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>>18595013
Don't over think it or worry about it too much. It's hardwired into you and as long as you don't finish instantly you won't be a let down for her.

My only advice would be to start with kissing/fingering etc until she seems to be really into it. If you try to insert right away she probably won't get as much out of it and you'll probably finish before she's even getting warmed up.

>>18595013
take your time, wait for her to be really into it to start imitating a jackhammer or what have you

>>18595035
It is less about cuddling itself. I'll probably spend more time foreplaying anyway.

It's more about my performance itself. At my age girls probably expect a minimum time/angle exp. Etc. Also i tend to be more interested in slightly older chicks (+2-3 years than me) making the thing worse.

Is it better to >>18595040 just wing it? Or be transparent about being a virgin before going down?

>>18595010
Stop*, filthy phone post.

please go tumblr

>>18595015
Thats what I said after I spilled it.

This just sounds like a situation where you'll need to watch what you eat but can otherwise live life normally. Wait until the test results come back and see what happens

>>18594950
My gut feels like it's in a state of constant inflammation, by avoiding foods that I react strongly to I can at least have more consistency in my energy levels but I still don't really feel good. There is some history of problems like this in my family and they are not really curable...

I will of course see what happens with the test results and take care of my diet as much as I can, but I am just wondering how people deal with this type of thing if it's a chronic condition.

I'm not in pain (usually) and I can work and generally live my life, I just feel like shit most of the time while I'm doing it.

Try fasting for a day or two to reset
And eat non inflammatory fruits
Avoid processed sugars, fast foods, proceseed carbs

>>18594940
Well you can try some fetishes with your gf.

Get a waifu, it's not cheating if she's 2D.

>>18594940
>am still masturbating regularly
Stop this, exercise regularly, cut stimulants, pornography, and alcohol. It cured it for me- I'm 28, so I'm a little older, but I've come to realize fapping to over the top pornography has caused me to have an expectation of sexual prowess, and degradation that I cannot expect from a partner- especially one who I plan on being with for an extended period of time.

>>18594925
Go make Columbine look like a joke

try to make your death noble so your family wont cry and say you died in vain. Atleast they will get to have a last story to remember you by "he saves ___ from a fire or he did the ultimate sacrifice by donating his body to sick children etc. idk

>>18594925
Donate your organs.

>>18594878
Massive hands, androgynous face, shoulders wide enough to block a car lane. It's possible but sometimes real women just get the short stick and look manly. Only way to find out is to take the relationship further.

yea I am not completely convinced I did not feel a dick when kissing but might be pre op?

You may have kissed a dude. So what?

>>18594869
What does the water bottle label say for ingredients? Sometimes they add baking soda to the bottled water and it gives it kind of a sweaty asscheek flavor.

>>18594869
That's fucking disgusting

Are you american? Apparently many of you have problems adapting to water after lots of soft drinks and flavoured milk in early life, from what i got from /ck/...you should try different waters until you find the one disgusting you the less and force yourself to drink it until you like it, now you are young so your body can handle a beating but you have not so long as you think to change your habits

>>18594829
Why the fuck would you do that? Do you have autism?

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>>18594832
Idk. I wanted her to know because it might be embarassing for her. She's my friend.

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Maybe I'm just weird now, maybe I've seen too much fucked up shit, or done too many drugs, but I could give a fuck now about these lame possessions and a lot of old friends seem to be obsessed with it. I want to see more.

You're not wrong no, although I naturally lost interest in all of that near my junior year of high school. I occasionally read manga now but I don't have any merch of anything like that
I've noticed that people now have a hard time letting things go (see all the grown men carrying Nintendo switches)

>>18594807
>but when do we really just grow up and ditch all these stupid toys?
There's no reason to anymore.

Im curious if anyone has experienced this before. I think theres multiple ideas to what this could really be

> She genuinely doesnt like it and chooses better things to do with me, but this is how her friends hang out so she has to do it and thus they try to make it a girls night

> she doesnt want me to see that she drinks more heavily than I thought she did

> she doesnt think i fit into that scene so she doesnt want me to fake enjoyment

Am I missing something? what sounds likely? Isnt this so weird?

