Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 674. page

I enjoy mine. The tattoos are pretty much meaningless, but I love the memories i got while doing them (once with friends). I'd do it again.

>>18611513
I've wanted them crazily and regret it.

Weirdly I'd rather be free of tattoos or have a fully body tattoo look.

>>18611513
I don't and I would because getting my tattoo was a very conscious decision that I didn't take lightly.

>>18611403
Masturbation has NOTHING to do with "brain fog". Daily masturbation is well within the boundaries of "normal" for a 19 year old. Stopping could cause you more problems just because you'd be thinking about it more.

If you've got "brain fog" it is not coming from your penis.

>>18611434
Actually there are studies shown that porn causes lowered cognitive functions:

1.https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/15140364/

2.https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/23167900/

>>18611403
Bump

>>18611230
Read books, do some sport, listen to people around you, dont be a dick to others, be assertive, make few friends, focus on school and brush your teeth.

Everything else will come itself with time. Fake it until you make it.

take responsibility.

sounds like "yeah, i do that", but think about it long and hard. this isn't just about the responsibility to take out the trash and pay your bills, go to work on time and do yearly dental check up's.
it's about taking responsibility for who you are. stop blaming others for your emotions and your issues. they might have cause them, but how you deal with them and how long you feed them is entirely your responsibility.

>>18611230

No one knows. We just do what we can. If you have so specific problem you'd like to talk about, let us know. But "adult" means nothing. Everyone does it their own way.

>>18611210

Find the root of your problems. Work on fixing that.

anger issues aren't attractive. assertivenes and selfesteem are. you don't seem to be able to distinguish between them. learn the difference and grow the fuck up.

>>18611225
Note taken, gotta develop self-esteem and know when to be assertive.

>>18611177
Use the one that gives you some benefit. I use my Amex card rather than Visa because I get double points for doing it. Debit card gives me nothing back so it sees no action.

>>18611228
You get fees with credit though. I will admit I haven't checked the benefits for using credit. Are they enough to offset the fees?

I just don't see value in them, right now.

Credit Card = Spending money you don't have now, paid back with extra later.
Debit Card = Spending money you have in the bank right now.

You pay for the convenience of a credit card by paying back more money than the amount you spent with it (aka, interest).
This can be useful for buying "big" items you might not have enough saved to buy outright on your own.
However, you can fuck yourself p. hard if you use it and don't pay off the balance asap.
And even if you pay the card off on time every time, you will always pay more than you spent just for the priveledge of "borrowing" that money.

Using debit requires you have the amount spent in the bank, (unless you have an overdraft arrangement, which comes with it's own stupid shit) but once it's done it's done. No fucking about with interest, payment deadlines or any of that shit.

Generally Debit > Credit for 99% of everything you spend money on regularly. Groceries, fuel, housekeeping, bills, whatever random shit you feel like buying.
No fuss, no hassle, less cost.

>>18611228
>Debit card gives me nothing back so it sees no action.
Sure it does. It gives you the ability to not pay interest on your purchases.

Personally, I don't use credit cards at all. The benefits and incentives are of no use at all to me, and spending more money to have <thing> right now just seems horribly impatient and wasteful.

Cheat every chance you get to keep things spicy

What's the longest time you have went before meeting your ldr partner? To any of skins who have been in one .

>>18611111
Yeah, as long as we
>Really do love each other
>Have a chance to meet relatively often
>Have a plan to close the distance
I would go for it.

Stop talking to him and start improving yourself. Get fit, eat healthier, spend more time with friends and family so that you become happy rather than acting it through having new flings with other guys, that's just cheating yourself out of a happier existence.

Source- A bloke who dumped a girl and severely regrets it a year later.

>>18611006
You can get yourself together and find somebody else, for example.

..or you can risk humiliating yourself by lame attempts to get back with somebody that does not even like you at this point.

>>18611015
I've been working on myself since then. Lost some weight so far, got a higher position at work and have achieved quite a lot but still feel empty without him. Everything would be more enjoyable if he was there and I can't stop thinking about that.

>>18611020
Thanks for your input but I'm willing to take that risk. I'm not asking whether or not I should try to get him back. I'm asking how I should do it.

oh boy are you in for a rude awakening

>>18610909
And why would you think that

>>18610912
because you still haven't realized that porn isn't reality

>>18610858
>How does a guy go from crying over me to blocking me without a second thought in less than a week?

He is probably as emotionally unstable as you are.
For a lot of people this whole online relationship fuck-around loses its fun as soon as you get with the other person.

>Someone help me

Replace him with some other fella online or break up this damaging behavior of looking for partners long distance.

>>18610865
He's not that far away though. He's in the next state and we were going to meet once I got my car.

He changed so quickly. How can someone do that?

>>18610869
>He's in the next state and we were going to meet once I got my car.

Nah you weren't. These things always go down like that sadly.

Who knows maybe the prospect of actually meeting up with someone creeped him out and scared him away?

>He changed so quickly. How can someone do that?

How long did you have contact for previously?

>>18610834
Not unless the "body count" meant she had dozens of failed relationships behind her. A lot of meaningless casual sex is just that, meaningless.

Don't lie to yourself. If she has a beat up cunt and can't maintain a relationship then why bother?

>>18610834
It depends on how she murdered them

Just have a good time. Dont think about the date, she is a human like you no different. Just have a good time and if the opportunity presents itself, hold her hand or get closer.

>>18610763
Be yourself, but act like a more confident, cooler version. Looks matter too, so clean up.

>t. 19 yr old virgin NEET

Have positive vibes, be chill and be confident. Don't force yourself to act overly happy. Don't try to impress her. Just go in there with the genuine urge to learn about another person.

>>18610633
The best way to get over a celeb is to just stop following what they are doing. Pretty fucking simple.

You could always find a lover that bears resemblance to them?

>>18610641

If he's truly obsessed then his brain will bring him back to it duh. That's the point of obsession. He CAN'T just drop it.

>>18610609
>Is assholery just in my blood?

I'm guessing that's still better than blood in your asshole...

>>18610609
How much of an asshole are we talking here?

>>18610617
>be me
>be 17
>Tried to throw friend's kitten off of roof bc I thought it'd be funny
>Friend punched me, and never talked to me again
>Got rep as the school psycho
That isn't even the worst I've done.

Take things slow. Be understanding and supportive. If you come on too strong, it could make her push you away to protect herself. A lot of people have this problem. A good relationship with the right person can help them overcome their fears, but you have to be patient for it to work.

>>18610543
She work on those problems for a long time ago and still don't want to deal with it.

She said to me that she desire to stay friend with the pervert narcissist. and i don't want this.

>>18610556
She wants to stay friends with someone responsible for giving her this problem in the first place? Did she give a reason?

>>18610491
Because we men are naive and stupid, we ge easily controlled by our impulses and we like to think we are in control adn that the women we treat are some innocent honest little flowers.
\
We are dumb, fuck it, what's your point?

They say relationships are built on trust

>>18610498
OP is obviously a one night stand type of pussy