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Hey /adv/- i can't keep it up during sex. I've been going out with a girl I like a hell of a lot; she's pretty sensitive and I'm able to keep her going for more than an hour fingering her and whatnot, so I'm able to please her, but she wants me to get off. Problem is, I don't really keep it up very long... She's attractive and I like her a lot; I get pretty stiff during the foreplay, but even when she's giving me a blowjob I just lose it after like 2-4 minutes and I get close to coming but don't. Same thing happened to a different girl I was with before . (Thankfully this girl said she's patient and happy to work out with it, she's lovely.)

What can I do? I know it's a mix of nerves and resetting my dick/head after years of fapping, but I've never really had the chance to be physically intimate before and now it's a little overwhelming to be doing it too. My last sex experiences kinda sucked, and while I'm enjoying the romance and making out with hrru girl I just wanna properly bone her and give her a good time/blow my load already.
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Big hint. They're tiny, blue, and if you get an erection lasting longer than 4 hours from them see a doctor.
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Try men
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>>16513034
Has she tried edging you?
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Drop fapping altogether. This is all you need to do, stop fapping and I guarantee you, you will have no problems in a few weeks time.

>>16513077
>>16513080
Extremely shit advice.
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Don't masturbate or look at any porn for a couple of weeks. Normally I think nofap is pointless but in this kind of situation it's usefulness is pretty obvious.

I had similar issues the first few times I had sex. Eventually I managed to bust a nut inside a girl and after that I felt more relaxed and didn't have any problems. It can also take a few times to figure out which positions work best for you.
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Performance anxiety. It will get better. She has the right mindset to approach this. Now all you habe to do is stop worrying. She likes you and is willing to be patient and loving. Let her do her thing and enjoy the ride.
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>>16513236
>Extremely shit advice.

Idiot. The blue pill thing is a very solid piece of advice. There's no shame in it. Especially when someone is new to sex, it will take a while for them to learn to be comfortable with it. The blue pills can really help to get over that mental block. Use the pills, eventually you won't need them anymore.
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>>16513280
Will it be as easy as a talk with my physician to get those?
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>>16513492
Yes, it will be that easy. You will get a prescription, then you can go to a pharmacy or he might have some already.
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>>16513492
Any modern drugs and prescriptions, especially the ones pertaining to these mental blocks are heavily side-effect ridden, addictive and over all harmful to you both physically and mentally.

Please remember that this pharma industry is a multi-Billion dollar industry, and they have "creative marketing agents" or as we call them, shills, on every single social media platform, forum and imageboard.

Do your research before agreeing on taking any kind of pills.
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>>16513510
Shouldn't you be on your FB posting about how vaccines cause autism?
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>>16513517
Another thing with these "creative marketing agents", they work for whoever pays them, whatever the job.

A video game needs promoting? A whistle blower reveals that vaccines cripple babies and children mentally? The "elite" wants New World Order propaganda to be spread? They'll do it for the money.

Do your own research ladies and gentlemen.
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>>16513523
That's seriously the dumbest picture I have seen all day. What kind of autistic moron would create such a sperging pile of vomit in conversation form?
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>>16513529
They are also overly aggressive and abundantly use ad-hominems and personally attack and try to ridicule the poster, rather than playing the argument.
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Thanks for the responses y'all.

>>16513255
I figured that last week, but this is the second time...

>>16513280
There's no shame in it, but taking pills creates another problem entirely where I'm depending on pills for it. I don't want to do that unless I've completely exhausted everything else and can clearly determine this is a physical problem.

>>16513523
>>16513541
Your shitposting isn't making me any harder, bro.

>>16513251
Yeah, I've always jerked it dry so I'm gonna change that... Wait a week, grab some condoms and use lube, and jerk as lightly as I can if I need to.
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>>16513622
Do your own research, this is no shitposting.
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>>16513622
Like I mentioned, you're not going to be depending on the pills. You will just use them for help while you're still getting used to sex. You probably won't need them after long. It's just giving you an extra push that you need at the start to get your sex skills going.
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>>16513629
It's 100% shitposting from a conspiracy nut who should go back to >>>/x/.
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The condom might also be making you a bit uncomfortable. Practice with the condom. Practice taking one out in a smooth fast motion and putting it on your dick. Also, jerk off with the condom on, to get your dick used to the feeling.
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>>16513731
>>16513738
This guy here is a pharma-shill.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rk-ryvdWPgw
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>>16513800
I don't need to take money to call you a paranoid cunt, but it'd certainly be nice.

>>16513739
This was happening without the condom on. Like I said, blowjobs.

It's something I look forward to and that I enjoy receiving, I just find the sensation doesn't keep me up after a little bit. But I will try that.
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>>16513034
I'm going to project on you here:
>You care about this girl
>You also think she's hot
>You want to connect on an emo level
>But now you also realize that sometimes she just needs to get fucked like you own her
There's nothing wrong with your mental perspective and attitude Anon; I think your head and heart are in the right places.

Now you just need to relax. Realize that your dick will work when it's ready to work. You've done some damage to yourself fapping like that all the time and your fuck stick needs some time to heal and get his head right.

You also need to put this girl in her place. You're justified in being irritated at this bitch's lack of patience with your penis, because she's never felt uncomfortable riiiight? Silly girl needs to be more understanding (like the other lady you mentioned). But since she's obviously inexperienced with this too, you will have to be patient and firm with her, something like:
>Hey. Guys like to be comfortable too. I need you to relax and just chill with me a bit. Rub my balls, talk to me, and lick on my shit a bit.
Yeah sometimes you really do need to talk to them like this with specific instructions so they know what's expected. Don't take shit in this regard - remember your cock has been with you longer than she has and he doesn't deserve to be pressured to perform like this is the fucking circus.

Good luck. Also, don't fap to porn. If you want to fap, think of actual women. I love porn but you need to detox. Work porn back in slowly later when your cock works.
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>>16513800
Which looney bin did you escape from?

>hurr he mentions a pill which is well known and proven to do what it claims and with millions of satisfied users
>durr he must be a pharma shill!

I would tell you to take your meds, but since it's you, just eat your veggies and take your homeopathic "medecine" or whatever it is that you kooks believe in.
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>>16513851
>You also need to put this girl in her place. You're justified in being irritated at this bitch's lack of patience with your penis, because she's never felt uncomfortable riiiight? Silly girl needs to be more understanding (like the other lady you mentioned).
Whoaaa, this IS other girl. The girl I'm with right now is the patient one. And she's way way way more experienced than I am.

I mean, you're right about her needing to be patient if she wants it, but she is. She wants to get me off and she's doing her work, I'm just at a wall.
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>>16513622
>Yeah, I've always jerked it dry so I'm gonna change that... Wait a week, grab some condoms and use lube, and jerk as lightly as I can if I need to.
If this is a problem its probably going to take longer than a week of not fapping. It is more about your body and brain being too used to jerking off and needing to reset than your dick losing sensitivity from jerking dry.
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