Hey /adv/. I'm having all kinds of dick problems right now and I feel horrible. Let me explain.
I'm a 19 year old virgin. Just before I went away to college I spent a night with a girl, we got drunk, she wanted to bang but I couldn't get it up. That was fine, I blamed it on the alcohol, ate her out, she was perfectly happy.
Now I'm at college and she's been talking about having sex when I get home, sending me nudes, etc. Great, I was able to jack off perfectly fine. The thought of being unable to perform again crossed my mind every now and then but I thought it was unlikely.
Well now the time is drawing closer and the nerves are getting worse, and I think it's starting to affect my erections. I decided once November started not to jack off at all to build sexual frustration, but then I started noticing when she would send me nudes I'd get a raging hard-on, leak some precum, and it was gone. Then I noticed they were about an inch shorter than usual (I'm 6" when fully erect).
I got curious tonight and turned on some porn to see if I could bring it back up to full. I felt an orgasm coming on, tried to stop, but came while completely flaccid. I was horrified.
I get regular erections in the morning so I feel like it can't be a physical thing but what the fuck. I get the feeling I'm not going to be able to perform again or worse, I'll fucking cum flaccid or not be able to get to full length and just be embarrassed. What the fuck am I supposed to do? I know it could just be nerves but I feel worthless, and I don't want to start Viagra or some shit at fucking 19.
Performance Anxiety
>>16453971
Without a doubt. But how can I get over it?
>>16453988
Ah, I personally would have sex with a different girl first.
>>16453988
Backpage an escort and learn something about your PP sir.
>>16453924
The problem is porn and masturbation. Lay that shit off, manage to fuck her a couple times (even if you have to push in semisoft) and that's all it will take for your dick to start wanting her and not righty and screeny.
http://www.mensjournal.com/health-fitness/health/are-you-watching-too-much-porn-20130821
>>16454196
Do you think not jacking off or watching porn at all until November 28th is reasonable time for it to start getting excited again? Presumably with a lot of exercise.
After looking up a lot of shit about ED and performance anxiety I think I was freaking out for no reason.
>>16454207
That's a long enough time for no porn and far too long without jacking off.
>>16454216
Wait, so you actually think it would be beneficial to masturbate in that time? I'm confused.
>>16453924
the cumming while not fully erect happens to me whan I dont take my time masturbating and just try to reach orgasm as fast as possible
i think this wouldnt happen If when you fap you are already fully erect as in
Fap beacuse you're horny and not I put on porn this quickly aroused me so I must fap