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Apparently i am like the 1% of the human population

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I am a 23 years old
Male
Never had a relationship (And dont plan on having one soon)
I dont consume alcoholic beverages,I find their taste horrible

Yet everyone in the family looks at me in a funny way, they ask stuff like "Are you gay?" "When you will bang a girl?"

What is so fucking weird about a guy that still doesnt have a girl and doesnt like those kind of drinks? i am so fucked up?

And no i never made any friends either, i prefer to be in solitude and peace, yet that makes them see me in a funny way too
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>>16463291
Your family seems to be extremely immature. Saying shit like "are you gay?" is what a middle schooler would say. What the fuck?

Also they are shaming you for being a virgin/never having a relationship. That's fucked up man. They're the weird ones.

Man, live your life the way you want to. While I do thing having relationships is very valuable experience if you plan on having one in the future, you gotta just tell those people to fuck off and live the way you want to. Like who are you living with? A bunch of 15 year olds?
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>>16463291
You're fine anon, you're better than most just because of those two things I think.
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>>16463313
it's pretty weird to have _zero_ romantic relationships at that age, maybe they're worried for his mental health, obviously there is something ill about him, as healthy individuals have needs they're compelled to fulfill.

You should seek a doctor or therapist, as being socially outcast with abnormal behavior may be a symptom of a larger problem.
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As long as you're OK with it, you shouldn't worry too much about what your family says. Come to downtown Seattle and you'll find hundreds of guys in the same position (single, introverted, avoid alcohol).

If you're really getting questions like 'are you gay' and 'when will you bang a girl' from your family, I'd probably brush that off. If they said that sort of stuff in public they'd be perceived as kind-of immature and maybe a bit bully-ish.
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Seek out what you want in life and do not let other people tell you what to want
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I am like you Anon I only got a relationship because my mom said "femon you are too young to be friendless and boyfriendless I am making you a dating profile!" And she did and that is how I met my fiance. Do not feel bad for being yourself just do your thing and figure out what you enjoy. There is no rush because you are your own person if we were all ment to be the same we would of been born that way.
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>>16463344
That's not true though Op could be perfectly healthy just Asexual and introverted.
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>>16463291
Normies gonna norm. But in all seriousness, you sound exactly like where I was at some point. I had a lots of obvious reasons that pointed to why I wasn't gay, which for the most part worked with no tension in my head. There was other stuff like traps, gay porn, and prostate stimulation that I found that made me think otherwise. However all irl men didn't seem to appeal to me sexually like girls did, even though I could acknowledge some of them as handsome.
This isn't regular heterosexual/homosexual male sexuality as I knew it. For a long time I just didn't know who I was sexually, and all I could do was just project my imagination in the dark and that often shook me to the core. To me then I was someone of reason that had petty survival instincts that would become obvious to me if I gave it some thought, and from there I could find the best solution to stop wasting time on it. I couldn't: understand it, stop it from wondering about it even if I tried, ignore it as some petty problem, completely pretend I didn't care. Besides that I thought if I just blindly painted that void with belief, after all history is ripe with occasions where doing just that was a shield irrational primitive behaviour that caused suffering.
I was in limbo with these thoughts for a long time. I came to the conclusion that I was just a man painting a chain of 'reason' onto a universe where there maybe a real chain of reason, but that real chain of reason ultimately lay beyond my comprehension. That means to me that whether or not I choose to accept it my version of the chain of reason becomes more and more irrational as I followed it and ultimately I was holding onto believes just like the rest of us monkeys.
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And what's your real problem? Do you care about what people say? Just don't.

Are you unhappy? If you are satisfied with your current situation, that's fine.
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None of that shit is a big deal. Just tell them to fuck off.
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>>16463291
And what are you doing with your life? Do you use the introvert card to make excuses for your life of porn and videogames?
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>>16463291
You're normal mate. I've a friend older than you that is a perfectly functioning person. Mind you he's sort of like a priest, but not really - values chastity and shit, but works as a nurse for various charity organizations. He's a perfectly functional member of society, if you are there's nothing wrong with you. You just know what things you like. As long as you're making money and aren't hurting anyone you're good in my book.
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>>16463313
Wait it´s actually weird and doesn´t happen in normal families? Everytime my family meets, for christmas or grandma´s birthday, eventually they start laughing at me for being social loser. I look good though and dress good. I thought this was normal....
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I agree with most of the reply section. There is nothing wrong with you. All you seem like is an introvert. What i'd probably do in your situation is get fun hobbies to work with.
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