortunately, my problem now is that I wish I was uncut. Foreskin sliding action seems pretty neat, but that's a separate can of worms.
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>>16547784
Who gives a fuck what she wants?

It's not about her
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This bullshit isn't even a problem. You're on the internet too much if you think all this "I'll never" nonsense is even a thing. It's not a thing. Be grateful for what you have instead of being a crybaby about what you think your missing out on. If you were bigger you'd still find something to cry about.

Don't be a bitch. Girls don't like bitches. Imagine what your life would be like if you had no legs, or lived on the street, or someone you loved was killed in front of you. I'm going to assume none of these are true or you wouldn't be worrying about your dick.

Here's my real advice.. quit watching porn and thinking about your own dick, and go read stories about people with real problems. Imagine yourself in that situation. Make yourself cry, assuming you have human feelings. Then next time you think about something stupid like this just remember how thankful you should be.
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Hey, OP

I'm talking to a Malaysian girl who is 4'7", and I'm worried my 7x6(ish) penis is going to be too big for her.

I'd probably prefer my penis to be as big as yours.
>>16551437

Shut the fuck up.
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>>16547784
I have an 8 inch dick and I will die a virgin
Size isn't everything
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I talked with my ex quite a bit about size which didn't make me happy. Her previous bf had a slightly shorter yet fatter one, mine is a bit bigger than OPs both length and girth wise.
Even after the break up we kept in touch and -unfortunately(?)-talked some more about this kinda shit. The one after me had a fatter cock.
Now I know that "despite" her liking my thing and loving me at the time, if I was thicker sex would have been more satisfying.
I totally know what you're going through, OP. Ultimately all things being the same being bigger down there probably has its advantages and you have to accept that. It sucks, sometimes I worry, sometimes I'm ok with it. Guess it just takes time.
Haven't had another girl after my ex though.
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I measured my length and it was 7 inches, I estimate the girth to be something like 5-5.5 inches. This is supposed to be above average, however, when I hold my dick in my hand it feels small.

wut do
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>>16552225
Also I'm not OP
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im 6x5 is this fine? Gonna hive sex for the first time later this week.
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>>16552225
i know that feel breh
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Why do you need to be superman lover?
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>>16547784
Hey OP, fairly experienced here.

I'm 24 years old, 6'5" with a 6.5"x5.5" dick. A bit bigger than yours, but only just so, and still only just above average. I've been pretty lucky when it comes to meeting women, and more lucky when it comes to sex with those women, more so than my 16 year old self would have ever imagined. With the majority of those women, I've had great sexual success, but I've still never had a relationship that lasted over a year. I'm not awful looking, stupid, deformed, or socially retarded, just not particularly funny, and I think that, and the huge insecurity I have about the size of my dick compared to the size of the rest of my body, are two factors that I believe are affecting my relationships.

I don't think the actual size is so much in effect on my mind, so much as the insecurity my mind produces about the subject. I, like you, want to be the dude that all the girls rush to open Snapchat and see what there is, but really, if you're looking for someone to bring you joy about your huge dick, let me tell you, it's only going to bring you pain, cause sure as shit there is someone bigger than your fantasy out there, and if your girl is invested in the relationship as far as the size of your dick, you know she'll be out riding the bigger man in a heartbeat.

It's really not about the dick, or the pussy dude. It's about the person attached to it, and hey, if you two make each other happy and satisfy each other sexually, forget about the fucking size of your dick and focus on making each other happy emotionally.

Or just go full on hermit mode and jelq all day, then wind up with no social skills, no money, and a head full of doubts like I have.

Fuck you OP, get over this stupid shit and move on. Likely in 10 years time, you won't be thinking about the size of your dick, or if you are, you'll be thinking about why you spent so much time thinking about it, instead of investing in your future.
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>>16552441

I think you missed the point, he want a bick dick just to be a snapchat attention whore, he is probably a creepy faggot who will never get laid, and i really doubt that he's into pussy anyway.
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>>16552556
I don't think I missed a thing.
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>>16552556
lol no. why would you think i'm not into pussy?

>>16552150
this guy knows the girth insecurity :( feels bad man but like you said, nothing you can do.

>>16552441
im 24 and still worried about it more than ever.. when i was younger i had seen less porn so wasn't as concerned. but over time it seems like women like dicks with an above-average girth (not talking coke can) more and it's kinda depressing to not be able to do shit about it
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This thread has answered some questions I've had about my penis size.
Thanks everybody and thanks for posting it OP.
I feel a little better now.
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OP here, just saw this video asking college girls if size matters:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QpYGdcQe01s

they say girth matters most... thought all you femanons said you don't like a meaty dick?
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>>16547784
youre shutting yourself down before you even have sex -_-
your dick isnt going to change, but your attitude can
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>>16554315
i've already had sex brosef
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Just chipping in similar views as other femanons, my first bf was hung, he was like 6"3 and I was less than 5" so you can imagine our proportions didn't match, I don't actually know how big he was but those years were full of tears and UTIs and necessary lube. I would get cramps in my belly, I didn't like it, we couldn't even manage anal once. His attempts at anything other than thrusting his dick were a mess, all he could do was thrust, it was boring.

After that my next boyfriend and the one I have now have been average ( maybe even less, who the fuck measures someone? Not thick or anything.)
Both of them have obsessive oral fixations and have just wanted to go down on me for like fifty hours or use toys and make me orgasm one million times. Honestly I'm spoilt now and don't appreciate it enough, but it's amazing.
My boyfriend isn't always trying to stick his dick in me, and so it makes me want it. He'll tease me until he lets me have it, I actually come from PIV alone with him.

Big dicks look good in pictures, but I think I could be happy with even a microdick as long as it's attached to someone that actually makes an effort to make me feel good. A penis is just a penis.

>>16552256
Foreplay oral oral oral
Jeez did you even read the thread
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>>16554385
thx for your experience but still i have to wonder if this is just because you and the other girl that was in this thread are both self-described as tiny? while i find short girls to be BY FAR the most attractive, what about the average 5'5 or 5'7 girls that i'm only going to be slightly taller than (lets face it, you usually can't get your absolute ideal mate)? doesn't everything usually size up proportionately (ie vagoo size)?
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>>16554408
Did you read any part of this? An average dick isn't going to 'stretch me out' or whatever just because I'm small. A small dick is fine too, it's what the owner of that dick can do and about the chemistry.

But in answer to your question: there is no one-size fits all. Yo get big girls with tiny vaginas and vice versa, generally people are more likely to be in proportion but vagina size doesn't really vary much, you can look up the stats on that. I was definately very petite at that time though, but more because of my age.
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>>16554522
Interesting. What about the full/stuffed feeling you get from a thicker dick? Do average thickness dicks, that aren't going to completely fill you girth-wise, feel less good as a result? That's the main thing I gather from all the size matters stuff is that girth is actually important/feels better (obviously not an extreme coke can dick)
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>>16554278

>ITT: OP trying too hard to pass their insecurity to others average dick sized guys that actually have sex.

Its getting ridiculous bro.
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