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how do you become desirable? i hate being an ugly fuck that everyone

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how do you become desirable? i hate being an ugly fuck that everyone ignores or 'forgets' about
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Wear clothes and a hair style that suit you.
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>>16535444
Eat clean, hit the gym, skin routine, be social, have interesting hobbies, and make money. Of course, all these things require discipline and putting on your big boy pants so you might be in trouble OP.
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>>16535448
how do you find out what fits?

>>16535453
i do, i do, i think i do (i shower and have facescrub and stuff), no one wants to hang out with me even when i invite them, what are the interesting hobbies? and i make loads of money for someone my age
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bump, still looking for help
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Either be attractive or attract her with your personality.
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>>16535444
be funny, amuse her, girls like laughing
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>>16535583
but how do you do that? youre kind of skipping a few steps there, im looking more for 'how' not 'what'

>>16535586
people dont want to talk to me from the go. i think im pretty funny but no one gives me a chance
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please help
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>>16535593
You have to stop giving a fuck. Just enjoy your life and focus on yourself. Be true to who you are. People will respect that, you might be repelling people because you come off as desperate and clingy.
try being more laid back.
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>>16535593
I'll give you a chance. Amuse me.
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>>16535444
You could participate in a sport. That way you can make friends as well as having a hobby.
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>>16535631
what does that mean? thats so nebulous im not sure what im supposed to do. i am myself, how can i be anyone else?

>>16535635
what do you want to talk about?
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>>16535651
what do you think about the pedestrianisation of Norwich city centre?
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>>16535657
i think any problems that arise will be slow to pass
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>>16535648
i would only embarrass myself
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>>16535666
monkey tennis?
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>>16535677
after googling, that stuff was before my time so i dont really know anything about it
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>>16535683
motown was before my time but I still know it exists
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Earn loads of money. That is one practical way to be desirable.

Have connections with many people.

Have good looks. This is the easy card in life.

Have proximity. This is a love potion you get for free maybe once in your life. I sadly threw mine away to chance some delusion of grandeur.
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>>16535689
yeah i guess, i just dont know anything about alan partridge
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>>16535651
>what does that mean? thats so nebulous im not sure what im supposed to do. i am myself, how can i be anyone else?

Stop doing exactly what you're doing right now. You think too much, and do too little. if you want to be happy and reach your full social potential, stop caring so much about this.

You've desperately bumped this thread several times in hopes of hearing someone give you advice you want to hear, how to be someone else. It doesn't work like that buddy, gotta live with yourself and stop giving a shit.

Self improve if you want to boost your confidence, hit the gym or play a sport. Someone else already suggested that but you replied with shooting yourself down. You're in an endless cycle that you just need to break free of.
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>>16535709
that's ok, maybe you could learn something
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>>16535708
i have a lot of money for my age but that hasnt really helped. maybe i just need a way of communicating that fact? any suggestions?

no one wants to interact with me so this one is a bust

yeah this isnt going to happen for me either

what do you mean?

>>16535723
i want to improve and change myself, be someone else like you sya but i dont know how. everyone is telling me to just do it, but with no instructions. 'just break free' how?

>>16535730
was my joke funny at least?
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>>16535739
yeah I liked it, I never told you at the time because I was trying to get more from you.
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>>16535746
sorry
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>>16535759
no need to apologise, you seem to be giving up. are you giving up on me? because maybe that's your problem.
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>>16535739

How old are you? Why do you type like a 12 year old? Attracting 12 years old with money is different from adults, you know?

Anyway, buy expensive shit. Doesn't have to follow any trend or style. Anything that is expensive that you like will take care of that. Don't be insecure in your choice of clothing, just buy and wear whatever the fuck you like. This is to advertise to girls you have money.

Next is to offer candy to cuties. As in inviting them to dates that they otherwise couldn't afford. Such as $200 dollar ticket to a concert. Eat at an expensive sushi restaurant. So forth.

If you don't have to will do even that. . . Then pay for a whore/escort.
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>>16535739
Hey Anon,
Can you post a photo of yourself and I can give you some tips, Have two girls here who can add their input.

Also if you have money to blow, you can flaunt it appropriately through a luxury car, clothes, watch, and above average dates.
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>>16535778
>Have two girls here who can add their input

post tits?
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>>16535769
no, it just seems after the monkey tennis fiasco i havent really got anything to offer

>>16535773
i am 21, i cant be bothered with pucntuation etc. on a website such as this

the problem with that is i dont want to just get some gold digger who is only interested in my money. i want to have a proper relationship with someone

>>16535778
here
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>>16535812
at that point a normal person would have given up. do something to pick the conversation back up, there isn't any point in me doing it or you'll never learn.
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>>16535812
Ok dude, I'm the one with the 2 girls above.
You're not bad looking, probably a 5 or 6 out of 10.
But you look very feminine with your young eyes and long hair.

First off change your hairstyle, maybe slick it back or tie it up. Secondly, first impressions are everything for girls these days.
You need to approach with confidence and a don't give a fuck attitude. You can phrase any question or date offer where you can't be rejected, but at the worse just get no response.
Lastly, due to your average looks you'll have to flaunt/show your status to get the attention you want.

