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My boyfriend lost his boner mid sex I don't know why, but

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My boyfriend lost his boner mid sex

I don't know why, but in the middle of me riding him he had to stop me and tell me he lost it. I don't know why, I thought it was going good. He had to pull out and stroke himself until he was hard again before he tried to stick it back in me, but it really killed the mood and he had to finish himself with a hand job

Was it me? I'm not terribly ugly, my tits are decent and I'm not at all fat. However, today and yesterday I've been bloated. Afterwards we were joking and he said my ass was weird but he's never made a big deal about it.

Any idea what would cause this?

Someone suggested that maybe he lost interest so I'd appreciate some tips on how to keep him aroused in the middle of it.
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Maybe your pussy isn't tight enough.
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>>16448694
this happens to me quite a bit, and my partner always acts like its a much bigger deal than it is. but if osmething happens and woman just doesnt want to have sex anymore, its considered no big dela.

what was the weather like? for me this issue usually happens when its REALLY hot. all that humping gets me dizzy and dehydrated and the heat sinks in and i get tired cuz its hot as balls, and my balls are even hotter, and then my penis just shuts the fuck down. can get it hard but as soon as were humping its going to go soft again.
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Don't feel bad, OP. My ex had a smoking body, but I would randomly lose my boner from time to time. It might have to do with the position; when she was riding me, there was not as much sensation for me as one would think.
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>>16448694
It happens sometimes. I used to call it stealth orgasm, where your cock thinks you came but you really didn't.

When that happens, it's time for plan B. He better get on his knees and eat you out while fingering you.

It happens. It's not you. You can share nekkid pics if you want, but I strongly doubt it's you.
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It's not that uncommon, especially if he masturbates regularly. When you're used to a lot of sensation and stimulation to stay hard (i.e., your fist), it can be hard to keep it up in a vagina, which is a lot softer and (hopefully) wetter. Unless you're doing constant kegels there's no vagina that grips as hard as a hand. I'm guessing that's the issue here, as when he pulled out he immediately went to masturbation to get hard again.

I'd recommend you work on things like oral and other non-manual ways of stimulation, or if you do jerk him off use a very light touch, so he gets used to not needing as firm a grip to get and stay hard. On his part, he should probably jerk off less.
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I doubt it was you, OP. If you want to try anything though, try saying sexy things to him during sex. If you don't know what he likes to hear, ask him.
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>>16448723
Also this. Good point, anon.

Someone I love loved to be on top, but it felt....like nothing to me unless she completely pulled out and went back in each time, which is a LOT harder than it seems.
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if he's circumcised there's your reason
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>>16448694
Maybe he's got some secret kink that you're not satisfying. Try talking to him about it all more? More foreplay, pillowtalk, and generally getting more into it, is suppose?
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>>16448694
sometimes your dick just goes soft, maybe he had a flash back to a boner killer memory.

>inb4 why would he have a bad memory flash back during sex
it happens, you can't control that shit. and there's a lot of other reasons.
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How long had you been at it for?
I have found that after a lengthy time of going at it the sensation isn't as strong and I find I will go soft ocassionally, my GF usually uses her hands to solve the problem and then we're back at it again.

Also have you considered it might be the position? For me, cowgirl and reverse cowgirl do absolutely nothing for me unless I'm thrusting upwards, if she's riding I don't get anything from it.

So it probably isn't you. Talk to him.
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>>16448730
It happens sometimes. I used to call it a "headache", where your woman feels tired or is just stressed from work.

When that happens, it's time for plan B. She better get on her knees and blow you.
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>>16448719
you are a complete pussy.
>>16448771
Seriously? I am 43 and this has never happened to me for "no reason" you , too, are a pussy.

Possible reasons:
1 - you stink
2 - you can't keep rhythm
3 - your pussy feels like fucking a bread sack full of warm jello
4 - he jacked off earlier in the day
5 - he watches too much porn
6 - you weigh more than you say and was hurting him
7 - he had really bad gas and was about to fart
8 - he was thinking about his (school/work/sports/sick family, debts, etc)
9 - He no longer loves you - although this is the most unlikely, because guys can fuck people they hate if they are horny enough and the girl is cute enough

10 - He fucked another girl earlier that day, although this is unlikely too as studies show that cheating men have higher testosterone to begin with and they get a T boost from the cheating so they need more sex when cheating.
11 - he was drunk/hungover, coming down from a 3 day coke bender
12 - you were saying all sorts of stupid porn star shit like "Yeah, fuck me baby, fuck me, yeah, fuck me, I love your thick cock in my gaping wet pussy, yean baby fuck my nasty gash. stick it htere, deeper baby deeper. cum in my dripping snatch.
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>>16448856
>43 years old
>on 4chan
>giving other people advice
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>>16448891
ha - the jokes on you...I mistyped my age. I am really 53.
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probably his mind wandered off to stressfull shit like work, or he felt insecure about himself or something, just talk to him about it.
if he thought you were ugly, he wouldn't have been with you in the first place.
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>>16448719
>what was the weather like?
are you a fucking witch doctor?
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It's alright anon. I feel ya.
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Sounds like my first time after 10+ years of regular porn use.
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>>16448826
God Damn. Fucking slay. I'm all for women's rights and everything, but why is it no big deal when she can't get wet if it's the end of the world when I'm only half-stiff?
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Hmmmm. it is possible her pussy just stinks or is as loose as a gallon ziploc
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How do I bring this up? Should I even ask about it?

I was thinking of waiting until we're alone again but I won't be alone with him until the day after tomorrow. So I don't know if I should wait or just ask him with a text, because he can be insincere over messaging.
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>>16449717
Jesus, don't. Just don't. This is ONE time, ya crazy bitch. If it keeps happening, then you should bring it up, because clearly something bigger is at work. You're making a big deal out of nothing.
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