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**How do i give a fuck?**

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I'm in my late teens, living with my parents, and there is nothing i like to do. I mostly shitpost, browse reddit and play vidya to kill time, but none of it makes me happy. It's just an effective way to kill time.
I feel no desire to go to uni even though i could, i feel no desire to play a sport even though i could be decently competitive in a few of them, i feel no desire to play music even though i'm a decent bass player. How do i make myself give a fuck?
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>>16546214
You don't, you just suffer more and more until, hopefully, you realize it's your lack of action that is making you miserable, and you start making a change, being willing to sacrifice some short term escapism for a gain in reality.


Or you can wind up on /r9k/ never-never land and stay a child forever
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Don't use the internet for a week
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How about not giving about not giving a fuck?

Would you say you are complacent, bored, looking for something to do?

You don't need constant stimulus all the time. You can be perfectly fine with doing nothing.
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>>16546214
Find something you like and you like to put effort in. May it be work, sport or something, start little and set for higher goals
I think we all had that vidya time during our teens, nothing special I guess
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>>16546251
>Find something you like and you like to put effort in.

I've tried any video game, soccer, basketball, kung fu, fencing and baseball, singing, guitar, bass guitar.

>>16546234
>until, hopefully, you realize it's your lack of action that is making you miserable,

I have realized this, however i am not disciplined enough to do something i don't enjoy

>>16546244
>How about not giving a fuck about not giving a fuck?

But that's the whole point, i want to to have something im interested in, so that i am not completely boring, maybe i will have something to say sometimes and maybe i can have some friends again
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>>16546311
How about you start with a mini job like the guy who delivers the newspaper or something that will give you some direction. The first self earned money feels very good
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>>16546214

Go travelling. It actually ignited some love of life for me again and the confidence I gained from it has carried over, even though I've been back a couple of years now.
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>>16546311
>But that's the whole point, i want to to have something im interested in, so that i am not completely boring, maybe i will have something to say sometimes and maybe i can have some friends again

No one can tell you what you like or find that for you.

Start a business, learn a technique, finish a book. There's so much "quests" in the game of life :^)
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>>16546214

throughout much of history, doing something has always been its own motivation.

but in this day and age, we are born into a very comfortable world where we dont have to do much of anything. so when we get older there is no drive.
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>>16546317

I have a job as a bike courier for food. It doesnt inspire me but they pay good money and it doesn't suck.

>>16546325

My parents won't even let me go to a festival abroad with some people from my school, let alone let me travel alone
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>>16546342

If you're 18 or 19 then they don't have any say. If you're 16 or 17 then fair enough. Perhaps that's part of the problem, if they're controlling.
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>>16546351

I don't make enough money to live on my own, so they have a pretty big say in the matter considering they could just kick me out.

>>16546332

I guess i should just keep looking for something to do then.
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learn a language you lazy fuck
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>>16546376
Why would i?
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>>16546395
Not that guy but why wouldn't you?
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>>16546398
Because it takes a lot of effort that i might as well not expend when most people speak english anyway
Also school has mostly killed my desire to find fun in learning
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