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So I don't need to see a psychologist, can someone tell me what is wrong with me? I am diagonised with Aspergers but they changed it to social anxiety... MY REAL PROBLEM (which I literally just displayed) is my thoughts are not organized properly

I should've made that 3rd sentence 1st.

I ramble E.G. If I had to say 4 sentences of dialogue, I would say the 3rd sentence first, then the 2nd, then 1st, then 4th... And it takes me a long long time to explain things.

I have "racing thoughts" too, several per minute, too fast to verbalize, other times I am calm and have NOTHING to say.

For these reasons I am socially hindered. I fail at everything that involves socializing. High social anxiety, that probably made them think I was autistic (Idk if I am)

Also, big mood swings.

I sometimes spend hours writing/editting a long email, or several minutes wrting a short text.

This only took me 5 minutes to write.

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Hey /adv/ I just had some shit happen and need that sweet sweet 3rd party to chime in. I was chilling at a buddies house and my mother texted me that I had spilled iced tea all over my table and computer. I know I'd left a small cup with a little tea in the bottom on my table but it was probably 6 inches from the edge. I know this because over the years i've conditioned myself to not set cups and things too close to the edge of my table specifically because my computer is on the floor next to it. She wouldnt tell me how the cup fell and kept angrily telling me it was my fault. Thing is I build my table by hand out of some pretty heavy wood and it would take a SUBSTANTIAL blow to shake it enough to knock over that cup. You also cant see my computer from my doorway youd need to actually be in the room. I'm thinking she was in my room for whatever reason and accidentally knocked it over. Anyway my graphics card got fried and possibly some other stuff. The graphics card alone is around $700. At the moment shes still very angry at me, even though i've done nothing. If she did do it how can I go about getting her to tell the truth and replace whats broken?

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Hey /adv/.

So, how do I make friends? I had to cut all of mine off because they were all huge druggies and I don't really want to live my life as a high functioning drug addict (the irony is that I can't seem to take alcohol off my list yet) I also don't want to have to attempt to have my gf's friends as my friends because she needs her space just like me. But now I don't have a space to go to.

Should I just use /soc/? How often does that work? I can't really make small talk very well. I'm into cartoons and psychological horrors. Oh, and Godzilla movies. I also have that typical outsider taste in music too. Pretty much a failed normie.

Tldr; How do I make friends?

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New to site; I've been playing guitar for 10 years now and I'm pretty decent other than the fact of not knowing how to read actual music notes. I've been using tabs for ages. Just no clue where to start to get me out of this plateau.

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generally i am really kind man, i do not like gossip, have got deep love for animals,kids even trees and i always do not believe violence can solve anything.

but there is one guy in my work place, he always act stupid and never empathizes me, i tried to communicate with him many times, but he is like deaf or idiot, i am not sure

yesterday, he started to blame me about the dirty coffee mug on my table that i forget yesterday due to work till midnight.This is non of his business.But while i was listening him, i saw some kind of visions or fantasies that i am killing him in a very brutal way and it happened twice in 5 mins.I was shocked, because i never thought something on that level.Yeah, i felt angry but thoose visions were very extreme shit

his throat was cut deeply by me while i was hold his body then i started to squirt his blood to the walls of our workplace, all white walls were painted with his blood

i saw this vision in seconds.But it was so real.So what is the meaning of this? i believe i am not physcopath..

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I'm still fucking afraid of the dark, and though I don't think it's what's causing my insomnia it doesn't fucking help. Recently I keep catching silhouettes and movement in my peripheral vision too. I think that's just the sleep deprivation.
Keep playing out the scenarios in my head, like closing my eyes and opening them again only this time there's something there, you know. Crouched right up at my face, or at the other end of the room. Sometimes the silhouettes of shit in my room gets blurry in the dark and I have to focus to make sure it isn't something, someone, fucking curled up and waiting. Recently I almost didn't go to the toilet at night because I was afraid of hands grabbing my feet and pulling me under the bed as soon as I stepped out of it. Monsters under the fucking bed, serious kid shit. I've tried to just tough it out but it's unbearable. The one respite I've got is shoring up the blankets beside me to make a wall, and hiding under it. Only works if the bed is against a wall. Stiflingly hot too. Rationally speaking shit would just reach in from the top, but I think it's what my dad did for me when I was a kid so it works. I wouldn't count alcohol as a permanent solution but it works too.


I lift and I have weapons on hand so even if there was something I could fuck it up badly but god damn I still get terrified of this shit, and I'd really love to fucking know if there's a way to kick it.

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I just bought a 2006 CPI GTR 152cc scooter, and it seems parts for this bike are very hard to find! Anybody else own one?

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Right now i'm going to a tennis camp where you learn big ping pong and hit eachother with balls, and theres this one little shit who wont stop fucking screaming everytime he doesnt get his way. In most games when he doesnt hit the ball or gets out he starts with his stupid fucking half breed autistic screeching that sounds like the fakest cry ever, with real tears. the coaches are just floating balls to him and he cant hit for shit because his body looks like a godamn mutated pear, which makes him scream even harder. They keep letting him win games and none of the other kids win shit, so they feel like they arent doing good enough. I'm gonna confront him in a few hours and i'm not sure how to talk to him about it, i've hinted at it and it appears he doesnt even want to talk about it. he's tall, black, and has a beard (pic related this looks like him), so ill probably have to beta this, any suggestions?

