I smoked maybe 350/365 days for 2 years straight from 19-21.
I'm about to get a degree in biology (this month); have a good GPA, so I didn't exactly waste my time.
My question is: Will my mental faculties return to normal soon? I've taken like a 10 day break, and, while I know this isn't nearly as long as it should be, I still feel much remorse about the past and how remiss I was towards certain aspects of my life.
Can anybody give me some foresight about what I should expect in the future?
***My usage was maybe 1 bowl every night to fall asleep.
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>>18566800
It's over your fucked, jk weed just fuck your short term memory, betters tart getting used to writing things down
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>>18566800
OP cigarettes won't cause dementia because you smoked for 2 years. You might be more unfit and more prone to pneumonia but remember most physisist that created rocket stuff smoked. Freud smoked. George Orwell smoked. If you are afraid for your health that's one thing but your mental faculties shouldn't suffer that much. Though if you can do something about your anxiety that's causing you to smoke so much.
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>>18566800
You got what you deserve for being a degenerate. Try praying next time instead of engaging in pointless hedonism
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This girl I used to have feelings for sent me a message out of the blue after we hadn't talked in over 7 months, and even then sporadically talked for a year or so. I'm over her now and would like to be friends, but I can't help but think talking to this person will bring all those feelings back.
I dont want that because they didnt feel the same way about me and that hurt alot.
Do I respond?
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>>18566771
"Who are you? I don't rememer you right now." Send her that, and gauge what you need from her reaction.
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>>18566801
Uh that's not really gonna fly, we were friends for like at least 2 years we both know who each other is
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>>18566801
This OP. This is a classic move where she is looking for validation, likely cuz she just got rejected from a different male. In order to help her self esteem, she is going to you to have you show her that she still has value. If you send this text, she will get the message that unless she is serious about a relationship (even just a friendship), that you are not interested
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Would you guys fuck a chubby brown chick bitch a decent tits and face?
I can invite her tomorrow, im 23 virgin but have a decent face. my betaness just fucks me so much that ive literally had 8+ decent girls show interest but my anxiety and shitty game turns them away. Plus at this age I have no fucking experience and thats making me feel worse.
Should i lose my v to this chick and get it overwith?
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>>18566747
Yes. do it. Wear a condom. I also lost my virginity with a chubby. It was cool. If you can't get it up don't worry it happens to many virgins. Just don't kys afterwards. ask for a handjob.
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>>18566747
Brown as in nigress? If Hispanic, Middle Eastern, or Indian, I'd say go to town. If she's just watermelon-american, I'd personally advise against it, but it's your dick my friend.
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Can I play a game that requires a Intel Core i5-3570 while my PC has intel(r) core(tm) 2 quad CPU q8300 2.50GHz 2.50GHZ?
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doughnuts
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>>18566737
It'll launch and run, but will very likely be extremely slow and jittery, likely unplayable. The required CPU was released four years after yours. That's a long time in the computer world.
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>>18566737
probably not considering the q8300 is less powerful by a fair amount.
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I am attempting a "no fap reboot" and I can't do this shit.
So much of my fucking sanity pivots on fapping or not. Basically all I do now is lay in bed and think about fapping but I don't physically do it. I don't think that is what no fap is all about.
Hell, does no fap even work? I feel like it will only work for people who are close to getting girlfriends already.
I am treating it as some sort of magic bullet. I feel terrible though fapping like 4-5 times a day.
I am horrifically bored. Help me.
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Go to gym, play games, study , work and you wont have time for jacking off all day. Also when you dont fap for a while it makes it so much more amasingly better when you fap.
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>>18566735
Welp... fap already if its such a great part of your life. Jesus mate it's not a crime. Jesus gave you a hand, a brain and a dick. Duh, it's mathematical. You add up and get a fap
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>>18566735
Start with fapping once a day. Try some hobbies and it will be easy.
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Do women dislike red pubic hair on a man?
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my brother in law has red hair. thanks for the mental image. brb vomiting
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Looks hot to me. Keep the firecrotch.
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>>18566680
women are not a homoegenous series of robots running the same software. some like red hair. a lot don't. it really depends on how the rest of oyu holds up.
