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Hey guys, femanon here with a small problem. no back story needed but I'm absolutely terrified of not being able to breathe. I hate wearing tight necklaces, having my throat touched, Adams apple touched, etc. problem is, my S.O's turn on in the bedroom is sort of wrapping his hand/s around my neck and squeezing. He seems to really enjoy it so for his sake, any ways to overcome this fear? I don't want to take away something that's a fetish just because it terrifies me...
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>tell him and take away his fetish
>get over your fear by masturbating to choking porn and developing your own fetish through positive reinforcement
>deal with the fear.

Pick your poison
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Baby steps. First it starts with touching your neck, then resting something over it (not wrapped), then loosely tying something around it, etc. Work your way up.
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>>16480064
>my S.O's turn on in the bedroom is sort of wrapping his hand/s around my neck and squeezing
Tell him no if you don't want to break down your weird boundary and possibly become another spousal abuse statistic if he ever loses control or ignores the safeword.
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>>16480079
This. It's like exposure therapy which they use to treat phobias.
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he likes it BECAUSE you freak out. he does not have a strangling thing, it's a you panicking thing.
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>>16480109
I've never "freaked out" when he's done it. I tense up and get worried on the inside, but that's about it.
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>>16480109
If it is that you should dump him because that's rapey.
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>>16480064
>femanon
>Adam's Apple
The fuck?
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>>16480117
Everybody has one. Females just generally have smaller and less noticeable ones.
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>>16480079
>>16480079
Thanks anon, I'll try that out.
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