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I found a bin of 15+ Intel Pentium Pros. How should I go about selling them?

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i have incredible rejection sensitivity, and my emotional responses leave me in blithering mental anguish

i try to meditate and work out but neither of these work, i still hurt a lot

it's especially harsh right now because i have feelings for somebody who doesn't like me, and people tell me i shouldn't feel as hurt about it as i do, yet i do and no matter how hard i try i can't stop feeling really hurt

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I'm a 23 year old male with a binge eating problem.
I used to be a solid 8/10 (not making this up or even exaggerating). Women used to check me out all the time. I went into a stupid masters course and it was all downhill from there.

I literally cannot stop eating. I threw away all the food in my fridge and even then I ordered pizza. I could have simply not ordered anything but my willpower is so less it is pathetic.
I have enough motivation (to get back to my handsome self )but I can't do it.
Help me bros and girls

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Been having difficulty eating lately.

I rent the basement belonging to a young couple, but the kitchen is upstairs. I normally try to stay out of sight and out of mind as possible since I'm terrified of inconveniencing them in any way. My mind is constantly dominated by the prospect that I'm a nuisance and they regret renting to me. But in order to eat, I have to go upstairs and use the kitchen for roughly half an hour to prepare my dinner. I attempt to do this when they're out, but it's seldom possible. What happens more frequently is that it takes several hours for me to work up the courage to go upstairs and by the time I finish making my dinner it's roughly ten at night. By that point, I'm worried that they think I'm strange and that I might be keeping them up.

Could use some help or even just the perspective of someone who has rented before.

Thank you

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I just caught myself admiring my name in a groupchat message. I think I have a subtle narcissism, and not just for that reason.

A friend group that I'm in was almost a cult for a while. Ridiculous stuff, we'd all be so happy, constant drug and alcohol use, and copious amounts of praise flowed my way. Too much. I'm a fairly charismatic guy, and I do try to encourage people a lot, and I suppose it just led to that. I became like weirdly addicted to that recognition. I knew it was going to my head, but I liked it too much. So I'd associate with these people every single day for months. In the beginning it was all ecstasy and positivity, but resentment grew and the shine of a new friend group wore off. People left one by one, I wanted more and more when I had already gotten constant ubiquitous appreciation. I even got a little paranoid. There was a guy who was trying to compete with me for my "spot", but not overtly. We were best friends and quite similar, so he was kind of jealous. Eventually I tried to flex my power and trash his reputation to everyone, and it worked, but mostly just by fragmenting what was left of the group aside from a few of us. We've since made up, gotten better, and people are now friendly again, but it was a weird ride. Definitely a dark and trying time. Interesting though.

I also had this girlfriend who I broke up with become obsessed with me to the point of restraining order.

And these experiences, all they do is feed my ego. I just can't get over how cool I think I am anymore. I really want someone to call me out in real life. To point out how much of an egocentric person I became. Because I can't do it myself.

How do I move past this? I suppose being aware of it is a good step, but I don't want to be this self-obsessed. I want to look outwards. I want to get out of my head and be humbled.

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>be me around 1-2 years ago
>really into Instagram memes
>popular page makes a group
>great opportunity to make friends cause I have non
>they mention Smash 4
>start talking about smash and our mains n shit
>girl by the name Annabel in chat tells me about her main
>"I main villager"
>I also main villager, we play smash and hit it off since we both also like AC
>we start talking daily, playing AC:NL and smash
>she asks me to Skype her friends and join their group
>fast forward a month or so, I get Interested in Annabel, she likes most the things I like, shes cute and great personality
>we stay up late in a call watching Chowder, and we realized we both liked each other and go out
>FuckYes.jpg
>Fast forward around a few months, group wars have gone down, with people arguing left and right
>most of it is because I accidentally brought a lot of discourse into the group
>Annabel's best friend starts to flirt with me, and after around 2-3 months of flirting I regrettably break it off with Annabel for the other girl
>turns out girl only wanted me for sexual advances, so I break it off, and since no one in the group really likes me im exiled, along with a few others
>feels pretty fucking bad man, and I still had feelings for Annabel
>2-3 months go by and I get a text from her saying she misses me, so we talk on skype
>she wants me to whip my dick out
>skeptical af but I do it
>her and this other guy on a call with her on her phone laugh at me while he says "How does it feel that im dicking down your girl?" and ends the call
>im distraught
>2 months later she comes back and apologizes (this time for real)
>figure out she still loves me, but im stuck in this fucking purgatory of being the guy she likes but wont go out with because of our past
>Mfw ive made the worst choices in the past 1-2 years than I have ever in my entire life, and as punishment im stuck in this purgatory

Tell me how much of a moron I am

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>Be male
>great believer of gender equality
>don't think of women as inferior or have any backwards mentality on the matter
>believe in inclusion and a more plural, progressive society
>can't stand social injustice

>be me when watching porn
>"damn look at that fucking hot bitch"
>"wanna treat like a slut and cum all over her holes"
>"wanna chock her with my dick"
>"you are a dirty worthless piece of meat"

is...is this normal?