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how to fix
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>>18566346
geography as in the study of lands? or geometry as in shapes and lines and stuff? or geology as in the study of rocks and shit?
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>>18566357

I don't know much about where everything is on a map. I just don't know anything about countries in general.

Im mostly interested in knowing where everything is and having a little general knowledge about the places.
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>>18566346
>>18566346
can someone help me?

should i stick a map up on my room? any good quizzing apps to help improve my geograthy? ect? help me out brah i don't wanna be a complete dumbass.

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Ok so I am essentially a NEET however I have been doing a very simple job for a friend of mine a couple times a week. He just writes me a check every couple weeks as payment and I deposit it in my bank account. My question is will this get taxed as income? How do they know? Is there some kind of threshold?
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Well you pay taxes on anything you buy anyway
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idk about american law, but yep, you could get fucked in the ass if they find out. might be they don't, but if they do, you know...
it's mostly only a problem if you lead a lifestyle that doesn't suit your taxed income, though. as in, get wellfare and drive a tesla.
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>>18566341
That's what people refer to as being paid "under the table". You should be recording the amount you're being paid and then when you file taxes input it properly. There's a very small chance you'll ever be audited however you might eventually trigger a flag with your bank for drug offenses or money laundering.

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how do i not get caught up in feeling pressured to have an orgasm which makes me unable to orgasm altogether?

some background informations:
i always had a hard time orgasming, but my husband managed to make me cum after we were together for about half a year. over time, making me cum every now and then wasn't enough anymore and he wanted me to come more often, harder, squirt, have multiple orgasms, and so on. which is understandable, but it put me under too much pressure to "perform" and i suddenly realized that i had lost all interest in even wanting to have an orgasm. it's more of a chore now to make him feel "capable".
how do i get back to a healthy outlook on my own orgasms?
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It's because he feels that he is failing as a man by not satisfying you. Best way would be to play his manliness in other ways.
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>>18566437
i get that and have talked to him about it but to no avail. i also think that i don't undermine his manlines or sense of capability in any other way. bit on my witts end here.
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>>18566443
>talked to him
>witt's end
your witt is really short desu

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I've been a big fan of film since I was a child and I've lately been wondering what it takes to get into the industry? I want to be a film director and make some Oscar worthy movies but I don't know quite where to start. Should I go to school to learn more about it or start homemade by myself and hire some actors and rent out some sets?
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>>18566266

> I want to be a film director and make some Oscar worthy movies but I don't know quite where to start.

Stop being 17 and give up now.
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Convert to Judaism.
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Film student about to graduate here. Been on about half a dozen "professional" productions. A couple Netflix originals, three Indie films, and one blockbuster.

I can tell you that "the film industry" is really hundreds of individual talents and jobs under the same general umbrella. Rarely does someone set out "to get into the business" without a specific field or goal. For example, if you say "I want to be a cinematographer," it's a lot easier to find success than saying "I wanna make movies."

Also, practice, practice, practice. Make as much shit as you can, because each time you make something, it becomes less and less shit. Then, suddenly, your shit is making its way through festivals and eventually on the big screen.

Be a people person and read as much about film and watch as much film as you can.

Note, however: if your goal is truley to make Oscar movies, give up. Not that it's impossible, but it is indicative of the completely wrong mindset. If your goal is notoriety and fame, there are much more lucrative and easier ways. If you love telling stories visually, on screen, then pursue film.

Continued.

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to die? you'd have to drink at least 750ml per day, I'd reckon, but that would probably start creeping up towards 1000ml as the addiction increased
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>>18566261
so basically your whole life has to be devoted to it? lol
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>>18566270
I mean, yeah, people with that level of addition literally wake up in the middle of the night shaking and have to take a shot to get back to sleep. you stay drunk 24/7. your cells actually need alcohol to function properly, which is why you die if you stop

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I just got into an argument with my mom about a timesheet she wanted to fill out. Basically, she thinks I can't count hours, or something along the lines of that.

Here's an example: if you count all the hours from 11AM to 5PM, how many hours is that? I ask this, because she came up with 6 hours and I got 7, and she's saying I'm wrong.

She got 6 because she didn't count the 11th hour, but I did. I just think that what I did is the accurate and correct way of calculating it. When you count hours, do you skip over the initial hour, and then start at the next one?
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Wtf
> 11 to 12 equals 1 hour
> 12 to 1 equals 1 hour
This shit Is basic math
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>>18566252
I ask this, because honestly I'm just frustrated with how she handled this with me, saying I don't know math and all that.

I'm a college student, and I've been doing math for most of my life. I mean, what right does she have?
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6.