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i want to fucking die
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k, have fun
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you know i will
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>>18566649
Keep us posted on how the after life was like OP
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Hi /adv/
I have an aunt who is around 75 years old and emails me every few months, usually forwarding links to new age-tier thinkers she's interested in (pic related).
Would it be wrong of me to reply to her email with a detailed, reasonable case as to why I think this guy is a fraud?
The email she forwarded really makes me angry because of its stupidity.
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what would it achieve to do that?
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>>18566639
If she's getting economically scammed, YES. If not, then have patience and acept it. She's probably lonely and this guy makes her feel somwhat good and she's 75. Don't be "that" guy who ruins other's people's experiences. She won't appreaciate more for it. Just say, "cool stuff aunty" and move on.
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Don't cause her distress because you want to make your point. Let her have this.
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Whenever I call or message a member of my family (a sibling or parent), my girlfriend gets upset with me, and begins to accuse me of liking them more than her, or wanting to spend time with them more than her.
When she accuses me, it's not an angry type of accusation, she never raises her voice or gets mean about it - but rather it's a sad one that always makes me feel like I've done something wrong, as if I've told her I think another girl is attractive to me.
I try to limit talking to my family when she isn't around, when she's at work or busy. But even then, it still upsets her. It's to the point where if she knows my mom or sister messaged me at all during the day, she'll spend the rest of the evening being down about it.
She demands to know every single thing I said to my family. So I tell her - or at least, what was significant enough to remember for me. But if I mention something later that I had forgotten (ex. Oh, my mom told me about X), she'll get upset and accuse me of withholding things from her.
It's not just communications though. When I was visiting my sister the other week, my girlfriend got upset with me later because my arm accidentally brushed against my sister's arm while we walked. She spent an unreasonable amount of time getting sad about it, asking me if it's something I do on purpose, or if it's something I like.
Sometimes she gets upset with me for just mentioning a memory involving a member of my family.
I don't have friends, but if I did, I'm guessing she'd treat the situation similarly.
I care a lot about my girlfriend, and I don't think she's a bad person. But this is getting to the point where I feel afraid to speak to my family, and I know that it isn't healthy. I don't even speak to my family that much either - not as much as she makes it out to be.
What can I do, what do I even say to her? I've tried so many times to tell her how this makes me feel, and to ask her why she is like this. But it never does anything.
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>>18566592
tl;dr for you faggots:
my girlfriend is controlling as fuck and is isolating me from my family. I don't know what to do.
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Therapy
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>>18566592
Its abuse, do not stop talking to people for her. You have to stand up for yourself or leave her.
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I know us guys joke about Chad's
but in girl world are "Stacey's" real?
What are they like and do you currently have any Stacey's in your life?
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>>18566541
yes
they are good at social interaction and have a general style that seems to be informed by american porn
they aren't all stupid though
i have one in my life and she is pretty successful and hates her life
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>>18566550
>i have one in my life and she is pretty successful and hates her life
why does she hate her life?
wouldn't that mean she isn't successful
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yup, she´s got instgram and her whole life is basically geared towards getting nice pics to share on there and get swole guys to comment on them.
she´s also unable to form meaningful realtionships and has an extremely fucked up realtionship with sexuality. she´s approaching 30 and has achieved nada in her life. the wall will be hard on her. other than that, she´s a really lovely girl who just doesn´t get how the world actually works.
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how to kys
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i want it to be painful
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tell me what happen i want to know
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what happend anon?
Cheated on gf with ex for a few weeks. Ex posted picture of us together and mutual friends told gf. Gf called me hiding her tears and basically told me I'm a terrible person and that we were done. Gf and ex talk a bit more. Ex comes and talks with me and tells me she wants to stay together and that my (newly-ex-gf) said that we should. Apparently during their talks she said she 'wanted to be single for college anyways' and "y'all go together so well". I still feel like shit and know I deserve to burn for this. It just kinda snowballed into where it was and I didn't know how to get out of it. They both told me that they forgive me but I don't think that's possible. The two of them are going to be far away in a few weeks so I don't even know what the point is anymore.
