Just found out my gf was cheating on me with her ex, he doesn't

I'm so confused. How did this get to engagement stage without him knowing you exist?

>>16513134
Thinking of sending her nudes to her father and mother

>>16513141
Revenge porn is a legal grey area, heading towards illegality.

What was the damning evidence?

>>16513139
It was her intention to keep it a secret that's why, I mean, I know her family and even closest friends but somehow she made sure he didn't know I existed or at least assured him we were nothing serious. Why even speculate though, this bitch is worthless

>>16513144
She told me she was going out to the club with friends on Monday, fine. She got a gift in the mail today and I was suspicious and she said she think it was her ex. I get suspicious again and she tells me she doesn't care about him. I find FB and there I have a pic of them and another couple at the club the day she went. And another post saying love lasts forever with her tagged in it and she responded with a heart emoji

>>16513134
>found I've been lied to for quite some time now...
jeez who would have thought your cheating gf would lie to you

>>16513143
So I just have to suck it up then eh..

That sucks OP, she has a good body. I'd steer away from revenge porn because it makes you look petty.


My ex-girlfriend of 3 years did the same thing to me. I found that subtly letting her family know I had to break it off with her because she cheated on me...it humiliated her for quite some time. I snuck it in by asking her family for advice as if they were my close friends.


Trust me, involving her family is a much better solution if you're looking for revenge.

sucks op, she looks she has a nice body

wish you the best and good luck moving on

>>16513134
What did you expect from a chick with a giant tattoo

>>16513173

This, girls with big tattoos are always red flag.

involving her family will just make you look bad.
My sister cheated on her boyfriend once and he tried to get back at her by sending us naked pics of her and telling us what she did but we didn't give a shit and now the kid has a reputation for being an asshole. The family doesn't give a shit- they know how awful she is and still love her no matter what

I suggest just being the bigger person. It will give you more closure in the end

>>16513150
Fucking hell.

Just know this does not reflect on you at all. You might already think this, but shes a garbage human being, just walk away from this shit.

>>16513191
>My sister cheated on her boyfriend once and he tried to get back at her by sending us naked pics of her
>sending us naked pics

I'd wager your people didn't give a shit because of shit like that. If my parents found out I was unfaithful, they'd probably chew my ass out and for good reason. If she did something in retaliation, that would probably tone down the hassle they'd give me.

I mean, you can still love someone while being disappointed with them at the same time.