People talk about orgasms like they feel amazing but all it is

>>16534937
Women cum too. Smelly, sticky white jizz. It's just an internal penis with some added gadgets.

>>16534939
But what's the point of cumming when it doesn't even feel that great? It's just your pussy pulsating

>>16534949

Orgasms doesn't feel great?

I think you might need to see a doctor for that

>>16534976
There's nothing a doctor can do

>>16534984
Complaining on 4chan that your vagina is broken won't do anything either. Orgasms are biologically hardwired to feel good. If they don't, that is a medical problem.

>>16534984
Yeah, doctors never do shit. And why would you even trust a doctor in the first place, they give out autism-causing vaccines!!!

Believe me, it's more than pulsating and twitching.

>>16534996
For me they aren't

>>16535003
If this is true, then:
>>16534976

>>16534990
I've been examined by a gyno before they say there's nothing wrong

Even if there was what could they do? There's no drug or surgery that can do anything

Maybe you just havent orgasmed yet.
Try a bit harder.

>>16535013
I've definitely orgasmed I've got all the symptoms (pulsating vagina, clit becomes more sensitive) except for the pleasure

>>16535013
Half this. Women need to get used to orgasms first. At first they are very feint, but with time you learn how to enjoy sex and orgams more and it will all be about as awesome as people make it out to be. Not porn or erotica though, I hope you know that's not how sex works.

>>16535018
I definitely had a severed leg before; pain in the region, bleeding from the wound, but I never actually had the leg come unattached from my body.

>>16535018
Right, so not an orgasm.

>>16535030
If it's not an orgasm how come I feel really relaxed afterwards and my vagina does the pulsating thing?

>>16535032
I don't know but you didn't orgasm.

An orgasm builds in the pit of your stomach, takes your breath away and there is no doubt whatsoever you've had one. You've not had an orgasm.

Have you tried getting off in different ways? Some types of orgasm feel better than others for me.

There are different levels of intensity of orgasms. I've been masturbating for as long as I can remember, and my "orgasms" as a kid felt exactly like you were describing. The pleasure of rubbing just trailed off and I felt extremely sleepy and relaxed.

Now I have much more intense "actual" orgasms. Perhaps you just have to keep trying.

>>16535032
Do you masturbate often? if so,try to take a break for like 2 weeks and see how it goes.
Also do you get shaky legs when you 'orgasm'? because thats a good indicator of a real orgasm as well.

>>16535047
I get shaky legs while I'm rubbing my clit but the actual orgasm they don't

>>16535046
OP here, I remember the first few orgasms I had when I first started masturbating, I could feel the pleasure spreading through my pelvis

But it's been years since I've felt much pleasure while I orgasmed

May I ask what you do differently to get the "actual orgasms"?

>>16535061
Hmm I think my hand technique has really improved with practice. I also have vibrators now, which are nice. But I also have a boyfriend now too, and he's really helped me.

>>16535086
I have a doxy which is the most powerful vibrator you can get and I can take the highest setting

Also I don't know if my hand technique is better

And I tried having sex with guys but that didn't do anything at all, even oral sex


What does your boyfriend do?

two possibilities:

a) your vagina or brain are damaged. there's a chance you might be anhedonic.

b) you haven't had an orgasm. the primary indicator of an orgasm isn't a pulsing vagina, it's the wave of pleasure.

>>16535114
Wave? As in the pleasure has to come in a wave?

What if the pleasure is just localised

>>16535006
Drugs can do everything

>>16535099
I've heard the Doxy is great, but sometimes more powerful doesn't exactly translate to better. Often times my little hand vibrator does a better job than my hitachi.

Also, have you ever had sex within a relationship? I think that's an extremely important component with what my boyfriend does for me. Of course having someone else touch you physically is really nice, but I think the mental/emotional aspect is the most powerful. Thinking about him, I can get off faster and harder than I ever have thinking about anything else. He can get me wetter than I could ever try to get myself. And he has helped me open up and explore my body and mind more.

You on any anti depressants?
I used to be able to come at the drop of a hat but now with my medication I want sex, enjoy sex, but very rarely orgasm.

>>16535150
I'm too ugly for a boyfriend so I've never had one but I can get sex, and I didn't get anything out of it

Although when I was a kid and a guy touched me sexually I did enjoy it, but then it was 10 years before someone touched me again and now I don't get anything from being touched

>>16535170
Hmm then maybe it's all psychological/emotional. And I'm sure you're not "too ugly" for a boyfriend.

>>16534937
>>16534949

If your vagina doesn't feel amazing during sex, or in the throes of an orgasm, you're broken or doing something wrong. I orgasm so hard that I shake, moan, and everything clenches up. It lasts for a solid 10-15 seconds and hits me in waves.

>>16535018
That's not necessarily an orgasm. I do all of that just by being turned on.

>>16535099
Hmmm. You may be desensitizing yourself, if that's the case. It happens to me if I masturbate too often, but I don't even use toys (so there's no telling what you're doing to your body). If I just leave my junk alone for a while, and then have sex with my guy, it makes everything feel better. Avoid any sort of stimulation for a while, then try having sex with someone. Your whole body will want it. Or just masturbate without toys. I know it makes things a lot easier, and you'll feel it more, but it's like death-gripping a penis. Eventually, you won't feel much.

>>16535170
>I'm too ugly for a boyfriend so I've never had one but I can get sex, and I didn't get anything out of it
If you can get sex, you're not too ugly for a boyfriend. In this day and age, unless you're 10/10, you will have to put forth effort in finding someone. Don't wait for a guy to fall in your lap, because it's just not going to happen. I've been told I'm a 7 or 8, but I haven't been hit on since I was 14. Not even approached. Any time I've been in a relationship, it's because I liked someone and put effort into making it happen. Guys can also be too shy to say/do anything.

>>16535170

Unlike men, who enjoy the visuals, women tend to prefer the emotional/psychological aspect of sex more. If you're not really into the person, and you're not emotionally connected, then you'll have a hard time getting turned on (unless you're the type that turns sex with strangers into a fetish). I think you have a number of issues at play here that need to be addressed for you to enjoy sex again.

>>16535182
> I orgasm so hard that I shake, moan, and everything clenches up. It lasts for a solid 10-15 seconds and hits me in waves.

Are you trying to make me feel bad about my shitty weak orgasms?

I've tried not masturbating for a while and I've only been using toys for a year

God I don't even know anymore maybe I just ruined myself

>>16535199
I disliked the guy who touched me when I was younger and yet it was still stimulating/enjoyable, so I don't think it's emotional

I think between that incident and now I masturbated too much and damaged the nerves.

>>16535190
What kinds of things did you do to make it happen with someone you liked?

>>16535099
I just got a new hitachi after my old one died and the sensation feels different. Still very powerful, and I can orgasm, but I feel numbed and the orgasms aren't nearly as powerful as it was with my old hitachi. I expect I'll adjust in time, it's only been like a week but my point is that if you're using your doxy on the most powerful setting you may be numbing yourself like I was. Try getting off more slowly at a lower setting.