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Please help me save my marriage. My husband's friend who

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Please help me save my marriage.

My husband's friend who recently lost his job and apartment is sleeping on our couch for a week and I did something stupid. I think he was trying to seduce me.

Every morning my husband goes out to work at 8 something AM and I'm always sleeping, I wake up around 10 and his friend is still sleeping in the couch. Every morning after I woke up and walked by on the way to the kitchen he was sleeping shirtless and with just light boxer shorts with a huge erection. Every morning. I asked my husband if he saw anything weird before going to work and he said not, so in retrospect he must've done it in purpose for me to see it.

Yesterday I walked by as normal and he was sleeping completely naked. I stood by and watched him for a bit. I don't know why. I think he noticed it. I went to the kitchen and a few minutes later he came after me. We had sex twice yesterday. It was a mistake. I was just on the verge of exploding and felt like I had to do it. Today he was sleeping normally with the blanket on so I guess he got what he wanted.

Is there any way for this to not ruin my marriage? I feel like I was coerced without really wanting to.
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>>16444917
> I was just on the verge of exploding and felt like I had to do it
>I feel like I was coerced without really wanting to.
pick one you fucking whore.
Your husband is a fucking C U C K
you are a dumb cunt that don't deserve to be loved.
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Confess to your husband and invest in a chastity belt.
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>>16444917
>I feel like I was coerced without really wanting to.


so if I were to just show you my dick, you'd feel obligated to start sucking and fucking it?

gtfo!
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gr8 b8 m8 I r8 8/8 m8 me r8 anons are going to reply anyway
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He will come back when he wants more OP, you will have to keep fucking him to keep your secret alive, the longer this goes on the worse things will get, you turn him down and his going to your husband.

Either way this is not his fault, he betrayed his friend but at the end of the day you are the one who stood and promised a trustworthy relationship to your husband. You obviously lied.

Tell your husband so he can get rid of his shitty friend, don't try to justify what you did with excuses of why you did it or blaming it onto his friend. Be honest, assure him it won't happen again, then leave it down to your husband to decide.

If he keeps you then you are one lucky bitch and must be good fuck material. If he leaves you then you are not worth the hassel and you redeem yourself by being honest and leaving the relationship due to your fuck up.
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>>16444927
It's not that simple, it's someone teasing you every single day and then coming after you.
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0/10 apply yourself
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>>16444934
>It's not that simple, it's someone teasing you every single day and then coming after you.


what is restraint?
what is morals?
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If you can do this to your man then you dont truly love him..
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>>16444938
what is telling the cunt to sleep in some clothes cause you don't wanna see that in your living room?
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I've cheated and regretted it before. The guilt fucks with you, but not as much as being cheated on does. Your hubby is going to find out, because that guy is a douche and will almost definitely tell. Prove that you feel bad and that it was a mistake, and tell your husband right away. The more you pussyfoot around, the harder he'll take it, and the more you risk the guy telling him first.

Unless your husband's just a fucktoy, in which case keep the secret and screw both of them for as long as you can until the jig is up.
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>Is there any way for this to not ruin my marriage?
Only if marriage vows meant nothing to both of you.
How can someone live with themselves after doing this?
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Even if it is bait, it's woman logic.

"I-I'm not a whore with no loyalty, love, or impulse control! He used his psychic Alpha powers to control my body! Twice! I-I was confused! You were n-negleeeecting me!"
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You're actual human garbage
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>>16445204
This t bh
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Once again monogamy is proven wrong.

Live with it, betacunts. OP is just human. Human beings were never intended for life-long monogamy. Christianity and Disney got inside your brains. The husband shouldn't have let someone with a dick sleep on the couch in front of his woman. Inderectly, the husband memed himself. I am laughing my ass of in your direction. But enjoy your divorce/miserable marriage/non-monogamous happy lifestyle, OP

Welcome to the family of there's no such thing as kek. Accept that people do as they please, or sadcum.
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>>16444917
> felt like I had to do it

Fuck you, your dint want advice and your won't listen, you've already mastered the art of blaming external forces for your screw-ups which is completely typical of a woman.
Just leave your husband you dumb shit, if your ever loved him he deserves that. You, obviously, will get over it.
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why don't you accuse the guy of rape, OP? really go all out, i bet you're considering it
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>>16444917
gr8 b8 m8, inb4 200+ replies
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>>16445276

She already used the word "coerce" and I'm pretty sure "coercion" is a crime in the same category as rape. She's already there.
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>I feel like I was coerced without really wanting to.

No. You did what your pussy without self control told you to do it. So, in other words, you thought with your ass. You don't feel like being "coerced" into doing something you did not want to, you just want to do whatever your pussy feels like doing without feeling bad about it and not getting any repercusion. You are just a lazyass bitch looking for excuses to justify your actions.
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>>16444917
plz be bait
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>>16444934
So if Im naked around you for a few days I can fuck you too?
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>>16445308
I did not want to do it. He came in the kitchen fully naked already making advances at me. After being teased for a week. He knew what he was doing to control me.
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>>16445358
here is your reply now get out
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>we had sex twice

> I feel like I was coerced without really wanting to

Yeah, you're stupid as hell. You don't just have sex with a guy multiple times if you don't want to. It never crossed your mind to keep it in your fucking pants and save yourself for your husband?

