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I decided to lose weight when I started sleeping with my friend. Even though he loves my body and makes me feel so sexy, I feel like I have to be fitter for him. We are going on our first real boyfriend/girlfriend date this weekend! I am weird, when I am not having sex, I gain weight, when I have sex, I want to keep feeling sexy and makes me want to lose weight.

tldr; sex is my motivation to lose weight

>>16527704
Made me happier. Was able to fit into all sorts of nice clothes, was also able to do a lot of things without being short of breath and all that.

>>16527728
My motivation. It just takes so fucking long. Did you loose a lot of weight?

>>16527745
Not yet! I feel better already though and my dress fits much better. It helps that he does a lot of activities and he takes me along with him.

>>16527750
How much do you have to loose?
I gained a lot of weight the past year. And the main thing i'm lacking is patience...

>>16527758
20lbs

I lack patience too but the more things you do, the less you eat and the more you move.

>>16527759
I got 40lbs to go... Yeah, my hunger went away almost completely. Now i just have to wait. That's what frustrates me. I do a lot of cardio and i eat around 1000 kcals. But i wish the weight would just fall off of me.

I lost 100 lbs or so. It didn't really change anything in my life. I just actually consider calories in food before I eat it. It didn't make me happier though.

>>16527779
Why? Have you been happy before? Are you still too heavy? Flabby skin? Just don't really care?

>>16527812
Just don't really care

See, I'm kind of expecting losing weight will instantly make everything in my life awesome, but I also know that can't be true . . .

>>16527850
I thought it would be easier to shop for clothes but I'm finding its not. I used to wear a size 16 but now I wear anything from a 4 to a 6. Thing is, they are usually just as hard to find. Also things don't necessarily fit me better either. Womens clothes sizes are so fucking unreliable. You see something on a mannequin that looks cute, try it on and are like "what the fuck?" then go back to the mannequin and see that 50% of the shirt is actually pinned back so it looks like it's nicely fitted even though it's more like a burlap sack.

/rant