Should I just break it off with them both or what I really don't know what to do. I really do care for them both and don't want to hurt either of them (wow good job on that one). My ex has had some pretty fucked up shit happen to her in the past and this is probably the nicest thing that's ever happened in one of her relationships. I'm so fucking conflicted because even If I did end things with the girl I cheated with I would want to keep up with her and make sure nothing terrible was happening to her in university.
Help
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Yes break it off with both. They deserve better. Don't cheat next time.
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They deserve better than a piece of trash like you. Do them a favor and make it snappy you worthless sack of shit.
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>>18566472
Let's be honest. You don't actually want to be in a relationship with the girl you cheated with. If you did, she would have just been your girlfriend to begin with and you wouldn't have kept her as a piece of ass on the side.
If you're going to be an asshole, at least own it. Don't pretend to be some altruistic good guy that really cares about everyone. Just accept that you're kind of a dick, and tell your ex you're not interested in being in an actual relationship with her.
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How do you get a cute girlfriend if you're average looking and autistic? I legitimately want to know.
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>>18566399
If you're already posting rodge, you should know how the chances are for a supreme gentleman like yourself.
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>>18566399
Not rampaging on a killing spree would be a start.
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>>18566403
I'm elliotposting because he's an average looking guy with autism. I'm not mentally ill like him though.
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So I've been talking to this girl and on the surface everything seemed fine. She's a least a 9/10 and we cuddled for like a few hours straigth and she gave me a bj afterwards.
Later at work she practically ignored me, which is strange because she said she likes me a lot.
Apparently she has major daddy/mommy issues and she tried to kill herself one time. Her mom also tried to kill herself several times in front of her.
According to her I'm one of the few people that know this so she trusts me enough to tell me this stuff.
I suck at planning dates and having a "gf" in general.
She said she wanted to take it slow, which is weird because the first two weeks she kept asking if I had any condoms and didn't show any signs of taking it slowly. She took all the initiative so I tried to do this as well and now she acts distant to me. We're in touch sometimes but not as much as I'd like to.
How do I tackle this? How do I win her over and open up more?
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One of the good things with being gay , the supply and demand for dick pics is just right
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>>18566374
There's a 3 bang rule that's sadly pretty acurate. If you didn't bang her at least 3 times that means she's not invested in you and probably will go off the radar without notice. It's not like the BJ it's a forever cementor of interest, but after banging her 3 time, it can be pretty certain that she likes you. Then invest emotionally
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>>18566374
Ask her on date. Simple as that. And then wait 18 hours and ask her on date again. Have condoms ready and tell her she is sexy. And yes, ask her on date again.
Good luck!
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> be me
> Parents have argued for as long as can recall
> Still have a picture I drew when I was 4 of my dad holding a can of lager
> so used to them screaming at each other every day I am literally void of reaction to it
> Father drinks beer every day when home from work till bed and is probably mentally ill yet refuses to go to doctors and is in denial of any problems
> Mother is constantly saying how she "can't live the life she wants to" and I have seen her cry so often that it is almost a normality for me
> Mother is afraid to leave due to money issues and concerned father may kill himself if he is left alone
> She is at her last wits but still refuses to do anything after I tell her to go to doctor or phone hotline or anything
> Marriage is past point of no return they haven't shared bed in 6 + years mum sleeps on couch despite my offerings of bed
> I'm 20 and want to leave but don't want to waste money on rent and am concerned for parents welfare
> Watching parents lives in a vicious cycle
Is there anything I can do to help them? I offered to go with my father to doctors but he refused and my mum believes "doctors don't care". Genuinely love them both and feel agitated I am powerless to do anything.
Tl ; dr parents are sick of each other but refuse to take action, is there anything the child can do????
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no, there's nothing you can do and it's also nome of your business. they both failed at life and you have to try and get away from that destructive environement asap and learn some healthy ways of leading a life if you still can.
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>>18566366
all three of you are adults, those two especially. If they don't want to change then they wont, and at this point they're likely too far in to change anyway.
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>>18566402
But I do care for them both so much and they have been caring and good parents to me, I would feel terrible just turning my back on them.