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G/f wanna kill herself What to do?

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G/f wanna kill herself
What to do?
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>>16486594
Have sex with her
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I kind of need more pre-text of the whole situation to answer this properly, but the best I can give you right now is to be there for her. Make sure she knows that you care. Let her friends and family know what's going on with her. She just needs love and support right now senpai.
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>>16486594

haha man, ok so here is a story:

>acquaintances have this fat friend and tell me about how her bf and her are so happy together
>I ask how can he be happy with a landwhale
>They tell me I am a horrible human
>Landwhale's bf kills himself
>Everyone acts like they don't/really don't understand why
>"He seemed so happy"
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tell her to play dr mario
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>>16486607
None of this makes sense.

>>16486605
Suicidal issues are not resolved by "being there".

Either get her to start therapy (by doing it yourself, warning her/your parent, calling the suicide hotline) or get her to stop attention-whoring.
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>>16486620

What part of a guy dating a fat girl and then killing himself doesn't make sense to you?

If you need to chew it for you, my point is that OP isn't making his girl happy.
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>>16486620
>Implying therapy actually helps all people
>Kek

Different people need different types of help. Some suicidal people need love and support, others need therapy, it really depends on the mental health on the person in question. You can't generalize and say therapy is the end all answer to everything.
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>>16486633
>>16486607

>acquaintances have this fat friend and tell me about how her bf and her are so happy together
>I ask how can he be happy with a landwhale
>They tell me I am a horrible human
>Landwhale's bf kills himself
>Everyone acts like they don't/really don't understand why
>"He seemed so happy"

I just fail to see how OP is relevant in any of this.
Unless you are suggesting that a guy killed himself solely on the fact that a friend of his gf's acquaintances suggested his gf was fat.
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>>16486650

I am saying he killed himself because he was settling for what most people don't want and pretending to be happy.

The function of a significant other is to bring happiness to the other person's life, if you have ever been truly in love, especially with it reciprocated (key part here), you would know that it's one of the best feelings in the world (blah blah chemicals in your brain). OP isn't delivering that.

Or his girl has other very serious problems which he can't help her deal with.
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>>16486650
fat people drive other people to suicide

op's probably fat
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>it's a 'x wants to kill itself' thread
>x will live for atleast 20 more years
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>>16486656

This is a valid assessment as well.
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>>16486655
Okay. Call me retarded - maybe I am - but I still fail to see how OP's gf is relevant in all this. She doesn't seem to appear anywhere in his greentext.

>>16486647
>implying helping all people helps all people
>Kek I've seen the world

Good God.
Therapy varies according to the patient's needs.
You can cope and come out ok with love and support, but you can't be sure you haven't repressed your trauma in a way that WILL bite your ass later. Get PROFESSIONAL help for serious shit. It's cheap and it saves lives.
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>>16486671
Don't trivialize other people's emotions. Suicidal thoughts are tough to get through and it's hard to get advice on the matter.
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>>16486594
I was like her I turned that sadness into rage. Now I want to kill people.
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>>16486686
I have yet to know someone who 'wants' to suicide; and I knew people who killed themselves.
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>>16486597
That's what made her suicidal
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>>16486594
Take her out on vacation somewhere if you can. Take her to the gym with you if you can. Smoke weed with her.

Or just talk to her about it. Ask why she feels this way. And tell her you'll be there for her.
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