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Hey /adv. Where do you stand on Porn and Relationships. Can they coexist together? When does it become problem, if ever? Is it impossible!?

Get in here, I know you've got opinions!!!
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How could they not exist together? It implies nothing if your so watches porn.
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Porn is good in tired, old relationships, where one side is still horny but the other just wants the company and isn't into it most of the time.
Before that, it's not the best feeling if they're normally willing and the s.o. pulls it instead of making the effort.
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>>16497301
As long as it's not negatively affecting your sex lives (physically and/or mentally), as long as getting off with your partner always comes first, as long as it's not a secret or a habit, and as long as it doesn't bleed into the realm of cam shows/phone sex, it's fine.

It can be exciting to watch together and fun to get new ideas from.
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I would consider it a problem if you're hiding the fact you watch porn from the other person, or not telling them what kind of porn you're watching. That shouldn't be a secret. You can also watch porn together during sex. The issue can be when that person doesn't last as long as a porn star, or isn't slutty like a porn star and that bothers you. You have to remember that these people are acting and it's not real life. If you're into something in porn that they don't want to do, can also be an issue because you may resent them for that. For one person to think their partner should only fantasize about them is unrealistic and unfair.
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I strongly encourage my boyfriend to watch porn and masturbate if I'm too tired to have sex. When I'm on my period I blow him while he watches porn, we call it a 'bleejay.' We've been together for 4 years and our relationship is basically perfect.

If you find a girl that is so insecure that she requires your mind to only think of HER sexually, and demands all of your orgasms be for her and her alone, she's probably not the best gal you can get with. I've never understood the mentality of porn being 'bad' for women and relationships. Men are visual creatures, a video or picture of some bitch he's never going to meet isn't a threat. Now camwhores and ex nudes is another story, and thats something I'm not okay with.
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>>16497472
Where do we find more girls like you? No, seriously.
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>>16497301
I don't care for porn myself, but I don't care if my boyfriend watches porn, as long as it doesn't interfere with our sex life. He doesn't have any, but if he had things like nudes of girls he's known in the past, that'd be a no-go zone however
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If my girlfriend tried to get me to stop watching porn I'd hate fuck her in the ass for being insolent.
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>>16497472

Do you care what sort of porn your guy looks at? Is there a line with you, and if so, what is it and do you want him to not watch porn that is past that line, or you just don't want to watch it with him or know about him watching it?

What if your guy was like, "Hey Honey, today I found some great horse porn, an authentic gang rape vid from Japan, and some cp! Let's make a night of it!"
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>>16497504
Here we go.
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>>16497504
Let the shitposting begin
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>>16497512
My girlfriend wants to watch porn with me

Not a big deal if you both realize its just for fun

Why so serious
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>>16497508

Well, not all porn is equal, is it? When I hear, "I don't care if my boyfriend watches porn," I think, well, the porn your boyfriend watches and the porn he lets you know he watches are very likely different things. It doesn't even have to be illegal porn we're talking about, it might just be weird. If I had a clown fetish or a diaper fetish I would simply be like, welp, guess I'm dying with this secret. Nice to know I'll always have that.
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>>16497301
If you have a live human with mutual attraction and values it is pointless to look at porn. Porn is about lonely people who have to pleasure THEMSELVES. Porn is depressing.
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>>16497501
This is a sign of addiction, guys.
Roid rage and disregard for companionship. That is how you end up alone.
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>>16497518
She will see other cock types and get ideas. How are people this naive?
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>>16497523

Wow, someone from 1955! This is going to blow your mind, but man is seriously going to walk on the fucking moon. No shit.
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>>16497526
A dildo isn't cheating.
And if you aren't going to take 5 viagras at once so you can make a mould of it, then you go buy her a dick.
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>>16497528
Thanks. I'm grateful for my traditional values in this day and age of degeneracy.
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>>16497518
Weren't you gay?
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>>16497533
>traditional values

Oh, so you're going to have multiple wives, right? Because throughout most of civilized human history, that has been the norm, and by being traditional, it must be right.

>I meant MY traditional values.

Oh, well then, I also choose to call my values traditional values, since it seems any values can be called traditional values.
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>>16497550
A traditional nuclear family. You seem like the edgy type.
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>>16497525
>Implying she wouldn't like it
Last time this happened I had to stop for a bit so she could finish orgasming
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>>16497555

Gosh, I hope you don't mean Traditional Christian values, because biblical Jacob of Canaan's nuclear family had four wives.

>I mean that I take what seems normal to me, call it traditional, and then defend it as being right or good because it's traditional. I define normal as "whatever my parents did."

Awesome philosophy.
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>>16497504

Our fetishes are mostly in line. We both enjoy light BDSM, monstergirls, and lewd roleplay (we actually met playing DnD, my Xmas gift to him is going to be a sexy 1-on-1 session), but there is little porn he watches that I consider to be 'gross'. I'm not really into the fabled 'double blowjob' that he seems so fond of, but I would never be comfortable sharing my man with another woman in real life, much less fighting her over who's mouth is going on his cock first. But if he likes porn of two bitches slobbering on a dick, well, thats far better to me than the alternative.

Also obligatory
>liking 3DPD

>>16497486
We stay inside. Try your FLGS or comic shop.
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>>16497556
Most girls don't like anal because it isn't pleasurable to them because they don't have a prostate.
Either you were dating a full trans, she was faking it, or you found a genetic anomaly and you better pray to jesus so you can keep her.
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>>16497641
She's a Damn good faker then. Either way, I don't really care. I got my hate out and my seed deep in her ass. I was golden.
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>>16497599
You just restored my faith in women. brb getting a gf.
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>>16497673

Look for an aspie. Aspie girls are more logical and less ruled by their emotions. Also generally more intelligent and prone to more traditionally 'male' hobbies like DnD, MtG, and vidya.
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Porn is fine if it's not your first go to. My ex was a porn addict and it crashed our relationship.
I watch porn and I like it. I like sex with porn on too.
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>>16497541
No, its just a meme

>>16497526
She already has ideas
Didn't you know women think about sex too?
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My boyfriend watches porn right in front of me. As long as he isn't turning down sex with me to watch porn, or is watching porn 24/7 and so has trouble getting hard, I have no issues.
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>>16497641

I'm a girl and I like it. It feels different in a good way, and the pain of it is kind of a turn on for me. The only thing is dislike about it is the fact that it's an area were shit comes out, so it's not really hygienic and accidents can happen. For that reason alone I avoid it most of the time.
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>>16498201
I got an UTI from doing my ex-gf up the bum bum.
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>>16498220
Fucking girls in the ass seems like a waste of time since there's a perfectly good hole designed for it

Its just hot in porn

>tfw women will never EVER have prostates
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>>16498220
wear a condom next time
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>>16498220

Yeah, well poop will do that...
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>>16498220
You're supposed to wear a condom.

>>16497523
This.
If your sex life is dull enough to need porn to make it more exciting, then you're not trying hard enough. Research different sex toys/positions, roleplay, play sex games, there are literally millions of things out there to make your sex life better. Porn is just a quick fix for single people or if your gf is away.
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