God, I wish you /r9k/ ladyboys would just go back to your hole...
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>>16444928
The bait is most excellent today.
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>He knew what he was doing to control me.

Taking the opportunity to fuck a pussy without self control that could not give a fucking no at least one in TWO SCENENARIOS. That's correct, it's totally his fault for being good at taking advantage at people without control of their holes (that include your head as a whole). Fuck off, go suck a dick.
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>>16444917
That's fucking hot.
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>>16445242
I'm not OP, but I wish I didn't care so much for monogamy.

I mean, I'd be able to be in an open relationship with someone I'm not really in love with...
But if I fall in love I become really jealous ;_;
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>>16445358
lmao i wonder if this is rly b8
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>>16444917
>I think he was trying to seduce me.
I think you were trying to seduce him and it worked like a charm. If you had wanted him to cover it up you could have told him or your husband (it is your house) and stopped wagging your ass in front of him when you knew he was showing you his dick.

I don't think it will ruin your marriage unless this worthless friend stays for an extended period. Just have a chat with the friend and you guys make an agreement to remain silent.
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>>16445408
I've seen and heard about cases like this to truly think that is something possible. I would not be surprised at all if this is proved to be bait or real. Some people are fucked up in the head (and not just in the funny jockey way).
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>>16445420
>I don't think it will ruin your marriage

I think it will, and so it should
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Your husband:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MBGaAsRsGcM
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Op you have been tempted and you fell into the trap. It happens to the best of us and none of us are perfect. Plenty of women and men have done this since forever. I think you should tell the truth. would you want your husband to find out the hard way? What if you got a disease or pregnant? You have to think of a solution before bad things start to happen. Personally i wouldn't have done it unless the guy literally raped me and i had no way to get out. I would have thrown a pillow on top of his erection hard in order to hurt him. Or thrown cold water on his dick so he could stop. Anyway eventually you have to tell the truth. woman up and tell him. marriage should have no secrets. you guys took a vow and made promises to each other till death right?
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>>16444917

>i feel like i was coerced without really wanting two
>twice

jesus this is why rape law sucks.
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>I didn't like how he was exposing himself in my house
>So I fucked him while my husband was out toiling for me
Kill yourself, you worthless whore.
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>>16445427
Not so sure. If she remains quiet and the husband doesn't know then she's good. Shit like this happens all the time and my guess OP has fucked around on her husband before and nothing happened. Hell even if the husband suspected I doubt he would try real hard to know the truth and should he ask it is clear OP knows some flimsy ass story about the friend tricking her into fucking him twice will work.

It is encouraging for all the guys that send women dick picks.
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I feel for the husband though

>lets homeless 'friend' stay with him in the house
>is out earning money for himself and the wife to pay for the house they live in
>wife and friend fuck eachother

this is how serial killers are born
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>>16445459
>her husband doesnt know

what kind of faggot are you that you actually vouche for this whore?

goddamn
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>>16445463
It's female nature.
They want to have a provider and atleast one random guy who they are fucking on the side while being provided for by the first guy.

It's just how they work.
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>>16445463
I would go behind your point in time and say how shitty relationship are born because people don't pay attention to behavior people like OP has. And somebody else already said it: this shit is not uncommon at all. If I could get money for every shitty relationship out there, I could see how the NEET life is like.
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>>16445468
Not vouching for the whore and I believe she is one but looking at it from her perspective asking for advise. We all know broads like her, the friend knows and bet the husband in the back of his mind knows she's a whore but wants to remain blissfully ignorant.
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>>16444917
>Today he was sleeping normally with the blanket on so I guess he got what he wanted.
you poor thing you but look at it this way you got what you wanted too. You didn't explode
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>>16444917
2/10 very lazy bait, apply yourself
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>>16444917
>>16444924
You're a cunt with no self-control OP. You made a decision to destroy your marriage and now you have to live with those consequences.
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>>16444917
Caught in bad weather I stayed at a buddies house instead of driving home and there was another couple with their kid there that couldn't make it home too. Everybody ate had a few beers my friend and his wife head to bed, this other couple and his wife and kid head to bed in a spare room and me on the floor in the living room. Middle of the night this broad that had the kid slips in beside me on the floor and starts rubbing all over me. WTF and whisper she better get back to her husband and kid before both our asses get caught. She's kinda butthurt and won't leave till the kid comes in the living room calling mommie. She was fine and had spotted her checking me out throughout the night but never this shit. When a woman gets an itch and picks out a dude they'll do most anything.
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>>16444917
This sounds a bit too porn movie storyline to be real. Sorry, I think you're trolling here.
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/fit/ master race hre, all men have boners when sleeping, it's proved scientifically.