11 to 12
12 to 1
1 to 2
2 to 3
3 to 4
4 to 5

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Hi fags, I'm wondering what the consequences are if someone was to take:
1. 20 mersyndol
2. 15 Zoloft tablets (100mg each)
3. 10 duromine tablets (30mg each)

IM NOT GOING TO DO THIS!!!
I am honestly just WANDERING how those 3 medicines would react with each other in such "large" quantities.
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>>18566206
Isn't that what the drugs board is for op?
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>>18566211
420chan?
Isn't that place fucking dead?! LMAO
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>>18566206
First off wtf is people recenly asking for drug taking advice here. And second, 1500 of paracetamol is going to fuck you up real bad. I don't know why you'd want to combine antidepressants and weight loss pills with an antiinflamatory and antifebrile drug. Seriously don't see the point. If are a fit person probly will get a hell of a diahrrea and stomachace and sweats from the combination.

I'm going to greentext this so I can get my point across faster

>me, 20 now, grew up best friends with my mom
>She was my biggest support system through my teen years
>Divorced my dad when I was 14
>Starts dating again when I am 17
>Meets this guy, is always at his house, which is weird to me but whatever, I have my own bf at this point (who is currently my fiance)
>about to turn 18
>She tells me I need to move out and I have 3 weeks after turning 18 so her soon to be HUSBAND can move in
>wtf mom I have never even met him
>freshly 18, literally swap places and get his old apartment even though I am not ready to move out, I have not even done my senior yer of high school yet and I am forced to get my GED instead
>Mom and her husband won't let me take MY dog that I had since I was 11 years old even after moving out of the apartment that doesn't allow dogs
>Her husband only lets me see her every once in a while and I am not allowed in their house
> Don't know what the fuck I did to deserve this, I never did anything mean to the man
>Cry myself to sleep routinely because I miss my mom and dog

another instance where something weird happened, I was with my friend who had a dog and I love dogs so I played with it but got an allergic reaction in my eye, it was so swollen I couldn't see out of it. Called my mom and asked if she could drop off some allergy medicine in my mailbox since we lived a couple miles away. She later tells me I have to apologize to her husband after that, because that was me "trying to get him away from her."

I have talked to her about this a lot. She changes the subject or ignores it. A lot of people tell me to stop talking to her but it's so hard because I love and miss her and I am scared for her. I don't have a clue what to do anymore. It hurts so bad and I would have never seen this coming years ago.
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>>18566194
I know it hurts but your mom is literally insane. She's a two face bitch. That is probably jealous of you because you're young and pretty. It might seem like a meme but older women can become vultures. I know she was really important and cared about you. But now she doesn't. You will have to accept that and move forward. Femnon it will be hard but you can do it. Also find a new support structure. Do try to chase her for love. She won't be giving it.
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>>18566194
Photo of my eye that night, he told my mom it "was fake and just to get her away from him and spend money on me" ????
I couldn't even go out and get my own because it was midnight and no stores carrying allergy meds were open and I knew she had some of my old ones
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>>18566213
I don't think she is jealous, she tries to buy me things to make up for her behavior with her husband all the time. I literally have to tell her that money and objects isn't what I want. I don't know. I just feel broken.
At one point she admitted that his "behavior needed to change" and "things would be changing and she misses me so much."
but they never did. and I am left feeling worthless and torn apart.

>be me
>having fun with friends
>some guys being douchebags spilling water on each others
>water got on me I got irritated and kinda act bigshot in front of them
>they take it as a joke and I turned and found my friends standing way back
>go to them and asked why they bitching out at me
>they told me that they were their senior's and were notorious for violence
>we got out fast really fast
>I just survived an encounter which might have ended in hospital bed
NEVER FUCK UP OK ITS SCARY AS FUCK
Oh and how to grow balls too
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I miss middle school
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Better to end up in a hospital bed than be a pussy like your friends.
What kind of "friends" wont even back you up in a fight.
Fucking pussys.
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You were ready to start a fight over spilt water.
>crying over spilt milk

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>gf on birth control pill
>always pull out and cum on her stomach when we have sex

she cannot possibly get pregnant can she?
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>when taken correctly, it is up to 99.9% effective
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>>18566117
Like to take risks eh? Enjoy getting your girlfriend pregnant and makeing her a single mother when you inevitably leave out of shame and anger. Because takeing unnecessary risk is run.
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>>18566117
I was in a one year relationship, and a three year relationship where they were on the pill. Never pulled out, no demon spawns. Milage may vary

Short of it:

>take class in university
>professor is a horrible man
>he curses us out every class, has unreasonable assignments, fails entire class on work 'to teach us a lesson,' called one girl a bitch and made her cry when he yelled at her, and is just awful
>ends up sending me a really personal, ugly email when I say I will be missing a class for work

(It's an intro to film production basics class... and I was working as a PA on an actual production)

>I respond by saying "Sorry, my actual job in production comes before this basics class"
>he sends me five emails over the course of 20 minutes, really just saying some horrible things about me, my future, my physical appearance, and my "attitude."
>I ignore them
>the next day at work, my production manager (my boss) says she got a call from this professor and he advised her I should be fired
>I'm not, but my boss says that I can't work there if I'm going to be making waves
>Then I get a call from the professor the same week saying that he knows my church where I volunteer/serve (???) and that he might just tell them what kind of person I am
>I drop the class but he sees my in the building and corners me
>yells about how I am a failure and that I should drop out and get used to minimum wage now

A week later, I attempted suicide. Ended up in the hospital for a long weekend.

