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Posted this earlier and got few advice, would like some more

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Posted this earlier and got few advice, would like some more help.

How does one mentally lower their standards?

I'm 19 and a kissless virgin. I've always had high confidence in myself (side note: FUCK the people that say "its all about confidence" that shit isn't true.) And my confidence has been my downfall. I always assumed I was attractive enough to date the girls I was attracted to, but I've gone through 19 tough years of rejection and heartbreak.

I still don't think I'm truly ugly. Posted on /soc/ and got ratings ranging from 6 to 9. I'm 6'4" (muh tall privilege) and 225 lbs. I'm a tad husky with some muscle. I exercise, eat decent (I'm a college kid cut me some slack) all that jazz. My face is probably what kills my chances, I've been told I have a caveman-like facial structure. I also have a bit of annoyingly hereditary acne (no matter what I fucking do it doesn't go away)

Do I sit here and wait for an attractive girl to want me back? Like I have been doing for 19 years? Or do I somehow force myself to go for someone lesser ? And I don't even have the slightest clue how I'd go about doing that.
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Bumping again
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>>16529996
>I also have a bit of annoyingly hereditary acne (no matter what I fucking do it doesn't go away)

That is completely false. Stop drinking soda.
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>>16530245
Lel, I drink maybe one soda a week if that. Fuck off
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When you are young, only about 10% of the opposite sex will be attracted to you. And since you will only find 10% of the opposite sex attractive, that means that you have to interact with ~100 women to get one with mutual attraction.
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>>16530263

Cut out candy, cookies, things with syrup in them. Your acne is in your control, stop pretending otherwise.
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>19 tough years of rejection and heartbreak
Come on, if you're 19 years old, this is ridiculous.
Also, being 19 and kissless virgin isn't that bad
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Confidence is about knowing your strengths and weaknesses, not just for showboating around anybody you deem attractive.
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You're not missing much man. Get a hooker.
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>>16530335
I'm fully aware of my strengths and weaknesses
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>>16530245
Motherfuckers who never had real acne problems need to fuck off with this shit. Ive had it bad and tried everything in the book when i was younger. Stop being a fuck and acting like you know wasup.
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>>16530420
9/10 time you guys either don't moisturize or don't wash enough with cold water and a cleanser. Find the tempo that you can roll with.
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>>16530378
Then you need to use both of those in your game or you'll be so one dimensional that girls will avoid you.
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>husky
>caveman
>acne

For the life of me I don't know why girls aren't flocking to your alpha genes, while other guys are having fun. Bad luck I guess.
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>>16530420
Ok OP. do you shave with a razor or use an electric razor?
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>>16530420
This shitty attitude is exactly why you can't find a girl.
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im not op but i kinda have the same problem and im also 19
i just realized that if i want to date the kind of girl that i like, im going to need to get a lot of experience

to get experience i need to date a bunch of girls, the problem is that maybe my standars are too high, to the point where a lot of girls just feel dull and boring, it doesn't matter for how much time i talk to them, they are just not very interesting when i listen to them they just talk about shopping malls, bars, parties and occasionally about their daddy issues

and when i try to change the theme of the conversation just a little bit to something else, they just get alienated or just say something like, "i don't know anything about that" and coninue talking about their stuff

the thing is that i can't even find a girl that could qualify as "entry level"

how can i start dating when i'ts really hard for me to find someone remotely interesting
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>>16530505
Normal razor, why
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>>16530505
>>16530515
Im not op you fucks.
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>>165305
>girls
>interesting
Iwould not decribe any of my exs or crushes as intresting. The best a girl has been me is a becon of happness that washed away disparity. Find a girl with a good heart and a good smile these girls are the real gems and a lot are virgins your age never had bf etc.. of course it's guys my age who scoop them up so you better hurry murry once you meet one.

Play a video game or some shit if you want something intresting
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>>16530540
Normal razors tend to fold over dead skin and it gets stuck in your pours. I recently switched to an electric shaver and it has done wonders. Look it up .
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>>16530594
>Find a girl with a good heart and a good smile

kinda weird that you mention it, because that's exactly the kind of girl i would like to date, as i said when i talk with girls they usually talk about daddy issues and a buch of emotional nonsense , what i want is a happy girl that likes to go out, a girl with a sense of amazement, wonder or curiosity, i guess that's why i call interesting because they always have so many different happy things to say


>these girls are the real gems

yeah, that's kinda why i was worried about my lack of dating experience, but if you say that a lot of them never had a bf, i guess i'll be ok, i just need to hurry up and find one
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