So now you can only blame yourself and live with the guilt.
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>>16445204
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he could have had an erection the size of the eiffel tower every day, still you shouldn't have acted on it if you were foing to feel this way afterwards. you are obviously not satisfied with your husband or you wouldn't have gone after the first stiff dick you saw. confess to him and prepare for a shitstorm, unless this was all a plan and your hubs is actually a kek.
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>>16445358
That's when you tell him to fuck off lol what a dumb cunt.
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>>16445665
the friend has only been on the couch for a week and she's been spying that dick every morning and finally went for it. Hell who wouldn't if she just stands there gaping at it
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>>16445685
there's nothing wrong with looking. if there was, porn wouldn't exist. but it should have stayed just at that if she was going to regret it.
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>>16444917
>People are actually responding seriously to this obvious b8.
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>>16444917
>I stood by and watched for a bit
Was gonna say ew, you're a little weird, but it's not so bad, you just kinda saw something. Not a good situation but okay.
>We had sex twice yesterday
What the fuck OP. What. The. Fuck.
That is NOT okay. Come on, you know better than this. You should know better.


God dammit. This is the kind of shit that makes me terrified to get married. I am doing it next year and I am so happy but then I read this shit and it scares the shit out of me.
I really REALLY hope this kind of thing never happens to me. REALLY.
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>>16444917
Claim he raped you, or something bitchy like, since you already willingly cheated on your hubby.
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what is love
baby dont hurt me
dont hurt me
no more
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This >>16445647
That is very accurate. I feel confident when I say the boners were because he was sleeping or just recently woke up.

Probably he saw the opportunity when he caught you staring.

Also this >>16445463. This kind of situations make me disgusted of the human race. I know not everyone is like this but most of the people are.
You are so shitty OP.
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How was the sex?
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>>16445868
she had seconds
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>>16445874
Eh I've gotten seconds and I suck in bed.
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Honestly, you may as well get a divorce. It's not like any court will side with your husband, so you'll get whatever you ask for in the divorce.
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You are a fucking cunt, you've destroyed your husbands soul. His friend? You are the lowest of low on the skank scale.

What the fuck would your mother think?
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>>16445358
>having THIS LITTLE self control
When I had a gf (not even married so you've even less excuse) I was propositioned by multiple women who wanted to have sex with me, whilst this obviously isn't quite as dramatic as them being naked and approaching me, the point is that your dedication to someone you supposedly love should override your fucking vagina, atleast now you're clearer on how much you actually care about your husband.
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>>16444917
you're a whore. no one has sex without consenting unless it's rape. tell your husband and see how he reacts. If i were him i would ditch your ass. You don't deserve him.
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>>16444917
There is a TREMENDOUSLY huge difference between "husband do you notice anything strange?" and "husband he is making me very uncomfortable can you please have him stop?" you had every opportunity to prevent this and did nothing, you even admit to WANTING it, don't pull that lame ass I was coerced shit now just so you can cover your ass with your husband. You fucked up, you fucked him you could have said no. you need to accept you are at fault here.
On another note, how much of a "friend" can this guy be to your husband if he would fuck his wife?
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>>16444917

Your post is most likely bait, but I'm going to attempt an honest and heartfelt response anyway. Obviously you recognize something is seriously wrong and you need help, but how deep does this realization go? Going along progressively deeper levels of understanding...OP, please pick one of the following:

- you realize this will screw up your living situation: how to best hide this from my husband and get away with it?
- you realize vaguely you've done something bad: How can I hide this and deal with the guilt?
- you realize hiding this will turn your marriage into a lie: How to best confess to my husband?
- you realize your husband has feelings: How can I confess, ease his pain, and heal this horrible wound?
- you realize you are deeply flawed, and by extension your marriage: How can I fix myself, what must my husband fix in himself? What do we have to fix in our marriage?
- you realize you've broken the most important commitment of your life: How can I become a stronger person and learn to live with at least a shred of integrity?
- you realize you don't even know what love is: What is love? If I actually loved my husband, how could I do this? What does this mean for my marriage? For my future happiness?
- you realize you have poor impulse control, and are basically an overgrown child: WTF is wrong with me? This is no way to live life. I want to be a human, not an animal.

...and on and on. What level of introspection have you gotten to, OP? None of this is meant to insult you, you have to realize the enormity of your situation.

Repairing it will be a lifelong journey. This means years of individual and couples counseling (if your husband doesn't leave you outright), self help and introspection. People with your level of weakness seldom have the determination or resources to do this.
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>plot twist
>the friend never lost their job or apartment
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The whore wife aside. What kind of literal human garbage sleeps with the wife of a man who took you in at your lowest point? It speaks volumes as to how you even ended up at that point in your life being homeless and out of a job. Empathy truly is a rarity.
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>>16446260
>the husbands knows
>he just want his bro to get some pussy after his gf left hime 2 weeks ago

Now we're talking trash
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>>16446260
>>16446609
OP here. His friend just said that he got his job back and he is going to this house he just found throught a friend. He said goodbye and thanks to me and my husband like nothing ever happened, but he touched my ass as he walked out the door. I don't think it was very kind of him after making me fuck him three times already. I feel taken advantage off, and I'm stressed. hlp pls i feel alon and cheated

hehehehe
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