Now the university is forcing me to take his class again. He's already sent me an email saying "how much he's looking forward to seeing me again"

I'm so scared and upset and I have no idea what to do. The university won't do shit. I'm so close to graduating and after last time, I was able to take advanced classes without this basics class but I still am forced to get the credit.

I just feel horrible and terrified. What can I do? I don't want to get legal stuff involved - I just want to avoid this monster.
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OP, you're either being overly dramatic or you're telling the truth. If you're telling the truth, forward his "nasty emails" to his boss, as that's the most obvious move. He's the one who dug his own grave by harassing students via email. If you're unwilling to report behavior that's deserving of termination then nothing will be done. Make the changes you want to see.

You say that "the university won't do shit" but how do you know that? Did you try?
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>>18566099
just report him , literally if he's this much of an asshole other students will back you on this.
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Uhhhh report him to the school and threaten him with harassment charges/ restraining order.

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Tips on quitting bad health habits?

Trying to live a sober life and give up weed, all nicotine sources and alcohol. Anyone done it?
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Weed isn't physically addictive. It's just a matter of stopping.

Alcohol and nicotine are both physically addictive with marked withdrawal effects. with those, it's a matter of scaling down. The most effective strategy is to scale down and keep to your schedule and goals.

Some people find cold turkey better, but that's up to personal choice. ultimately, there's no 12 step program, no pill, no quick fix for it. You just have to pull up your big boy pants and quit the bullshit. It's mind over matter. It's the only way to do it.

Always remember: If you continue in the direction you're going, you'll end up where you're headed.
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>>18566100
With the weed, I know it's not physically addictive but I've come to a pattern of using it to curb anxiety so it is somewhat addicting to me because I don't know any other way of coping at this point.
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>>18566114
If you're taking it as medicine, why do you consider it a "bad habit"?

Figure yourself out and then make some decisions. Maybe you have the willpower to control your anxiety without drugs, and maybe you don't. If you're doing these "bad habits" because of some other problem in your life, then surely it should come as no surprise to you that you should resolve those underlying issues first.

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How much swelling and redness is normal after stitches are removed?
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>>18566064
I dunno, just for leave it for a week and see what happens.
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>>18566064
The swelling is only minor, so you'll be fine.
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>>18566064
Take a sniff. If it doesnt smell like rotten / infection you are probably ok. And of course you should follow your doctor instructions.

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I feel more and more empty as days passes.
I want someone to support me emotionally, I keep on searching for a girl to provide me with affection, and get into a relationship, hopefully, but all in vain.

How do I stop feeling this way?

P.S. My life is on track and I'll soon be studying Electrical Engineering.
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Studying should be a major change in your life. Maybe enoguh to spur you on.
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>>18566059
Sure, it will give me motivation, but then again:
>was riding the bus
>someone was with his gf, a bit older than me
>she's all affectionate to him, doing all cute kind of things

I was so fucking jealous. I never had a girl care for me so much as much as she seemed to.

I feel like I am missing out on something...
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>>18566041

>I want someone to support me emotionally,
>i keep o nsearchign for a girl to provide me with affection

wowza, well there's your first problem. not how relationships work, particularly for men.

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>be me
>has ptsd (childhood abuse), crippling anxiety, severe sleeping problems and depression
>tried to seek help from a school counsellor about 5 years back
>"you cant be depressed OP, you have nothing to be depressed about"
>me avoiding any mental help after being turned down
>gets bad advice from adults about facing my fears and having to deal with my past a year later after that
>gets screwed up which costed me my college
>currently a neet and incapable of doing anything
>cant sleep, concentrate, or even function like a normal human being
>I also might have something severe because the fatigue is overwhelming and I can barely breathe just climbing up/down the stairs and I'm not even a fatfuck (I heard its a symptom of leukemia/anemia-which I had before but it wasnt as severe as this)
>tfw my parent is dragging me down, jobless and cant talk sense into making them quit a destructive hobby.

to be cont.
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I can't get a fixed sched job, I have no qualifications and my parent is preventing me from getting one. I live in a shit third world country so moving out is not an option since the minimum wage is like $8 a day (but in reality the pay is $2-4 a day if you dont have basic qualifications such as; at least 2 yrs of college) so even if I do get a job if I move out, it wont be even enough to pay basic rent. I wanted to start a small business but I have no capital to start with. So here are my current options:
>wait another year living in a shit situation and maybe.. just maybe, things will get better with my parent and I can get back to school and have a normal life
>or just kill myself because I know that in all these years nothing has change and I might as well give in to my despair and let go
If I do go with option 2 I need advice how to do it because Im leaning towards it and I just cant handle this feeling of being powerless anymore. I have no friends that could help me so getting help wont be an option. If anyone can suggest something better I would appreciate it.
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>>18566039
Therapy. School counselors are glorified house moms that know jack shit about the real world.
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and im too lazy to get a job thats pays 8 dollars an hour as a bus boy wtf is wrong with me.

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