How can I tell if my boss is flirting with me, vs. seeing me

>>16439828

generally, its a bit of both. he'll convince himself its not sexual but it might spill over.

but if no one else was there, its definitely him interested in you

No no no. Grabbing your neck, ruffling your hair and asking you out on a hike? Come on op. He clearly wants to bang you and is testing to see how far you let him. This isn't normal at all and you should tell this old bastard to knock it off.

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>>16439828
>grabbing my neck

He wants to fuck. It's really obvious.

>>16439841
Yeah, it was one-on-one. I guess he teases and touches me most when we're alone, but I do experiments only with him (he's the lead prof in a lab, I assist) so we'v gotten to know each other.

>>16439844
I mean, since he has a son, maybe he's used to roughhousing with his kid and extends that to me? He talks about gross stuff with no problem, like telling me about how he got food poisoning, so I'm not sure if he's trying to impress me at all.

>>16439895
Lol

Stop leading him on

>someone is spending time, money, and physically touching me

>is he interested??

Women are the worst creatures in the world. If it was a hot dude she would have no problem interpreting these signs, however she does not want to ruin her current relationship with this old dude and is pretending that it's just "friendly rough-housing" in a vain attempt to keep everyone happy.

>>16439904
>money
Where does it say money. Yes, I like spending time with him and he's fun to joke around with. Yes, I want to keep doing research in his lab. No, I don't want to have a sexual relationship with someone over half my age.

>>16439918
Hiking requires sleeping bags, yes? As in more than one? And enough food for two or more people right, so he couldn't just grab enough for himself. Food/bags/etc aren't free.

>>16439927
>hiking requires sleeping bags
Nevermind I'm a fucking retard and think camping == hiking apparently.

>>16439841
>he'll convince himself its not sexual but it might spill over.
This. He might not have admitted to himself that he wants you in that way. Be careful.

>>16439927
>>16439933
Heh.

Uh, would it help if I made up a boyfriend (or better, girlfriend) and talked about them, do you think?

>>16440184
If you start randomly mentioning your gf or bf, he'll probably catch you in the lie.

>>16440237
Also,
>gf
Does he know about your sexuality? Are you actually bi or lesbian?