Im so fixated on this because it happened again tonight and its so frustrating. She is completely down for me to hang out with her friends and ive met all of them so its not a hiding thing either. I LOVE little bar games like arcade and pool and shit and ive told her and she just never wants to go with me.

regardless of what posts follow this is a hard problem OP

some will tell you that you're being controlling or that she needs time with friends or whatever, some will tell you she's definitely cheating and to drop her immediately, I say you suck it up and if she ends up fucking another dude you'll find out sooner or later

>>18594785
Thanks for replying, I agree that this can go many ways.

I have never limited her in doing this for what its worth, and she has said shes really glad im not controlling or anything like that. I want her to go with friends and have fun and be able to hear stories about some giant dick her friend swallowed without worrying that i may hear and get my feelings hurt from girl talk or whatever.

I just wanna be able to go do those fun things with her too. When shes depressed she gets into these states of being super sad that all we do is go see movies, watch netflix, go to the arcade and shopping malls. When shes happy, thats all she wants to do though. She will be depressed saying she wants to do new things with a big group of friends and me there, but then things will be going great and I wont get invited tonight to a big group of friends at a new bar playing pool. Fucking sucks.

I agree that if its happening I will find that out sooner or later, it would be such a shock though.

>>18594743
>not illegal
stop trying to hate crime this loving, totally natural and great relationship

you bigots are just projecting your own perversions on this beautiful union of gay man and vict- i mean, child

>>18594752
I'm genuinely concerned for my brother.

He's a fucking moron and done stupid shit before but this time he might actually get fucking killed.

>>18594758
your faggot brother deserved to get lynched though

gas chambers for all sexual deviants

>>18594689
>but I'm a girl and I shouldn't go on my own

This isnt the 50s and im assuming you arent living in saudi arabia..

Dont be ignorant, be a mature adult and go on your own.

Go on your own. Thoroughly plan the trip, bring some mace or a stun gun and an envelope of backup cash that you only touch when an emergency hits. Done.

I'm a man and I think about getting away for a week all of the time, particularly Europe. I want to do it alone but I can't help but feel like everyone will think I'm insane for going alone or my friends will be pissed I didn't ask them to come with me. Sigh.

>>18594697
Even going out in the park I have creeps picking on me. Some days more than others.

Im just averagely attractive but I think i attract suspicious people since Ive been told I look spaced out and defenseless.

>>18594687
See a therapist, duh.

A bunch of virign pre-pubescent nerds aint going to help you any.

your petty fights sound like the petty fights I had with my gf. at some point I would always stop us and suggest we discuss our problems when we weren't both mad, since that's never productive

I miss her

>>18594687
non-virgin femanon here, bitch you better fucking resolve those petty fights, othervise there is no point in being married later, cause you will divorce (maybe last few years, but no more)
Are you living together? Who owns place? How long engaged? Age?

>me 23, living with sister 28.
>Her bf moved in recently
>in spring his flat reconstruction will end and they both will move there
>they always fight in public/home doesnt matter
>me is stressed, bc they want me to take their side of argument
>me cant take side, so end up being at fault for not supporting

if you and he cant stop being hurt by previous conflicts and still bring them up after a long time, you will be just always having fights and nothing more, at some point you will argue more than you have normal conversation.. soon you will split up.

>me had very simmilar relationship to Anon
>lasted 1,5 years
>worst time of my life
>even when with friends, both argue

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>>18594657
How did you fuck up?

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>>18594668
I just put too much of myself out there when I really shouldn't have and I moved forward and it makes me cringe looking back on it. I'm sure anyone who cares enough could dig and find it if I was posting from a place where you knew who I was. I'm also getting serious about security and that would be kind of moot with all that out there. Just wanted to know if /adv/ has any experience with this

>>18594674
If it's just cringey shit, who cares? Learn to laugh at yourself.

many many girls never cum from intercourse. try stimulating your clit or a position that hits your g spot.

>>18594653
Details? what did he do exactly.

>>18594653
I go down on my girl frequently until orgasm, especially in the beginning of our relationship, and now she gets off from my very average penis. Honestly I think women at first are trying too hard and unable to fully relax with a new guy, and a guy going down on a chick is the ultimate form of flattery and attraction. Have him eat the box for awhile, get used to where he needs to cause friction and how to penetrate, then the transition to the penis shouldn't be a guessing game.