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Which one? Should I go into.
Pic Unrelated.
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>>18523369
Which one do your like the most?
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These are very different fields...
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>>18523369
You are going to learn more about the human race in dermatology, the girls are probably nicer too.

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I just finished my first year of university, and I know I want to study EE (mostly because it covers a wide range of things) but I don't feel pulled in any particular direction, I just like math and tech. I have really strong feelings, but I don't feel a strong desire to help people, and clearly since I'm on this site I hate people sometimes. Sometimes I feel like everything is just making people lazier. If you had millions of dollars to fund an up and coming project, what would you fund? Is it possible to create something that helps the world in a way people don't realize?
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cmon /sci/ give me some ideas
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>>18523365
Switch to mathematics major
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>>18523367
but math by itself is boring

>I can't find a job
>Automation and robots will make things even more difficult

How i am supposed to live/survive?
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Step one: Stop worrying about thing that (A) are far ahead into the future and (B) you have absolutely no control of.
Step two: Do other things; look for a job.

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If my uni graduation is at 9am tomorrow, what time do I need to be there?

The university guide is kind of shitty and just says 'an hour and a half', but I don't know if thats the earliest time you can arrive to pick stuff up, or if they actually expect you to be there at 7:30 on the dot.
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I got a girl in my sights but im not sure how to act on it. She is pure wife material and I need her in my life. How should I go about asking her out?
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Take a moment, formulate the words in your mind and once yiy are sure of it and won't stutter, go up to her, and pronounce the words "Want to go out sometime?" Notice though, there is a question mark at the end of that sentence, meaning you will have to use an inflection towards to the end of it. In the real world, this is how you people know it's a question. Depending on the the area, you want to adjust your voice volume enough for her to hear but not for her to cringe and flinch at a loud noise.
Once you ask a question it is most typical to await a response. So here is the key part. You have do this thing called waiting.
You want to wait in a comfortable and non-awkward position. If you are sitting, stay sitting, standing, stay standing. By comfortable though, I don't mean drift off as you are about to sleep, no, you want to be paying attention for this..."response."
Typically, a yes is good and no is bad.
Now these words can come in different ways and sometimes even in more than one word.
For example, the following means yes.
"Sure."
"I'd love to."
"Thought you'd never ask."
Ect.

That's all I have time for now. Good luck.
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>>18523337
Kek but where should I ask her out to

How frequent should texting be in a relationship? What should i talk about with GF?
I'm not used to chatting, at least not with just one person. I feel at ease in group chats, less when alone.
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I just try to write like I speak irl

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Pretty sure I have borderline personality disorder. It all fits. Recently,
>ask a coworker if they were forced to kill someone on our shift who would it be
>get fired
>new job
>coworkers are calling me Napoleon because I use chopstick constantly, I say yeah it'll be fucking funny when I follow you home
>not sure what's happening on Monday, super stressed and scared.
So yeah. It's interfering with having a job. I don't seriously want to hurt anyone that's just my sense of humor. People are "concerned" about me
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I'm 24 and have a lifetime of inappropriate behavior stories. When alcohol is involved it gets way worse. I have no criminal history though
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>>18523269
Why would you say that shit?
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repeatedly threatening to kill people while you're at work is not a symptom of borderline personality disorder

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Do you think wanting to be a professional wrestling is an awkward ambition? A wrestling school recently opened near my place. Should i apply? It also fits quite well with my other passion, bodybuilding. But idk, it sounds so unrealistic and goofy... People might judge me because of that, especially because i'm considered some kind of intellectual since i read a lot. What do you think?
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*professional wrestler
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>>18523267
Well if you are already into bodybuilding why not? As long as you aren't above 30 I'd say you could still make a career out of it. Just be prepared for bingo halls and slaving for no money. Life of an entertainer is a bitch.

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Anyone have any stories/advice/ramblings about Craigslist? I'm currently exploring m4m casual encounters in my state, and I'm getting curious. A lot of posts here are junk, but some are written by humans, some who know what they are talking about.

I'd love to try one of these blow-n-go things (or private glory hole), but getting stabbed or catching crabaids is a downside.
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>>18523260
You cant get sex without stepping out from your comfort zone. Doesnt matter if it is boy, girl or something between.

However take note that if he sucks your dick after 5 minutes, he sucks cocks from whole area. So you will get herpes. Or something worse like syphilis, which can make you infertile without symptoms before it is too late.

As far as stabbing goes, only people resisting mugging gets stabbed. Most fags just like to spread their seed and aids. Happy hunting!

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Hey, /adv/, if you ever wanna take a break from relationship stuff I have a dilemma.
I really hate brushing my teeth, and always have, I dislike the act of doing it, but I especially hate how everything tastes fucked up after brushing. I thought I could amend this by just brushing before bed but that doesn't help either because everything still tastes off the next day.
Is there any kind of toothpaste or something that makes it so that my taste buds aren't busted after brushing my teeth?
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I want to know this too, are there any neutral-tasting toothpastes?

