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Hi guys, so this is a silly question, but I really need someone else's view on it.

I stumbled across my boyfriends search history and I noticed he's been watching a lot of porn with a specific race. I don't really mind if he watches porn but this kind bothered me.
The reason it somewhat bothers me is because there is a girl in our friend group who is of this race and everyone wants to date her except the guys with girlfriends. I've asked him before if he thinks she's pretty and he's told me no, and that he wouldnt even date a girl of her race either way. But then his porn history is filled with that. This has been searched recently too.

So should I be worried about this? Does this seem weird to you or am I just missing something?
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He's probably looked a ton of white people porn and he's bored with that so now he's trying on another race for size. I don't know how this specific guy's brain works, but porn usually has abso-fucking-lutely nothing to do with real life. If he was interested in your friend he would be trying to fuck your friend, not watch porn of her race. That's silly.
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>>16520207
I just kinda connected it with fantasies. When he first started dating me he watched a ton of Asian porn because I'm Asian.
I'm normally around him when she is around. I kinda dont trust her because she is fucking a guy who is dating one of her best friends. I trust my boyfriend, but I just don't really want her around him.

But I'll go with it having nothing to do with real life. Unless he starts searching her other half then I'll act concerned.
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>>16520207
.... are you a guy cause your retarded if not...
Or even if you are actually...

Porn has EVERYTHING to do with sexual fetishs and fantasys... why else would you want one specific kind of porn.... if you are a guy and dont think you watch any kind of porn in particular your lieing to yourself...

>>16520193
Your man may very well have a cursh on this bitch that is in your friend group but let me ask you a few things.
1) your and his age
2) how long has the relationship been going for
3) why were you looking thro his history to begin with

For reference i watch porn and so does my wife and we dont even like the same porn BUT we also aren't so insecure in our relationship that we go thro eachothers search history and think either of us is going to sleep with our black/white/yellow/green friends just cause we watch porn with people of those colors in them...
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>>16520232
I'm 20, he's turning 21.
We've been dating for 2 years
I typed in the letter P and porn showed up.
I got curious honestly. But I know he doesn't care if I see his history considering he lets me use his phone and pc constantly and I see it daily (which is why I noticed the change)

Is there anyway I can kinda figure out if he really has a crush on her? I really want them to keep distance, and what sucks is that I'm going to be gone for a month and he's going to see starwars with this group and her. Sorry if I sound kinda paranoid
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>>16520249
>Is there anyway I can kinda figure out if he really has a crush on her?
You could talk to her and ask her to try to bait him and see how he reacts.
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>>16520249
Haha thats fine dont worry about being paranoid.
I honestly dont think you have anything to worry about the fact that you have free access to his phone / pc without him freaking is 99% a sign that he is faithful and wants to remain that way. If you are truly worries about it and its not a small issue then the best adv i or anyone can give you is to talk to him about theae feeling... your both still very young but w years isnt an insignificant amount of time. The main reason why relationships break down is because of a lack of communication.
While you're gone will you have Internet access?
Is it possible for you two to Skype / FaceTime?
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>>16520264
I'm not that close to her. But isn't that manipulation? Ah I don't know what to do. It's frustrating.
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>>16520264
This is actually autistic
... go back to /b/ faggot
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>>16520272
Nice counter-argument, I enjoy your insight /pol/
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>>16520268
We will be able to Skype and play games together. But for his finals week I wanted to let him study and not speak to him much. I don't wanna bring up knowing what porn he watches because I'm scared he might get embarrassed and shut down. If any of you know how that feels. Am I still able to talk about how I feel without mentioning that?
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>>16520281
... of course you can i wouldn't mention the porn either i would say something along the lines of..

"Hey anon, i dont know why but lately i have been feeling really insecure about me going away for a month and think that Stacy has the hots for you. Can you reassure me / do something to show me you are only commited to me so i dont loose my mind whike im gone? "

Or

Just grow the fuck up and talk about it like adults...

Anon i feel like you may be attracted to x i saw your history and then became curious so i looked into it more and saw alot of porn with her race involved.

If he starts to shutdown just demand he finishes the convo.... dont let him lock down keep the communication going.. he is 21 and should be abke to talk to you about this is an adukt manner
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>>16520291
I wanna just talk about everything, even the porn. But I know by his personality that it would cause and issue and he would just shutdown and run away.

So the plan now is: I'll just bring up how she is making me uncomfortable and how I have concerns about his feelings towards her. He might call me crazy or paranoid when I say this. But I'll also ask him to just reassure me while I'm gone and do things that will make things more comfortable (I use to have to do this for him when we were long distance so I'm sure he won't mind).

The girl is sweet (sometimes) and he doesn't text her ever, just only when me and him are picking her up. So that helps me feel better a little bit.
I just don't like how she's sleeping with a guy who is in a serious relationship with her best friend.. Ahh...
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>>16520306
How about you do the porn talk step by step and start by generally talking about porn with him?

I think if you want to have a healthy relationship you need to talk about porn with him.

Then tell him how "accidentally" you came across his history and see how he reacts. If he looks okay, then tell him something like "I didn't know chinks were you kind of kinks :^)".
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>>16520322
I'm the chink. But if you wanna know what he's watching its latina/Mexicans and such. I mean, if they are big on/gif/ right now that miiight be why since he goes there a lot. But I dunno.
I once tried to get him to talk about what he's into and he was like "ahhh no, im not talking about porn with my girlfriend" I feel like talking about this subject is like defusing a bomb.
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>>16520328
My bad. "didn't know you had a boner for beaners" then.

But maybe say you like porn as well, it could make him more secure
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>>16520193
what seems weird to me is that you're trawling his browsing history looking for shit to get in a huff about.
That, and its 2015 and there's a human male that is so fucking stupid he hasn't figured out the complexities of private browsing.
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>>16520306
Sounds good OP gl ^_^ also you 100% should tell her best friend she is fucking her man .... that is if you are friends with her... im sure you woukd want to know if your bf was cheating on you ...
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>>16520193
Cuz Asian bitches squirt hard. That s it.
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