Also, if you're trying to find a girlfriend the shotgun approach may not be best for you. You should focus your search in areas where you'll find a girl with similar interest/personality. Like you said you don't want a gold digger.
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Have you considered a haircut? I don't mean that in a smartass manner, you have a strong chin and jawline, but long hair sort of betrays that typically desirable trait. Get fit, you don't even need to lift huge amounts of weight, just do cardio and try to lift at least a couple times a week. If you have money like you say you can even get a personal trainer. Dress well, don't over do it, just head to men's warehouse and ask them to hook you up with some smart looking casual clothing, the people who work there are pretty good at helping with this in my experience. Seriously take up almost any hobbies, at least a couple and be versed enough in them to make conversation about them, mine are archery, hunting and mixed martial arts, I can talk about those things at length, but don't do so unless asked. Learn verbal judo, it's a technique used by investigators that helps you steer conversations in the direction you want.
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>>16535812
you do have a strong jawline, you would look good with no hair. but I like your hair how it is anyway.
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Or just get abs and start treating women like shit. Seems to work for a lot of guys
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>>16535829
well i dunno, what do you want to talk about

>>16535830
i see, i dont like tying it up because that looks too much like those awful man buns. how do you mean about first impressions? the flaunting stuff is really like, not what im aiming for. surely if i have to splash cash to get someone theyre just around for said dollars?

its hard to find girls with my interests, and im not talking about animu weebshit or whatever

>>16535855
>>16535858
im quite attached to my hair but i guess if its the only way to win then thats what ill have to do. i dress pretty well, much better than a lot of people who do have girls. i have hobbies but they arent what women are interested in so they arent much help
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>>16535871
Hey Im this poster: >>16535830
Your goal right now is to get as much girl attention as you can, just so you can weed one the one you want. You will read/see the gold diggers pretty quick.

For first impressions, you have to have a good smile, not be creepy, have a good opening line, and be able to carry on conversation.

Dude just get out there and talk to random girls who look bored, and learn how to create conversation. Find anything fun or similar interest, get a number, then text/call her.

Practice is all I can tell you man, and find your look that suits you, and give yourself all the boosts you can by using your wealth.
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>>16535871

Everyone loves food. Can always approach that safe topic. Can also lead to dates invitation. Invite them to eat at well known local place. Invite them to come over and bakes stuff. Another safe topic is animals. If you have pet yourself, that is a plus. Invite them to come over to see your pets. Another one is movies. Talk about the newest theater release you wound like to go see. Invite them, etc. You get the idea.

Don't try to learn useless hobbies that you yourself does not like. Faking doesn't lead to happiness.
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Yeah I would do you. You're my age but you do look quite younger but that wouldn't stop me. I love the androgyny and your long hair. I also love man buns. I am simply stating that you already are desirable. Get more confident and know what kind of girl you are looking for. If it's a hipster/alternative kind of girl studying law - you got me. I'd say I'm a 7/8. If you don't want that kind of girl, you do need to change your looks. What definitely needs to change, is your attitude. Confident people who have something to say are the ones who don't get ignored or forgotten about. Look in the right places.
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>>16535871
well maybe you should have some back up plan conversations up your sleeve for when it runs dry, because I think this is the reason why people give up, say more stuff and make people speak to you.
what hobbies do you have that you think girls aren't interested in.?
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>>16535867
fat fag thinks abs are desirable. doesn't know that massive shoulders and back are more impressive.
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>>16535909
Finally I read some truth about women on this board!
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>>16535812
jesus christ how much adderal are you on?
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>>16535883
well like i said, i approach people but they react negatively, from bemusement to contempt to slight fear. its pretty miserable getting smashed all the time but i guess all you can do is try

>>16535901
right i see, do you invite them early on or go on a date first or something? 'hey would you like to come my place to see my dogs' sounds fkn creepy to me

>>16535902
am i really that androgynous? desu at this point the right girl for me is one with a pulse, but i dont have any problem saying memorable things

>>16535903
i guess so, i dont know what is interesting to talk about, though ive got some tips know. computer science, geopolitics, programming, that kind of thing

>>16535920
none, i do have 'unusually large' pupils though and have to wear sunglasses during the day, even if its cloudy its too bright for me. which makes me look like a mad goof some times
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>>16535927
your problem is you're trying to please too many people. ignore some and pick you favourites to talk to or you'll lose everyones interest.
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>>16535927
oh okay. im not gay but i don't think you are ugly. you just have soft features. try having short hair. none of my friends have long hair and they get laid regularly.
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>>16535927
i dont know what happened but i meant to type 'desu' but it came out as 'desu'. i have no idea why, just want to point out im not a weeb man child
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>>16535936

Stop giving a shit about what people think of you on an anonymous board. That is the first step to stop giving a shit about what people think of you in real life.
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>>16535932
but how do i know which ones to pick, ie which ones im most likely to succeed with?

>>16535935
i guess i will

>>16535943
no its more like, if people think i say shit like desu one chan etc. irl well obviously theres your problem, just clearing that up before someone says it
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>>16535959
don't look at them like people that might like you for as long as possible, look at them like you're chosing them, they're lucky you bothered responding etc..
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>>16535927
Anything with a pulse? Get some standards. Women are repelled by your stink of despair.
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>>16535943
To be honest, I think you're a weeb
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>>16535927
Yes, you are very androgynous. I was actually questioning whether you were a girl. I dig that. A lot.
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>>16535968
that seems very egotistical and ostentatious

>>16535971
cant afford standards lol, and they were repelled when i did so thats not the problem
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>>16535985
it does, but unfortunately it works.
this all depends on the type of girl you go for anyway.
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>>16535985
Stop the self-pity already. There is nothing wrong with your face. Fake confidence if you have to. Create standards if you're actually the least bit serious that you want a real relationship. Be awesome. Take anecdotal evidence from my boyfriend. He was told he was swinging for the fences. Went for me anyway. He's pretty happy now.
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