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im a 21 yo male neet from a small european country with a very overly attached mom who doesnt lets me go to work in other countries. if it was up to her she would let me neet my life away until she was dead but i dont want it. what should i do?
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find a job in the community and cherish her
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>>18523235
Do what you want and ignore your mom.
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>>18523258
Fuck that his mom is doing more damage then good.

If you mug someone, leave their religious and marriatal jewelry, it can easily tie you to a victim and they may fight you for it. The rock on her finger is not worth a rock on the ankle for a rock in your pipe.

'If' is the word, not 'go now and mug but remember this'. People who mug are going to mug. I'd like it if they knew the increased risk of getting caught for taking a $300 wedding ring thats been passed down just so they can get more than they need. And a lot of muggers are crackheads or people who for what ever reason can't work and need to feed their kids. Some people don't deserve jailtime for minor theft currency, and some need to get off the streets. I'm sick of the cycle. And while you may liken it to parle, arrangements have always been why humanity could think of working together. I am incentivizing those that do, that ethical approach to crime is often the syndicate the people with tolerate.
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>>18523227
Thanks, I appreciate this post. You're right, those expensive items can be used to track you down if you pawn them or something.

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I wanted your guys' input on a life situation of mine. I am currently unemployed and still need to get back to community college and finish my next year. My first and last job was an hour of driving every day for $9/hr as a cashier, but the hours fluctuated so damn much and the management/supervisors were lazy assholes and they did not give us working clocks so we did not know when to get off, and a lot of times they would forget to tell me to go home. They fired me after 3 months for using a coupon that was not specifically printed for me, so I needed a new job to start funding myself. I am not good socially, and totally unskilled, so I tried to apply at simple places like a dollar store or stocking at a market in town. I did not even get a call for an interview from anyone. Recently, I also noticed that I really don't feel much, and the only feelings I really do show is when I laugh, and everything else is hard to get out. Like, if I watch something sad, I barely even feel any sadness, even though I wana cry for it. I live in the woods with my parents and we live about 10-20 minutes from town, and I already graduated from high school, so I barely talk to anyone outside of my family, which just makes it harder for me socially. What is all of your input on this?
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>>18523205
Go to college away from home. You need to get away from that town and the safety of your home and start living. In a small town, word gets around and everybody knows your business. Your job problems could be a result of this. Also you have to become more social by forcing yourself to do it. Watch other people for awhile at a restaurant, shopping mall etc if you need ideas. Therapy is always a help but costs without insurance or money.

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everyone is expected. including you!
>>>/r9k/38407351

ban disclaimer: what should i eat today?
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Can't afford therapy at the moment, and this is the only place I could post something like that.

My trouble is that I constantly avoid any responsibility in relationships and it cost me much. While it does seem to be a serious problem, there are some other things to consider, they make initial situation bleak. First and foremost, as soon as problem arises I tend to withdraw myself, I feel stressed and stuck. Yet, it is fascinating into what it develops. I seek companionship with other women, because they are safe and don't bring any troubles. I start to feel completely detached from my partner, it's extremely hard to hold the urge to run to other women. I don't cheat physically and I prevent any flirting attempts because I feel this is the right thing to do, but at the same time I refused and avoided speaking to my girlfriend sometimes, pretending I don't see her messages, preferring other women, I feel extremely uncomfortable and want to run away as soon as possible. It is always easier to change a woman, rather than work in the relationships. If I feel that my partner have some accusations in my side, where they might be true and I should change it, I start to act arrogant and ignore it, making it impossible to adapt, they either are trying to fool me or speaking about something they don't know. Recently, my resentment has been raising drastically, and I notice that if problem or conflict arises, or there's something I don't like, I want to apply physical violence immediately, or call her "dumb fucking whore", so on. Speaking about sex, I do feel incredibly aroused if I know there won't be sex but we are close enough, but if everything escalates I lose interest, and, again, want to run away.

How do I address the trouble? What the hell is it? Is it OK to feel like that?
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>>18523136
You seem to have some sort of attachment issue that prevents you from getting close to women.

What was your upbringing like?
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>>18523193
My father was/is considered to be respectful and pedantic sort of guy, leader and somewhat industrious. CEO, thousand subordinates, so on, so forth. He was strict and always wanted me to be completely disciplined and goal-oriented. I have a very good relationship with my father, mostly I have no problem maintaining friendship with men.

As far as I have noticed my only reminiscence about relationship with mother was negative. Her way of thinking is purely down-to-earth and corporate, yet she doesn't "sit on my one's neck", works, gaining money, responsible. But I remember her blaming me much, insulting. I tried to work on it, on my own, but resentment towards women is just insane. I have woman friends, though, whom I respect. Speaking about mother, I have never seen that she ever was affectionate with my father. 21 years passed by, I am full of dysfunctional relationships with women, who told me they feel my fear and that I can't open myself up to them, then proceed to break up. In 21 years I haven't ever seen that my mother reciprocated anything. When I hug my mother I don't feel anything but coldness.
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>>18523236
So to put it simply you have mommy issues.

You are going to have to take this on with a therapist because issues with parents are very complex.

For now you can read some books on the subject of dysfunctional families and growing up with a dysfunctional mother. Therapy will be what really helps though and I would avoid relationships until you can get some therapy in you.

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